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PTSD 101: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1027246/episodes/18786915

Healing doesn’t begin and end in the mind. We’re kicking off a new season as the Trauma Doc with a candid, practical deep-dive into what your body has been trying to tell you—especially if trauma taught you to live only from the neck up. Joining me is physician assistant and nervous system specialist Lauren Starns, founder of The Resilient Healer, who helps translate the signals we’ve learned to ignore into simple, repeatable practices that restore safety and capacity.

We start where survival mode hides: the basics. Hydration as a quiet cue that steadies the system. Feeding as a nervous system strategy, not a moral battle. Sleep as nightly repair that makes every other intervention stick. Movement as gentle somatic medicine—neck mobility, slow walks, micro-stretches—that brings sensation back online. With each pillar we share actionable tactics: habit-stacking your first 30 minutes, intuitive swaps that honor your body’s yes/no, sleep tracking that informs your day, and five-minute flows that downshift without chasing adrenaline. Expect real talk about alcohol as a chronic downgrade, the difference between knowledge and wisdom, and why automation beats willpower when your system is tired.

Only after safety is built do we go down and in. Lauren reframes crying as a body-led release—short, self-limiting waves that clear stored activation without feeding the story. For many of us, anger and fear are shells over grief; when the body trusts it’s held, tears do their clean work. The outcome is tangible: a wider window of tolerance, fewer spikes, and a steadier presence for life, work, faith, and relationships. If you’ve felt buzzy, brittle, or numb, this conversation offers structure, compassion, and tools to help you feel again—without flooding your system.

If this resonates, follow the show and share it with someone who needs the reminder that healing starts below the neck. Subscribe, leave a review, and tell us: which body practice will you start this week?

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Nervous System episode with Lauren Starnes:

https://www.buzzsprout.com/1027246/episodes/18786923

Healing starts when we stop guessing and start listening to the body. We kick off a focused season by defining trauma in plain language, mapping the window of tolerance, and showing how the nervous system becomes both the alarm and the doorway back to calm. I share why misusing the word “trauma” muddies real suffering, how symptoms show up in bodies first, and what changes when we treat headaches, insomnia, gut pain, and tension as data instead of defects.

From there, we unpack PTSD without blame. You’ll hear how clinicians assess reliving, avoidance, mood shifts, and hyperarousal; why timing separates acute stress from PTSD; and how a clear name can reduce shame and open access to care. We also preview a body-led approach with co-host Lauren Starnes, the “trauma translator,” whose work centers on nervous system regulation so the mind can safely process what happened. Regulation before revelation becomes our guiding practice.

Two listener questions bring this to ground. First, how to protect children from your own trauma: do the work, model repair, and let your regulation lead. Second, what to do after a harmful EMDR experience: safety is treatment, trust the rupture, and consider proven options like CPT, CBT, IFS, narrative therapy, and somatic skills. Throughout, we emphasize practical tools—grounding, paced breathing, orienting, and gentle movement—to discharge survival energy and widen your capacity.

We close with news close to my heart: the launch of Victory Trauma Consulting, offering accessible one-on-one support, education for churches and workplaces, and pricing that meets people where they are. If you’re ready to understand triggers and flashbacks, regulate your nervous system, and reclaim a life that feels abundant and free, join us. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs hope, and leave a review so others can find these tools. Your body is speaking. Let’s learn its language together.

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