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“Well, he does have a good side.” “You know, it’s probably my fault.” “She’s had a rough life. I need to cut her some slack.”

When you really care about someone, it’s easy to get stuck in painful, even destructive patterns - caving in to a spouse’s manipulation, ignoring a live-at-home son’s irresponsibility, not confronting a friend’s addiction. We excuse people again and again, and then kick ourselves for not setting better boundaries. But this important audiobook, with its transformational tools from leading Christian counselor Tim Clinton and noted author Pat Springle, will guide you in not only breaking through to better relationships but making big changes for the better. With their expert principles for learning to say yes when you want to and no when you need to, you’ll discover how to give up your need to please, rescue, fix, or control anyone else.

Leave others’ unrealistic expectations behind. Speak the hard truth to those who have hurt you. And exchange harmful relationship habits for healthy ones. Here is the expert advice you need for knowing when to give in and how to push back for the best life you can have with the people you love most.

©2012 Tim Clinton and Pat Springle (P)2012 Oasis Audio

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wow a lot of things make sense

this was a real eye opener. blew my mind. practical information that will help me overcome so many issues.

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Truth be told...

Good, succint overview of counselling goals and outcomes. A little too radical on the topic of forgiveness but that seems a popular trend these days. The other material outweighs this shortcoming.

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change your family

this is a good book that can that helps you change your family unhealthy relationship.

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Not a great audiobook.

Less stories of people, and more insight on breakthrough. Liked hearing about the alarm. Perhaps better read on paper?