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A story of love, friendship and rekindled romance...

In Keys to the Kingdom, Alison Armstrong takes you on a journey of discovery into the workings of men, women, and relationships. Much of the information acquired during Alison's 15-year study of men is brought to life by the novel's charming and genuine characters. This heartfelt story communicates the type of wisdom taught in Alison's Celebrating Men, Satisfying Women workshops.

©2012 Alison A .Armstrong (P)2012 Alison A .Armstrong

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great if you can get past the story

the content is actually amazing (like the Queen's Code), and very useful. however, is presented within a really cheesy storyline. really cheesy. i soldiered on because the lessons she is teaching were so valuable, but it was painful!

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Hooray for celebrating men

I love men. It's exciting to find a series of study that celebrates and supports men and helps the genders to better understand each other with love and compassion.

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Much needed insight

Armstrong weaves a great story into much needed insight on interactions with men. I learned a lot from listening and have already seen great improvements in my own marriage of twenty years by just using simple practices.

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Worth the read!

Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

Anyone in a long term relationship will probably benefit from this fantastic teaching story

What other book might you compare Keys to the Kingdom to and why?

I can't really compare this book to any other that I've read so far. Although it is a self help book, it is presented in story format. I learned so many valuable things that are already helping me in my relationships with both men and women.

Which scene was your favorite?

Its hard to say which scene was my favorite, there are so many poignant moments that I resonated with

What’s an idea from the book that you will remember?

That each of us has the power to change our relationship to the opposite sex if we really want to.

Any additional comments?

happy reading!

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Outstanding

I love this book! It is so insightful & a wonderful story. I could listen to it again and again.

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Honored Men


I had a unique opportunity to grow up with wonderful man. My father 👑 and I had such a great relationship, and I have four lovely older brothers! In a sense, I thought all men were like the man I grew up with. I assumed that they were, and they would take their role accordingly. I always wondered why they treated my mom differently. She was a frog farmer, but I felt very differently in a modern world & thought something wrong with ME for not chastising men!! Hehe 😉

With relationships in the past, I feel like I’m a little like Kimberly, because I had no idea that men can be different, and, that I was looking for a particular type of man, until this last stage, when I knew I needed a king 🤴 & was not upset about dating princes.

I’m in a healthy loving relationship now with a king, finally!! I’ve already done what Karen did while her husband was away (before reading this incredible book) becoming a king. Ahhh life is grand. Alison is a miracle worker & I’m going to continue on the Keys women way & continue sharing this great news to all! Cheers! Men & women alike will enjoy this brilliant story & powerful message 🥰 Love & Light... Queen Blissfulness👸

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Perfectly timed to land in our lives!

After 39 years of unconditional enormous love, my husband is in a tailspin and completely depressed, or so “they” say... after recommended to listen to Keys to the Kingdom on our drive back from Colorado to Los Angeles, our spirits have never been more lifted after listening to Alison’s remarkable Audible book! We both wish to recommend this book for every man and every woman and have them listen to the wisdom, knowledge, and undeniable love Alison shares in this book! A MUST READ FOR ALL:)

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Incredible

It exceeded my expectations and listening to it- read by the author is just priceless. This is amazing information for every woman who wants to be in a truly loving relationship.

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Change your love life!

Loved the story, and also the lessons revealed. I didn't know what I didn't know, and it was hurting me. Just following one of the keys has helped tremendously!

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Great listen

Learned a great deal from this story thanks to the valuable knowledges shared and the interesting story format.

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  • Jo Heckett
  • 08-31-21

Couldn’t stomach this

The idea that it’s women’s job to figure out men made me feel nauseous.

This is the epitome of invisible labour.

I want men to put in the time to figure out women.

I’m done with this outdated view of gender roles.

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  • ALEX
  • 11-01-20

Is amaaaazing

I think every woman (and man) should read it. It will save a lot of suffering in the relationship.

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  • ruthann fanstone
  • 04-30-20

keys are here

important book, at first I was impatient with the story telling.....just wanted the information but after a while I saw the story telling offers information in addition to the facts, I recommend it

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  • Kullerva
  • 02-11-20

A total eye-opener!

Even though being in a bit different situation in my relationship, I definitely found myself in Karen and after just first 2 chapters I realized that this might actually save my marriage which has been in a crisis for some time. I listened the rest of the book in 1,5 days and told my husband about it and even him being a bit suspicious, he seemed interested and even little hopeful.

I'm planning to listen the book again, this time slower, chapter by chapter, referring it to my husband, as Karen was doing in the book. Don't know yet if it will help us to overcome our problems, but in one way or another, I'm certain that this is going to change my life in a good way. I'm relieved to give up the pressure of being a feminist at least in a way I never felt suited me well!

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  • tiesha niemma merryfield
  • 12-30-19

very enlightening

loved the information Provided in the book. good for perspective and can definitely help everyone

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  • Martin
  • 10-13-18

great book

amazing book a god send and an eye openor this book empowers women also thank you

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  • Miss A.
  • 10-04-17

Amazing information BUT

Armstrong really knows her stuff; I'm disappointed it's embedded in excessive nonsense: she sipped her coffee.... on and on blah, blah

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  • Katie Hayes
  • 07-22-17

Life altering

Amazing everyone should read this. If u want to have a successful relationship, you can't live without this.

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  • Stella E. U
  • 03-21-17

An Eye Opener

The gems in this book are delivered through a story, and I see how this is more effective than just telling the "do's and don'ts" in building good relationships with men. If I had this book's wisdom from puberty, I know that I would have avoided a lot of heartache, not just in romantic relationships but with men in general.

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  • Kevin Humphrey
  • 08-16-16

Best book ever

That is a statement for sure, if you are a man who wants to put a label to your actions or a woman who wants to understand men, and men understand women this is a MUST read, off to get the sequels now

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  • Anonymous User
  • 10-11-21

Good points and lessons, painful writing

Alison Armstrong has incredible wisdom to share, but her rudimentary and cringey writing makes this book much harder to absorb it. The writing is painful. The dialogue is corny. You’ll get much more out of the live workshop recordings.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 10-06-21

life changing!

thank you thank you thank you! what a game changer! this is the best book on relationships!

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  • Anonymous User
  • 09-27-21

Life changing

I wish more woman would read this book. In today’s world it takes courage to appreciate man and empower man.
Already seeing difference in my relationship 😁🙏
Thank you for the book

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  • Sophia
  • 06-25-21

Loved this so much!

I love this audio. I had many satori moments that I'm glad I also have the book to highlight many learnings that I can apply to my life and the men in it. Alisons gift to storytelling these teachings are gamechanging and it was hard for me to stop listening.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 05-04-21

Loved everything about this.

Loved it!
Very insightful - makes so much sense!
Loved the way it was written and narrated.

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  • Carol P.
  • 03-19-21

Disguised plug for a cult in chapter 6

The book makes a few key points about gender and developmental stages in life for males that could be summarised in a page, drawn out into a very long dialogue narrative that makes a whole book. Nicely written conversational exchanges from different character perspectives, I couldn’t quite judge until chapter 6 the plug to enrol in “a New age training program such as Landmark Forum”. Think the cult NXIVM! Suddenly it all made sense how a 1960s philosophy on gender and relationships is published in 2003. Hmm something a bit weird here

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  • Anonymous User
  • 10-27-20

What a life changing perspective!!

Loved the narrative, loved learning thru the story. brought tears to my eyes. thank you

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  • Jessie
  • 08-26-20

Archaic Tripe

I found this book grateingly old fashioned but perservered to the end out of curiosity. Its basic premise is that in order to be happy, women must modify their behaviour to meet mens needs. Start simpering and being coy if you want them to remember your birthday type of thing. all in all, it was very victim blamey to me.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 06-11-20

life changing

what a wonderful insight into the relationship between men and women. this book certainly pointed out where i have gone wrong in my relationships.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 05-19-20

Interesting read on the whole but....

I’m pleasantly surprised at how much I learnt about the different stages a man goes through. However, I did find the advice she gives to women old fashioned and out of touch. Yes women’s roles have advanced a long way- for good reason!
I’d like to propose that women can still achieve a career of their dreams AND the relationship. According to Alison the two just aren’t possible. This made me sad as this lifestyle choice is not sustainable and is denying females of being their true selves. Women- if you can’t find a man who isn’t ‘King’ enough time support you in your career/vocation then look for another man who can carry his crown and not feel threatened by yours.