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Publisher's Summary
Almost a decade ago, the first Bottoming Book taught tens of thousands of people that bottoming - being a submissive, masochist, slave, "boy" or "girl", or other BDSM recipient - is as much an art as topping. Since then, the growing popularity of BDSM, and the blossoming of the Internet as a source of information and connection, have created a whole new universe of possibilities for players. Now, the completely updated revised New Bottoming Book gives even more insights and ideas, updated for a new millennium, about how to be a successful, popular bottom! New sections on dominance/submission play, bridging the gap from on-line to real-time relationships, the four stages of a scene, and more. Plus, Fish's hot illustrations of bottoms in action, many moving and funny anecdotes, and an extra-large helping of the realistic wisdom for which these authors are known.
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- Renae
- 02-09-16
Informative
I loved this book. It was so easy to listen to and follow. I felt that it covered a variety of topics and gave at least a broad definition. I liked that certain topics were introduced in this book but that the author informed you more research should be done because it was an intense or dangerous topic. The best part of this book though was that it expressed that trust, respect, and communication are the base of a healthy D/s relationship.
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- Tea H.
- 05-11-15
Fantastic narrator reading!
If you could sum up The New Bottoming Book in three words, what would they be?
Basic intro to bottoming, with some fun flair.
What did you like best about this story?
Definitely Dossie's narration style. I am an avid Audible listener and often select books by narrator. She was fun and has a great reading voice!
Any additional comments?
I find it very useful to have chapters built into the recording. This book doesn't have chapter markers, so it often couldn't find my place the next time I listened.
4 people found this helpful
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- Krunce
- 01-04-20
Required Reading
I'm really really glad that I read this book. I think it's smart, savvy, and should be required reading for subs in the BDSM community. I learned so much from this.
A previous review warned of strange religious beliefs expressed in the final chapter of the book. It's true, new spiritual, neopagan leaning beliefs are outlined there but not at all imposingly. These beliefs or ones like them are I think widely shared by people who are comfortable enough going outside of mainstream norms, such as readers of BDSM manuals. And these beliefs I think resonate with and indeed draw upon many long-standing belief systems. I found it compelling and interesting. If you've thought about kundalini energy, the chakras, or your connection to an earth-based world spirit, these beliefs might resonate with you.
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- Amazon Customer
- 04-27-17
Much better than I expected!
I've read a lot of books on BDSM and expected another manual. I was not expecting how loving, moving and spiritual this book is. It took me deeper into the reason we're Tops and bottoms and shone a light on the pleasure and benefits.
A must read if you're exploring outside of the traditional world.
7 people found this helpful
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- Daniel
- 08-17-18
Religious Trojan horse
There is some good technical knowledge, but I strongly suggest you read the last chapter first.
The final chapter explains the religious motivations and boundary problems that color every other chapter in the book. Sure, BDSM can be wonderful and transcendent, but the vast majority of us do not worship at a creepy orgy circle.
I’m deeply embarrassed that this is one of the frequently recommended introductory texts.
6 people found this helpful
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- Kathy L
- 09-23-16
For Bottoms of all Shapes and Sizes
Where does The New Bottoming Book rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?
This was a good good to listen to. I was able to pay attention since I was driving in my car when I listened to this audio. Dossie and Janet did a wonderful narrating the book. This is a good book to start with if you want to be a bottom but don't stop the research. Read more.
Which character – as performed by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy – was your favorite?
They were themselves.
Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?
It could have been done in one sitting.
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- snailexpress
- 08-29-21
Fantastic
The authors state that this isn't a book for novices but, aside from terms (which are well defined), it was quite accessible. I found it particularly affirming that the authors spoke from their own knowledge and so accurately and so beautifully acknowledged the inherent power in and strength needed to be a successful bottom. Highly recommended.
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- marquis turner
- 08-13-22
Great book to learn from
This was a great book to learn from. I have experience in bottoming, but it is great to have something reinsures what you knew and gave me some more insight to being a better bottom for tops.
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- MsMadyson DeLaRough
- 02-04-22
amazing should be required reading for everyone
This was clear & easy to understand its so epic I'm glad I've read this for the million time
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- Anonymous User
- 11-12-21
Informative
This book has opened my eyes to many new and wonderful possibilities. The authors present many examples of sexy play styles that I found to be interesting and a little weird (in a good way).
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- followyourblyss
- 07-12-21
Filling in gaps
I have so much more understanding about BDSM in general but especially the mindset of bottoming and the communication, responsibilities and respect required of both players.
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- Kindle Customer
- 09-11-20
perfect for very beginners
as someone who is just discovering BDSM, this is a great book and helped me see the bigger picture and things one needs to be aware of before trying anything.this was really enlightening.