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How to stop arguing with difficult people.

Are you exhausted from dealing with conflict? Do you just want the constant arguing to stop? Are the guilt, shame, and intensity of blame wearing you down? Everything you need to stop fighting and arguing with difficult people is in this audiobook.

These life skills will work in any situation where conflict resolution is or isn't possible. The reason they work is because they are centered on teaching you how to manage conflict in such a way that it doesn't harm you emotionally anymore.

You will learn how to:

  • Stop an argument from starting
  • Connect in a confident and effective manner
  • Protect your emotions when dealing with difficult people
  • Set boundaries with people who want to treat you like a doormat
  • Cope with rejection and find deeply based serenity in loving yourself
  • Stop fighting and arguing with anyone

The author, Amber Rain, has successfully used these methods for dealing with difficult people and situations since 2001. It all started when she was married to an alcoholic and found herself caught in the grips of constant conflict. The levels of stress, anger, and anxiety were too much for her to bear. Amber sought out help and has since helped tens of thousands of people all over the world learn how to cope with difficult people.

©2014 Jordy Christo (P)2015 Jordy Christo

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THis is an excellent Audio book

Would you consider the audio edition of How to Stop Arguing to be better than the print version?

Yes, I listen to this several times as I had a problem with a bad temper

Have you listened to any of JC Anonymous’s other performances before? How does this one compare?

No

What did you learn from How to Stop Arguing that you would use in your daily life?

Time to think and let go and really enjoy my life

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If you have a temper.....You need to purchase this book. It really helped me.

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Helpful and concise

This was a simple, quick list of tips and explanations of how to stop sweating the small stuff. This isn't just for argumentative people; it also details ways to deal with other argumentative people.

Highly recommended if you find yourself trapped in frequent arguments and want it to stop.

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Gain an insight into why we argue

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I found this very interesting. It teaches you to look at arguments from two perspectives. From dealing with your own tendencies to be argumentative, but also looking at the possibility that you may have to interact with people who are argumentative. You'll learn how to bite your tongue and analyse your own behaviour, and you'll also learn how best to deal with those people that wind you up and bring out the worst in you.

I thought the idea of writing down all the information when you have an argument was simple yet brilliant, so you can go over it later. I've often had an argument that seemed really important at the time, but them kind of wondered what it was all about afterwards. If I had notes I could find out, and spot patterns.

You'll learn how to avoid conflict situations, and how to deal with stress that may cause you to be more argumentative. My only complaint about this book is that it's not very long. I was gifted a copy of this book - all opinions are my own.

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Could have been a bit more detailed

Provides great insight in to anger management and how to cope with difficult and frustrating people. However, I feel that it could have been more detailed and informative.

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Just do it!

If you could sum up How to Stop Arguing in three words, what would they be?

Just do it!

What did you like best about this story?

I loved all the tips on how to stop arguing. I really find it hard to detach myself from the situation. but this showed me yeah it hard, but you can do it.

What does JC Anonymous bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

Being able to work and "read" at the same time. I love listening to this books while I do my work.

What did you learn from How to Stop Arguing that you would use in your daily life?

To just use my words to say, hey I am overreacting and we need to just to calm down before this gets way out of hand.

Any additional comments?

Great stuff! Thank you!

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Good practice tools to stop arguments

Thank you so much for this practicality simple book. Arguments can daily plague relationships and sometimes potentially end some. I realize it first starts with us and your our but it is good to have good practical tools to use that can help to defuse an argument till you have time to examine ones own heart and motives.

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Too brief to be useful

To brief to be useful and I was surprised that it ended before it even started

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Buy one or the other.

This book has almost the same content as "One hundred ways to relieve stress " Not many differences.