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What would change if you stopped apologizing for your desires and started listening to your body? Pamela Madsen had it all: her high school sweetheart, two kids, and a fertility advocacy career that landed her on Oprah. Then she sat in a Korean spa with her girlfriends and her sister and listened to their stories. These women were alive, beautiful, and bursting with juicy tales, and Pamela was looking down at her own body wondering, "What happened to me being a sex goddess?" Her sex life was fine. It was efficient, it was loving, it was fine. But she wanted to feel alive like them. After a few too many encounters with practitioners and their "magic lingams," she created Back to the Body, a safe place for women's sexual awakening. Women receive touch from trained male sexological bodyworkers who keep their clothes on, wear gloves for genital touch, sign contracts, and never date clients. Full body touch, holding, and play with power help women find their voice, their desire, and their erotic power. Plus, find out why her teaching partner calls her what you'd get if Dr. Ruth, Betty Crocker, and Bettie Page had a baby. Stay for The Dish, where Leah and Willow get real about confidentiality, the triadic model, and the no dating rule.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS

• The Korean spa moment that made Pamela crave her own sex goddess era
• Men got touch, women got metaphors: the gap Pamela set out to close
• Clothes on, gloves on, no dating: what makes male sexological bodywork safe for women
• Why giving every woman her own practitioner ends competition and sparks sisterhood
• Clearing the masculine: emptying out to a man who can hold it all
• "The biological clock is finite, but the erotic clock is endless"

LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: https://www.sexreimagined.com/blog/pamela-madsen-back-to-the-body

A New Tantra Exploration, Live in Santa Barbara Leah & Willow are hosting a live 90 minute intro night called A New Tantra Exploration, tracing this ancient practice back to where it began, breath, touch, & all. Fully clothed, beginner friendly, open to solos and couples. November 6, 2026 and January 29, 2027. Grab your seat at $25 early bird / $35 at the door | 90 min https://www.sexreimagined.com/events

The Couples Sacred Spot Retreat | Santa Barbara, Nov 6-8
We are bringing our most intimate couples workshop to California. Over three days, you will learn Sacred Spot Massage, Erotic Attunement, sensual touch as a somatic practice, and the ritual skills that change the way partners meet each other in the body. Ten couple spots only. Register Here

Erotic Polarity On-Demand Masterclass The charge between masculine & feminine energy is real & it can be consciously cultivated. Learn why it's so erotically alive, & how to work with giving, receiving, taking, & allowing, regardless of your gender or relationship structure. Register for $55 HERE

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Is the resentment in your marriage actually a check engine light pointing the way back to better sex? Relationship coach Monica Tanner, host of Secrets of Happily Ever After and Amazon bestselling author of Bad Marriage Advice, joins Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown to take apart the marriage advice that keeps couples stuck. She explains why “divorce is not an option” can quietly trap you, how to let go of resentment in marriage by treating it like a dashboard warning light, and why repairing your emotional connection won’t automatically fix your sex life. Together they unpack mismatched libido in marriage, spontaneous vs responsive desire, the tangle of motherhood and desire, and Monica’s bold reframe for men: be turned on by her, and handle that turn on yourself. Then in The Dish, Leah and Willow share how novelty and pattern interrupts keep long term love juicy.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS

⇢ Resentment is your check engine light. Ignore it long enough and the repair gets costly.

⇢ “Divorce is not an option” can turn a marriage into a trap. Build one you both choose instead.

⇢ You can’t read the label from inside the bottle. Here’s when to bring in a coach or therapist.

⇢ Mismatched libido is the number one complaint couples bring in, and understanding spontaneous vs responsive desire changes the conversation.

⇢ Desire without obligation: why a man who can hold his own arousal is the sexiest thing to a woman.

⇢ Shame is the sneaky weed in your erotic garden, and it blocks the safety great sex needs.

LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: https://www.sexreimagined.com/blog/desire-without-obligation

Peak Erotic Experiences | Live Masterclass | Oct 28, 2026 @ 4pm Pacific. Your hottest moments were never random, they're built from four hidden forces researcher Jack Morin identified in his work on peak erotic experiences. Join Leah live on October 1st to find your own pattern and learn how to build more of it on purpose. Register for $33 HERE

The Couples Sacred Spot Retreat | Santa Barbara, Nov 6-8
We are bringing our most intimate couples workshop to California. Over three days, you will learn Sacred Spot Massage, Erotic Attunement, sensual touch as a somatic practice, and the ritual skills that change the way partners meet each other in the body. Ten couple spots only. Register Here

A New Tantra Exploration, Live in Santa Barbara Leah & Willow are hosting a live 90 minute intro night called A New Tantra Exploration, tracing this ancient practice back to where it began, breath, touch, & all. Fully clothed, beginner friendly, open to solos and couples. November 6, 2026 and January 29, 2027. Grab your seat at $25 early bird / $35 at the door | 90 min https://www.sexreimagined.com/events

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Please help support the production costs of the show! Donate now: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2032242/supporters/new

• FREEBIE- Introduction to Tantric Kissing Video and Workbook
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What if the sounds you’ve been holding back are the doorway to a full body tantric orgasm? Tantra teacher Mare Simone, a Dakini and Advanced Tantra Educator, joins us for a juicy, practice forward conversation about somatic intimacy and what it really takes to drop out of your head and into your body. Mare tells the story of the night a woman’s roaring orgasm at a San Francisco Tantra party shook the floorboards and awakened her to the power of sound. She explains why breath, sound, movement and intention work together, and how giving pain or tension a voice with your partner can turn it into a moment of real intimacy. She guides you through a tantric breathwork practice that uses pelvic squeezes to draw energy up the spine, and opens up about rocking on crystal and Shiva lingam stones, cervical massage as a portal to the bliss body, her “Om Zone,” laughgasms, and her newest exploration, the coregasm. Then stay for The Dish, where Leah and Dr. Willow unpack Mare’s inner sanctuary practice and why pleasure for its own sake might be the most spiritual thing you do all week.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS

• Sound is the secret ingredient: when your breath becomes sound, your partner feels it too
• Relaxation fuels arousal: the slower you go, the deeper the pleasure lands
• Pain is a message, not something to push through: name it, and sometimes it melts on the spot
• Try Mare’s breath and squeeze practice to pull energy up the spine and send it where you need healing
• Meet the coregasm: Mare’s newest exploration of tantric breath meets core workouts
• Build your inner sanctuary: a place of pure love you can return to before getting out of bed or mid lovemaking

LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: https://www.sexreimagined.com/blog/somatic-intimacy-tantric-orgasm

A New Tantra Exploration, Live in Santa Barbara Leah & Willow are hosting a live 90 minute intro night called A New Tantra Exploration, tracing this ancient practice back to where it began, breath, touch, & all. Fully clothed, beginner friendly, open to solos and couples. November 6, 2026 and January 29, 2027. Grab your seat at $25 early bird / $35 at the door | 90 min https://www.sexreimagined.com/events

The Couples Sacred Spot Retreat | Santa Barbara, Nov 6-8
We are bringing our most intimate couples workshop to California. Over three days, you will learn Sacred Spot Massage, Erotic Attunement, sensual touch as a somatic practice, and the ritual skills that change the way partners meet each other in the body. Ten couple spots only. Register Here

Erotic Polarity On-Demand Masterclass The charge between masculine & feminine energy is real & it can be consciously cultivated. Learn why it's so erotically alive, & how to work with giving, receiving, taking, & allowing, regardless of your gender or relationship structure. Register for $55 HERE

Support the show

Please help support the production costs of the show! Donate now: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2032242/supporters/new

• FREEBIE- Introduction to Tantric Kissing Video and Workbook
• SxR Website
• Dr. Willow's Website
• Leah's Website