How to Not Die Alone

The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love

De: Logan Ury

Narrado por: Logan Ury

A “must-read” (The Washington Post) funny and practical guide to help you find, build, and keep the relationship of your dreams.

Have you ever looked around and wondered, “Why has everyone found love except me?” You’re not the only one. Great relationships don’t just appear in our lives - they’re the culmination of a series of decisions, including whom to date, how to end it with the wrong person, and when to commit to the right one. But our brains often get in the way. We make poor decisions, which thwart us on our quest to find lasting love.

Drawing from years of research, behavioral scientist turned dating coach Logan Ury reveals the hidden forces that cause those mistakes. But awareness on its own doesn’t lead to results. You have to actually change your behavior. Ury shows you how.

This “simple-to-use guide” (Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone) focuses on a different decision in each chapter, incorporating insights from behavioral science, original research, and real-life stories. You’ll learn:

• What’s holding you back in dating (and how to break the pattern)
• What really matters in a long-term partner (and what really doesn’t)
• How to overcome the perils of online dating (and make the apps work for you)
• How to meet more people in real life (while doing activities you love)
• How to make dates fun again (so they stop feeling like job interviews)
• Why “the spark” is a myth (but you’ll find love anyway)

This “data-driven” (Time), step-by-step guide to relationships, complete with hands-on exercises, is designed to transform your life. How to Not Die Alone will help you find, build, and keep the relationship of your dreams.

Please note: This is an historical recording. The audio quality represents the technology of the time when it was produced.

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©2021 Logan Ury. All rights reserved. (P)2021 Simon & Schuster, Inc. All rights reserved.

READ THIS BOOK

I recommend this book to ANYONE. You can always learn to improve yourself, your relationships, and your knowledge when others ask for advice from you. This is an incredibly eye-opening book. 10/10. I will be reading this book again in due time.

Incredible. Must listen

As a 50 year old cis-het male, I found this book completely relatable. It is based on very sound, up-to-date behavioral psychology and has empowered me to move through the modern dating scene with courage and authenticity, and much better results. Wish I had had the guidance of this book 30 years ago. Thank you Logan!

Excellent Relationship guide

I honestly bought this book because i liked the title, but this book is something that should be assigned reading in high school. I have ordered multiple copies for my kids as well as some friends. The advice is practical for all aspects of relationship stages. Thank you for writing this book!

very well written

loved it. I a therapist and this is such a hot topic right now. I have referred this book to clients because this book is based on science, funny and interactive

Amazing book

This is one of the books that I would recommend to read (and reread again in future) to everyone

Good tips for those who struggle dating in today’s world.

I felt that this was one of the better dating books out there that hits on all issues , both intrinsically and extrinsically for folks while dating or trying to date. While some chapters may not resonate right now (I just broke up with someone) and talks about how to set up your dating profile, just push through those chapters for when you are ready later on down the road. She hits on love languages, attachement styles and how they affect relationships, and much more. Very well laid out and next to John Grays “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus” books, the 5 love languages, Attached, …. This book is a must have to include.

Read it

Collection of great advice. Witty, smart, applicable and backed by science. Everyone should read it.

A must read for daters!

Logan Ury nails the cause of my singleness, ME! I am so grateful for this realistic view of how to approach dating with a compassionate and proactive way to find love. It worked! Now I have attracted quality men and am taking my time to get to know them and evolve my own bad habits. Thank you Logan and F$&@K the Spark!

Although cheesy sounding

This book took me by surprise. At first glance it’s just a self help dating book and yes that exists. BUT. The ending chapters are honestly so crucial. Relationships are not magically created. They take real work. And there is some great ideas for approaching this growth in this book. This is a book I did not think I needed to listen to. But man it’s good

Amazing book

Great writing and a lot of useful tips on personal blockers in finding a relationship.