• How to Be a Healthy and Happy Submissive

  • A Practical Guide to Making Your Fantasies a Reality
  • By: Kate Kinsey
  • Narrated by: Alexandra Shawnee
  • Length: 3 hrs and 55 mins
  • 4.7 out of 5 stars (66 ratings)

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Publisher's Summary

Beyond Fifty Shades of Grey, there's an entire kinky world of BDSM, full of real-life dominants and submissives enjoying an intimacy and satisfaction in their relationships that vanilla folk only dream of. Whether you want to explore your own submissive fantasies, or you're just curious about what BDSM is really like, this book will answer all your questions, plus some you didn't know you had.

Erotic author Kate Kinsey brings over a decade of experience as a submissive and kinky educator to this practical step-by-step guide to being a healthy and happy submissive.

Topics covered include:

  • The differences between dominants and masters
  • Submissives and slaves, and tops and bottoms
  • The different dominant styles
  • The truth about "training" to be a submissive
  • How to find like-minded folks in your area
  • How to negotiate scenes and relationships
  • What to expect at your first dungeon party
  • Why some people actually enjoy pain
  • And the warning signs to look out for when talking to potential partners

Contains mature themes.

©2014 Kate Kinsey (P)2018 Tantor
  • Unabridged Audiobook
  • Categories: Erotica

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thoughtful, and understanding

I will be listening to this again.
and again
and again!
just for the fact that, through this book it it has helped me gather my thoughts on the subject. knowing how I want my journey to go and how to look for what I need, want and am hoping to find.
Thank you!

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a great read for beginner submissives

I really enjoyed listening to this book. It really made me think of what I deemed as right for me when I call myself submissive.

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So grateful I found this book..

I feel very fortunate to have found and decided to have this be my first real intro to BDSM. A mature, proper and respectful orientation IMO :-).

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Great info as an introduction

Excellent overall. I felt it was a bit too short. Maybe a followup book is needed?

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A Great Start.

Good for those who want to strengthen knowledge and are freshly or brand spanking new.

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I learned a lot!!

I learned a lot! Seriously everyone need to read/listen to this book if they are interested in bdsm! The author covers a lot. I am very impressed how much I learned and how she discussed the how to and safety and all the benefits and dangers and everything inbetwern!!

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Extremely informational

Good information and knowledge. I really enjoyed this book and narration. I really liked the analogy about the buffet.

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Good for the beginner

well read and covers a good variety of topics but definitely better for those just starting out rather than wanting more in detail

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  • Anna Nym
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Good Read for Newbies

I think this is a book that would be a great read for anyone starting out (this is why it deserves the star rating I gave). While I don't agree with everything that's said, I think I would have benefitted from reading it. Having said that, if you are not new to kink, you won't find much you haven't heard of.