A 2002 dating guide has found new popularity on Tiktok using an old fashioned method: Have a catchy title and four pages of good advice.

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• The Tragedy of Heterosexuality
• Why men (still) love bitches
• Systematic review on converting online contact into a first date
• A Meta-Analytical Review of the Demand/Withdraw Pattern
• Gender-Related Predictors of Change in Marital Satisfaction and Marital Conflict

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Peter and Michael discuss "Surrounded by Idiots," a book that dares to ask: Can the mystery of human relationships be unraveled by a workplace personality assessment?

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• Pioneers, Drivers, Integrators, and Guardians
• Creator of Lie Detector Test Dies; Lecturer and Author Produced Comic Strip
• One of Sweden's biggest scientific bluffs
• Pseudoscience and the Claim of Practical Utility: The Case of Thomas Erikson's Surrounded by Idiots
• Thomas Erikson accepts being called a pop psychology writer
• Four personality types may be neither robust nor exhaustive
• Spuriouser and spuriouser: The use of ipsative personality tests
• Reconsidering the use of personality tests in personnel selection contexts
• Using Personality Tests in Pre-Employment Screening
• Employment Tests and Selection Procedures
• The Cult of Personality Testing
• A history of the early days of personality testing in American industry: an obsession with adjustment
• Psychological Testing in Personnel Selection, Part II: The Refinement of Methods and Standards in Employee Selection
• Psychological Testing in Personnel Selection, Part III: The Resurgence of Personality Testing
• ACLU Files Discrimination Complaint Against CVS
• Target Corporation to Pay $2.8 Million to Resolve EEOC Discrimination Finding
• Personality Tests Are the Astrology of the Office
• The $2 Billion Question of Who You Are at Work

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In 1993, a desperate man stumbled into a remote village in the foothills of the Karakoram mountains. After the residents nursed him back to health, he placed his hands on the village elder's shoulders and made a sacred promise. "Somehow," he said, "I am going to get some private jet reimbursements out of this."

Warning: Contains spoilers for the 2016 film "Arrival."

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• Three Cups of Deceit
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• 3000 Cups of Deceit
• Books vs Bombs? Humanitarian development and the narrative of terror in Northern Pakistan
• Delusional States
• Can't Get There From Here
• Nobel Prize Nominee’s Charity Wins No Award for Accountability
• David Oliver Relin, Adventurous Journalist, Dies at 49
• What Mortenson Got Wrong
• Three Cups of Tea: The Pakistan and Afghan side
• 3 Lessons to Learn From Greg Mortenson
• Mortenson returns to Afghanistan
• The naive republic of aid: Grassroots exceptionalism in humanitarian memoir
• Religious School Enrollment in Pakistan: A Look at the Data
• If you build it, will they come?
• What Really Works to Improve Learning in Developing Countries?
• The madrassa scapegoat

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