How to Be You
Stop Trying to Be Someone Else and Start Living Your Life
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Jeffrey Marsh
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Jeffrey Marsh
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Too short. Too weird. Too quiet. Not true. Let internet superstar Jeffrey Marsh help you end those negative thoughts and discover how wonderful you are.
An interactive experience, How to Be You invites you to make the audiobook your own through activities such as answering questions about how you do the things you do, and discovering patterns in your lives that may be holding you back. Through Jeffrey's own story of "growing up fabulous in a small farming town" - along with the stories of hero/ines who have transcended the stereotypes of race, age, and gender - you will discover that you are not alone.
Learn to deepen your relationship with yourself, boost your self-esteem and self-worth, and find the courage to take a leap that will change your life.
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Critic reviews
“The advice Jeffrey gives is so succinct and so intimately personal that I swear, if your brain could change colors in reaction to humans, Jeffrey's words would turn your brain bright pink." (Bustle)
“Their message is simple: Be yourself. Be happy with yourself. Be more comfortable with your differences - and embrace and enjoy them.” (Digg)
Thank you, Jeffrey, for sharing your story to help others write theirs.
Beautiful book by a beautiful soul.
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Autistic Trauma
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a book for everyone
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My favorite
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Amazing
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Amazing!
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This book is for everyone. I mean it
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Amazing
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This has really helped me in my growth to accept myself fully as I am. To really love the fabulous agender person that I am.
I would recommend this book to everyone. We have all felt hopeless, unworthy, unloved, and unsure of our purpose. This book is a journey of realizing that all the answers are inside us, the love that we are all so eagerly searching for everywhere is inside us. Happy Reading friends!
Thank you Jeffrey!
Be your own best friend and gift this book to yourself and then gift it to those you love!
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Everyone matters.
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