It’s our first episode of 2026—and instead of resolutions, we’re talking about release.

From clearing decades of clutter to making fast, emotional decisions about what stays and what goes, this episode is about more than downsizing. It’s about energy, freedom, and forward momentum. We share what it’s really like to prepare for a major move, the weight of “someday,” and why letting go of stuff can unlock clarity in life, finances, and purpose.

A new year. A clean slate. A chapter that finally feels intentional.

Takeaways:

1. In the pursuit of emotional and financial freedom, let us recognize that decluttering our physical space is a profound step toward liberation.
2. As we navigate the complexities of life transitions, we must confront the emotional weight of our possessions and make decisive choices about their future.
3. The act of decluttering serves not merely to create physical space, but to facilitate an emotional release from the burdens of 'someday' and postponed decisions.
4. To embark on a journey of intentional living, we must first liberate ourselves from the clutter that impedes our progress and hinders our ability to embrace new opportunities.
5. Through the process of letting go, we invite new energy into our lives, making room for growth and new experiences that align with our evolving aspirations.
6. It is crucial to approach decluttering with a framework of quick decision-making, categorizing items into keep, donate, or discard, thereby alleviating the emotional burden associated with indecision.

Christmas used to mean sleepless nights, toy assembly, and mall chaos. Now it looks quieter — and surprisingly clearer.

In Episode 29, Matthew and Nancy reflect on how the holidays have changed as parents become grandparents, kids grow up, and priorities shift. They talk about selling a home, purging decades of belongings, digitizing memories, and confronting the dangerous comfort of “someday.”

This episode is a thoughtful, honest holiday conversation about gratitude, faith, family, and why simplifying your life can sometimes feel like gaining more — not less.

Takeaways:

1. The holiday season evolves as families transition into new roles, such as becoming grandparents.
2. Reflecting on past Christmas experiences illuminates the emotional journey we all share during this time.
3. Letting go of physical possessions can be liberating, allowing us to prioritize what truly matters.
4. The concept of 'someday projects' can hinder our progress; it is imperative to act on our intentions now.
5. Navigating family dynamics during the holidays requires open communication and the willingness to adapt.
6. Gratitude for shared experiences and family connections remains a cornerstone of meaningful holiday celebrations.

Matthew and Nancy are back from “sunny Florida” to a not-so-sunny welcome home: snow glare, shovel workouts, and the reality of getting their house ready to list. After sharing their decision to sell, they’re met with reactions ranging from supportive to wildly dramatic—like selling your house means you’re broke, confused, or about to become a roaming circus act.

They unpack what’s really happening: a strategic lifestyle change, a path to becoming 100% debt-free, and a full-on purge of everything they’ve accumulated (including tools, wood scraps, mementos, and enough printed photos to wallpaper a small town). They also talk about how different it feels to declutter your own home versus doing it for estate sales—because emotions don’t come with price tags.

Along the way: holiday simplicity (no tree this year), giving back, the reality of adult kids living far away, and the “four day rule” when family visits—because love is real… and so is the need for your own space.

Takeaways:

• Matthew and Nancy's decision to sell their home is purely a strategic lifestyle change aimed at achieving complete financial freedom.
• The couple faces various reactions from their community, including misunderstandings about their reasons for selling their house.
• Decluttering for personal reasons is deeply emotional, differing significantly from the detached process of preparing items for estate sales.
• They emphasize the importance of giving back during the holiday season, highlighting their recent charitable contributions despite personal changes.
• Matthew and Nancy reflect on the reality of adult children living far away, acknowledging the challenges of family dynamics during the holidays.
• The couple discusses the necessity of establishing boundaries when hosting family, referencing their 'four day rule' for visits.

Chaos, coffee, barking dogs, grandkids, paint fumes, and Christmas expectations—this episode has it all.

Fresh off Thanksgiving, Nancy and Matthew dive into holiday stress, big decisions, emotional overload, and what happens when life gets messy and loud.

From managing expectations to navigating kids, dogs, decorating (or NOT decorating), and everything that hits at once in December… this one’s real, relatable, and unfiltered.

If you've ever tried to hold it together during the holiday season, welcome home.

Takeaways:

• The holiday season invariably brings an array of chaotic experiences, from managing family expectations to juggling multiple responsibilities, which can lead to emotional overload.
• Nancy and Matthew candidly discuss their decision to forego elaborate Christmas decorations this year, opting instead for simplicity amidst ongoing home renovations.
• Through sharing personal anecdotes, they highlight the importance of maintaining realistic expectations concerning holiday gatherings and the inevitable stressors associated with them.
• They emphasize the significance of preparation and organization as essential strategies to alleviate the overwhelming nature of the holiday season for families.
• The couple reflects on their experiences with holiday traditions, acknowledging how they evolve and adapt as family dynamics change over time.
• Listeners are encouraged to find joy in the present moment, cherishing time with family while acknowledging the inherent challenges of the holiday season.

It’s Thanksgiving week, and Matthew & Nancy get real about gratitude, exhaustion, big life decisions, downsizing, money mistakes, emotional overwhelm, and navigating it all together. From parenting reflections to Facebook Marketplace chaos to processing selling their home, this episode is honest, messy, and full of heart.

Takeaways:

• Embracing vulnerability is essential when addressing significant life transitions, as demonstrated by our discussions on gratitude and family updates.
• Navigating the complexities of financial decisions can often lead to feelings of overwhelm and uncertainty, particularly when selling a cherished family home.
• Our differing approaches to processing emotions highlight the importance of communication in maintaining alignment as a couple during stressful times.
• The experience of letting go of possessions serves as a metaphor for releasing expectations and embracing change in our lives.
• Silence, while sometimes necessary, can create tension in a marriage, underscoring the need for open dialogue about feelings and decisions.
• Reflecting on our Thanksgiving traditions reveals the beauty of simplicity and gratitude amidst life's challenges and changes.

Whether it’s a fishing trip, a facial, or just locking the bathroom door for five uninterrupted minutes—this episode is all about the vital (and often funny) truth that healthy relationships need personal space. Nancy and Matthew reflect on their early parenting years, share their current routines for alone time, and talk openly about guilt, boundaries, and self-care. They also dive into the importance of balance, mutual respect, and why doing things apart can actually bring couples closer. It’s relatable, real, and surprisingly rejuvenating.

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 People Mentioned:

• Donny (Matthew's friend)
• Tanya (Ultra event)
• Megan & Vinny (couple friends)

🏢 Companies/Organizations Mentioned:

• GrowthDay
• Ultra (Brendon Burchard event)
• Silvermine Arts Center
• Powerhouse Women event

Takeaways:

• In nurturing healthy relationships, it is paramount to acknowledge the necessity of personal space.
• Engaging in activities separately can foster a deeper connection between partners when they reunite.
• The dialogue emphasizes the significance of establishing boundaries to combat feelings of guilt in shared responsibilities.
• Through personal reflections, Nancy and Matthew illustrate the rejuvenating effects of self-care routines amid parenting duties.
• They highlight that self-care, whether through hobbies or personal time, is essential for maintaining balance in a relationship.
• The podcast advocates for mutual respect and understanding, particularly regarding the need for alone time in a partnership.

In this candid conversation, Matt and Nancy Greger unpack what retirement really means after 37 years of marriage, raising kids, and now grandparenting. They challenge the traditional idea of retirement as “doing nothing” and instead explore how freedom, purpose, and planning shape their vision for the next chapter. From financial goals to staying active in community and service, they share their honest struggles, hopes, and the mindset shifts that keep them moving forward. If you’re thinking about your own retirement or life’s next phase, this episode will inspire you to create a meaningful, joyful future on your own terms.

Whether you’re 30 or 60, this episode challenges you to rethink what you’re working toward and why—because retirement isn’t an end, it’s a new beginning filled with freedom, community, and purpose.

Takeaways:

• Retirement is fundamentally a transition to a life of intention, freedom, and joy rather than merely an end to work.
• The Greger's journey underscores the importance of financial planning and community engagement in achieving a fulfilling retirement.
• It is essential to cultivate a purpose and maintain active involvement in meaningful activities throughout the retirement phase.
• Creating a retirement plan that includes both financial goals and community service aspirations can lead to greater fulfillment and satisfaction in life.
• The Greger's perspective on retirement emphasizes that it is crucial to remain active and engaged, rather than succumbing to a sedentary lifestyle.
• Ultimately, retirement should be viewed as an opportunity to explore passions and strengthen relationships, ensuring a vibrant and purposeful life.

In Episode 23 of We Should Probably Edit This – But We Won’t, Nancy and Matthew dive deep into the realities (and ridiculousness) of getting older. They cover:

• Wrinkles, naps, and the mysterious disappearance of metabolism
• Why laughter really is the best facelift
• The balance between aging parents and grown kids
• Financial lessons, personal growth, and letting go of “shoulds”
• Travel dreams, staying active, and refusing to slow down

It’s equal parts reflection, comedy, and truth — because if you can’t laugh about getting older, you’re missing the best part.

From sagging jowls and forgotten glasses to retirement dreams and rollercoaster regrets, Nancy and Matthew get real (and really funny) about aging. They share what’s changed, what still matters, and the life lessons that come with gray hairs, grown kids, and grandkids.

It’s a brutally honest — and surprisingly hilarious — take on what it means to grow older together with love, laughter, and a little less hair.

Takeaways:

• Aging brings both physical changes and emotional adjustments that require honest reflection.
• The significance of maintaining friendships and social connections becomes increasingly apparent as we age.
• Financial preparedness is crucial for enjoying a comfortable retirement and avoiding stress later in life.
• Life experiences lead to a shift in priorities, where joy in simple moments outweighs previous concerns.
• Embracing the inevitability of aging allows for a focus on personal growth and fulfillment.
• Understanding that life stages bring different challenges can help navigate the complexities of aging.