Understanding Your Attachment Style

The Path to Overcoming Unhelpful Patterns and Building Healthy, Secure Relationships

By: Marc Cameron

Narrated by: Marc Cameron

From a licensed marriage and family therapist, this empathetic book is the key to achieving secure relationships with your loved ones and breaking away from painful patterns.

Our individual attachment style plays a crucial role in the quality of our relationships and is often the strongest predictor of how secure and connected we feel with others. Yet, many people remain unaware of their own attachment style—let alone how to shift from an unhealthy style to one that fosters safer, healthier, and more fulfilling relationships. Fortunately, awareness around attachment theory has grown significantly in the past decade. As this framework becomes increasingly central to modern mental health discussions, Marc Cameron is emerging as a leading voice in bringing this awareness.

Marc and his wife, Amy, have taken up the mantle of leading the How We Love brand, the organization founded by renowned attachment experts Milan and Kay Yerkovich. Building on the foundation of their groundbreaking book How We Love (with over 400,000 copies sold), Marc helps readers uncover and understand the attachment style they developed in childhood.

In this book, Cameron thoroughly explains each attachment style and provides easy methods for readers to self-identify with theirs. He offers clear, practical steps for moving toward a secure attachment style, providing the insight and direction so many are seeking to improve both their inner lives and relationships.

Understanding Your Attachment Style will not only help you understand your attachment style but also guide you in overcoming barriers associated with each style so that you can enjoy the healthy, loving connections you were designed for.

If you're a fan of "How we Love", this is a great deep dive into each attachment style...

What I love about "Understanding your attachment style", is how much deeper Marc goes into each attachment style. I appreciate the client anecdotes shared in the chapters, which provide real examples of what Marc is trying to teach. It really helped me understand how I often can get disconnected from my wife because of our different attachment styles, and how to move towards unity. This book has practical advice you can apply after chapter 1, strategies to deal with areas you may need to grow, but most importantly encouragement to keep moving towards hope instead of wishing things will get better in your most important relationships. That's in the book! Well done Marc and I plan to share this resource with anyone who will listen. Fantastic addition to all of the great resources at How We Love!