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Publisher's Summary

More than 95% of guys don't pick up on a woman's sex signals. Here's how to make sure you're not one of them.

You're in a crowded bar, and the hottie across the room breaks eye contact to put on lipstick. Do you assume she's:
a. Vain
b. Rude
c. Totally into you?

If you've answered with anything other than c, you're dead wrong.

Women are always giving off signals, and men are always missing them. In Undercover Sex Signals, bestselling author and communications expert Leil Lowndes shows how to score on every pass, with everything from the best activity for a first date to how a guy should dress to increase his odds for sealing the deal. Learn the twenty-six undercover sex signals and the real tactics that will teach you to:

  • Master step-by-step foreplay from across the room
  • Use right opening phrases (not lines!)
  • Never hear the word "no" again
  • Look for sex in the right places
  • Win in the online sex game
  • Develop the never-fail pickup
  • Understand the perfect timing for when to ask, when to kiss, when to call, and other follow-up strategies

With invaluable advice, Undercover Sex Signals ensures that you'll never blow another opportunity again.

©2001 St. Paul Street Press, LLC; 2006 Leil Lowndes (P)2015 Brilliance Audio, all rights reserved.

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How to be a beta-bux is correct title for this

What could have made this a 4 or 5-star listening experience for you?

It was annoying and had too much superfluous anecdotes.

What was the most interesting aspect of this story? The least interesting?

The whole book is how to roll over to women and be a sniveling little yes man so you can end up being her beta bux. According to the book the 5 most important traits that women are looking for: Resources, Status, Strength, Emotionally Caring, Intelligence. This book's main idea used to "pick up" women is to approach and compliment and then interview the lady and mimic her body language after the female has given some micro signal that you are supposed to be able to notice in a crowded bar.

Would you listen to another book narrated by Joyce Bean?

Doubtful.

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Not for everyone...

This book is more so for the guys who has no clue or confidence. You can follow the steps in this book to land a girl but you're doing it by not being yourself. True happiness is found when you are with someone who liked you for you...dorkiness and all.

Yes, all guys should know and understand the signs of a woman and this book does lay it all out there. It does a good job at letting a man know how his wardrobe can ruin his chances, and how you definitely should match a woman's energy by not overpowering her with jokes or sarcasm, especially when you're not sure if she even liked you yet.

The main issue of this audio is the tone of the voice explaining the information. It's very monotone and sometimes sound like a "Text-to-speech" app. There's no life in her voice and the jokes are pretty bad (I'm sorry).

Overall, this book is what it says it is. You may not need all the information but there's something in it for everyone...of you can listen long enough to find it.

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Buying designer to swoon women? 😄

Some solid facts in this book, yes. I can’t say I’d recommend this book or even revisit it myself though.

In a chapter towards the end of the book, she talks about how appearance is very important along with personality and character. This is 100% a fact but I can’t believe this lady said that you should buy designer clothes & a designer pen. A damn “Cartier Pen”.

Yeah, maybe for gold diggers & wannabe socialite girls who give an F about that type of crap. “When she asks about it, do the old “oh, this old thing. I liked it so I bought it.”

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I have had tons of meaningless designer things. Tons. I will be the first one to say, anyone who gives you advice to get nice things to [convince] a woman to find you attractive and like you is bullsh*t.

Brothers, just be yourselves. If she doesn’t like you for the authentic you. Too bad. There are billions of women in this world and you better believe you have the courage within you to be you in front of all of them. Yes, always, as a man, you challenge yourself, dress nice & smell good. Never question weather you did something right or wrong as long as you are being authentic, open with your intentions & trusting your gut.

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Stay on point

Good content but this book is nearly 6 hours and could be summarized to about an hour, and still have far more details than necessary.

The author jumps from talking about the meat of her content to randomly trying to seek approval to a meandering story that has nothing to do with anything. I get that for most people reading this category need reaffirmation that they should trust you as most of this is bull that is far too overthought any way, but you do not need to try to demonstrate your credibility as a trustable source every chapter. Do it in the first two chapters and move on!

With some structure this would be compelling. I don’t think at any point I heard clearly what all the 26 signals were. I would have liked a very simple these are the 26 signals and these are there applications. Instead you occasionally here multiple in a single chapter or occasionally go multiple chapters without a new one being introduced.

This would be excellent if all the EXTENSIVE fluff was removed and the content was organized. As of now it’s more the authors story than focused on the science, which is the only part that really lends credibility to a woman explaining to men how to hit on a women (as there is no way she can have ever done this).

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Don't read this if you respect women.

Misogynist and just plain disrespectful towards both women and men. Tried finishing it but it was unbearable, so I stop about halfway through it.

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Good Book

I listened to this book to know if I was missing anything of my dating knowledge. I knew just about everything. When I meet women they're quite impressed that I am part of the 3% to 4% of men that know how to read them like a book. Why listened to this book? Even when Bach & Mozart knew how to play the piano they still practiced. Well listening or reading this book for me is practiced. If this doesn't work for you then there is something wrong with you. Believe me, in the beginning I thought this is too good to be true but the more I reprogrammed myself I started to see this was real and I was out of the matrix. I started to see that the HOT Women were into me and my confidence boosted. I started to meet women who were successful & beautiful. Believe me, I have read 10 to 15 books on dating, body language, reading people, and relationships which has helped me to weed out hot insecure materialistic women and meeting Confident Successful Women. This is a Good Listen or Read. Listen to this book 10 to 15 times till you master it. 🤔😊👍👏🍺🍻❤🤞

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Explained well

A good book for reading the signs of female attraction similar to what every body is saying

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gives you an advantage

Helps not be to so clueless. Great book for beginners and what they want to learn to at least identify who in the room is interested

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Happy I made the purchase

Comfortably practical enough for all men. I'm now aware of where my blunders with women lie.

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I wish I knew this in my 20s

I have read a few body language guides for attraction and dating. None come close to Undercover Sex Signals. More than just a list of body language, Leil gives the emotions behind the actions.
Well worth a read if you are unsure if a woman is attracted to you.

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  • Dragos
  • 10-14-16

This book is for who wants to remain a BETA for the rest of his life!!!

This book is for who wants to remain a BETA for the rest of his life!!!

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  • Alexander T.
  • 08-12-21

Worse than it looks

This book is a collection of stereotypes, inaccuracies, and cliches about both sexes. The book has more holes in its argumentation that Swiss Cheese. Examples: Only women are capable of reading body language proficiently; 30 out of 31 men are blind to women’s non-verbal sexual choosing signals (no reference). At each event, there are at least 4 women who are interested in you (sexually) etc

On performance itself: The reader’s tone makes her exaggerate almost every other sentence, which after a while just becomes unbearable. And this comes from an avid audiobook listener with a scientific background. 1/5 for this book is being generous.

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  • Peruser.
  • 10-18-21

Brush strokes

A lot of interesting pointers. Not sure if these broad brush strikes can be relied upon every time. There are a lot of different personalities out there. ? , I could argue that females are more complicated and not so single minded.If a male wrote this he would be accused of Misogony.

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  • Rick R
  • 09-04-21

Funny and fascinating

Such an entertaining book. Loved the advice but it’s also highly entertaining. Peppered with great jokes. Really enjoyed it.

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  • Kenny Smith
  • 09-04-21

Essential listening!

Excellent! At last, female signals decoded and comprehensively explained (even Sigmund Freud was stumped)!... wish this had been available years ago... essentai listening for every man!

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  • Mr. Richard M. Terrell
  • 09-03-21

interesting book

loved it, great tips , explained in different situations.
narrator made the book very easy to listen to and I enjoyed it
love the review of all the signals, really helps to understand more.

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  • oyesoji aremu
  • 08-30-21

I was truly from Mars and quite oblivious

Great book. I enjoyed this author. Felt she was quite unbiased with her approach to this subject. There isn’t any gimmicks just understanding human psychology or observation and highlighted a lot of things that I was non the wiser to I actually recommend Leil Lowndes and her books I started another book around this subject just to find out she was the author again.

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  • PGB
  • 08-18-21

Interesting for eight-year olds

The first few chapters are full of “scientific” evidence that 95% of men are doomed as they keep missing all these “opportunities”. Then comes the trivial advice on the “secret” “undercover” signals that only a toddler wouldn’t know!

There are many examples that back the author’s argument but actually they all state the obvious. You can find for free online the titles of the chapters, something that will help you understand how this book is stating the obvious…

The book doesn’t tell you that if a woman likes you, she’ll find a way to approach you even if you miss all those 26 USS.

As for the Audiobook: the reading is painfully robotic.

My conclusion: thank goodness it was a free book!

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  • Anonymous User
  • 04-09-18

Respect & Great read

What I had expected from the book. Not to pick up Women but to help understand more of how the Female visions through their Lens. For all You Males out there, start seeking to understand and quit being Fools and Players of a dead end game

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  • Mark McDonnell
  • 10-01-21

The Best

This is best book on this topic I’ve ever read. I highly recommend it to any man interested in dating women.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 04-15-21

Wow!

Brilliant insights us men would never work out in a lifetime. Very enjoyable read. Magnificent read.