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“A brave and illuminating journey inside the mind, heart, and life of a person with early-onset Alzheimer’s disease.” -Lisa Genova, author of Still Alice 

Wendy Mitchell had a busy job with the British National Health Service, raised her two daughters alone, and spent her weekends running and climbing mountains. Then, slowly, a mist settled deep inside the mind she once knew so well, blurring the world around her. She didn’t know it then, but dementia was starting to take hold. In 2014, at age 58, she was diagnosed with young-onset Alzheimer’s.   

In this groundbreaking book, Mitchell shares the heartrending story of her cognitive decline and how she has fought to stave it off. What lay ahead of her after the diagnosis was scary and unknowable, but Mitchell was determined and resourceful, and she vowed to outwit the disease for as long as she could.  

As Mitchell learned to embrace her new life, she began to see her condition as a gift, a chance to experience the world with fresh eyes and to find her own way to make a difference. Even now, her sunny outlook persists: She devotes her time to educating doctors, caregivers, and other people living with dementia, helping to reduce the stigma surrounding this insidious disease.  

Still living independently, Mitchell now uses Post-it notes and technology to remind her of her routines and has created a “memory room” where she displays photos - with labels - of her daughters, friends, and special places. It is a room where she feels calm and happy, especially on days when the mist descends.  

A chronicle of one woman’s struggle to make sense of her shifting world and her mortality, Somebody I Used to Know offers a powerful rumination on memory, perception, and the simple pleasure of living in the moment. Philosophical, poetic, intensely personal, and ultimately hopeful, this moving memoir is both a tribute to the woman Wendy Mitchell used to be and a brave affirmation of the woman she has become.  

"Somebody I Used to Know is both an indispensable guide for people grappling with the consequences of a dementia diagnosis and a stirring account of courage in the face of devastating loss." (Booklist)

"This is an eloquent and poignant book. Those of us who have gone on the heartbreaking journey of losing a loved one to dementia have wondered what they were feeling. Wendy Mitchell's courageous and unflinching account lets us know." (Patti Davis, author of The Long Goodbye)

©2018 Wendy Mitchell (P)2018 Random House Audio

Critic Reviews

Somebody I Used to Know is both an indispensable guide for people grappling with the consequences of a dementia diagnosis and a stirring account of courage in the face of devastating loss.” (Booklist, starred review)

“Remarkable . . . Mitchell gives such clear-eyed insight that anyone who knows a person living with dementia should read this book.” (The Times - London)  

“A sensitive, affective, and moving chronicle of how a woman with Alzheimer's has refused to let the disease completely rule her life... In this moving, well-written memoir, [Wendy] Mitchell relates how her life inevitably changed... [She] obviously refuses to give up, as evidenced by her writing this poignant statement of her life after the diagnosis.” (Kirkus Reviews)

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Poignant & Powerful

I loved Wendy Mitchell’s memoir, Somebody I Used to Know. It was my first real experience with dementia and I found it beautiful, poignant, powerful and inspiring. I live with progressive Multiple Sclerosis and found lots of similarities between Wendy’s experience and my own - not necessarily physical ones, but emotional ones about living with an incurable disease.
I loved that it was Wendy narrating herself and find myself wishing everyone would read this in order to help make the world a better place for everyone.

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