Relationship Goals

How to Win at Dating, Marriage, and Sex

By: Michael Todd

Narrated by: Ameen Gaines

#1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • A candid, inspiring guide to finding lasting love and sustaining a healthy relationship by getting real about your goals—based on the viral, multi-million-view sermon series about dating, marriage, and sex

**The inspiration for the upcoming romantic comedy Relationship Goals, starring Kelly Rowland and Cliff “Method Man” Smith**

“No matter where you are and no matter what stage of life you are in, Relationship Goals will be a game changer.”—Levi Lusko

NAMED ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR BY COSMOPOLITAN

You scroll through photo after photo of happy couples and think, I want that! But often those intimate relationships are a mirage—the closer you get to them, the more you realize they aren’t real at all. So what does a real relationship look like? And how do you get there?

In Relationship Goals, Pastor Michael Todd digs deep to give you good news and real-life ideas for making the most of your most important relationships. Take a look at

• how to choose intentional dating over recreational dating
• ways to move on from mistakes you’ve made in the past
• why love gets stronger after marriage
• what the Bible has to say about sex (hot take: it’s more sizzling than you think)
• why the best friendships have God at the center

Whether you are married, single, or it’s complicated, aiming for the right targets will make all the difference in finding true satisfaction. As it turns out, God’s got the best relationship goals of all for your life. Why settle for less?

Critic reviews

“The way God has moved this message like wildfire to millions of people speaks volumes about its value. There is no turnkey or quick fix to having rich relationships. With down-to-earth honesty, Michael Todd not only gives you a vision for what your relationships could look like, but he also gives you the road map to get you there.”—Levi Lusko, lead pastor of Fresh Life Church and bestselling author

“We are often encouraged to practice what we preach. However, I think it’s also important to preach what we practice. This is exactly what Mike and Natalie Todd have done. They have taken their lumps and transformed them into lessons. They have taken their pain and turned it into purpose. They have taken their mistakes and turned them into ministry. They have taken their blessings and turned them into a book. If you are looking for a blueprint to a blessed relationship, this book is for you.”—Dr. Dharius Daniels, lead pastor of Change Church and author of Relational Intelligence

“Mike has been a dear friend since we were twenty years old—just recording music in Tulsa together. As we’ve both moved into ministry, I’ve seen God expand Mike’s reach greatly, but his humility and kindness have never changed with all the public praise. He’s the real deal on and off the stage, and he’s such an exemplary man of God for our generation. The message God has given Mike on relationship goals is one hundred percent fire! It is so important for anyone wanting to build Christ-centered, successful relationships. I’m so thankful for Mike and Natalie not just sharing a message but sharing their lives as a great example for marriage and family!”—Paul Daugherty, lead pastor of Victory in Tulsa, Oklahoma

From a Single 30 years old POV man

I was astonished with all the information shared by Pastor Mike. I was treating my relationships, dates without purpose. This book is definitely helping me during my single season and I encourage everyone to read it. No doubt my relationships moving forward are going to be blessed and intentional. The souls tie chapter is an eye opener.

This is a must-read for believers!

Pastor Mike shares a lot of solid, Bible-based goals & guidelines for all types of relationships.

Great read (Listen).

I am a Christian single dad with 3 young daughters. I am divorced and I am using the stuff I learned from this book to be single. I will be a better husband for my future wife. Thank you Mike for the blessing!

Put God 1st!

Michael Todd is a very relatable writer and speaker and he is straightforward with what God wants & expects in your relationships. Very good book!

Best Relationship Advice Ever!

Pastor Todd kept it real HOT in this book (Honest. Open. Transparent). I've struggled with Understanding and blindly following alot of the topics in this book but Pastor Todd explains it in a modern way with relevant scriptures to guide along the way! Definitely worth a listen! There is nothing to loose and EVERYTHING to gain.