After coaching thousands of women (and learning a lot from my own journey), I’ve realized that our brains are really good at focusing on what we haven’t yet accomplished, while completely glossing over what we have. That’s why it’s crucial to actively look for evidence of growth and progress.

In this episode, I’m sharing the three biggest insights I gained during my 43rd year: how to handle differences of opinion in relationships without being triggered, how to make decisions even when you don’t have all the answers, and why no single achievement will change your life overnight. Tune in to hear how embracing the highs and lows of life can teach us everything we need to know about self-trust, decision-making, and staying grounded in uncertainty.

For full show notes, transcript, and more information, go to: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/391

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Every year on my birthday, I give YOU a present — a flash sale on your first month inside The Feminist Self-Help Society, my flagship coaching membership. The sale only runs April 24–26, so this is your official heads up. If you want in, make sure you’re on the list. 👉 Go to schoolofnewfeministthought.com/list-podcast or text your email to +1 (347) 997-1784 with the code word LIST and I’ll send you a reminder when the doors open. Don’t miss it — I only do this once a year!

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If you’ve been thinking about joining, now’s the time to grab this birthday offer. Go to https://the-school-of-new-feminist-thought.captivate.fm/birthday-sale

Is your brain stuck replaying the same unhelpful thoughts on a loop? You’re not broken—your brain is just doing what it’s been trained to do: cling to old stories, even when they’re holding you back. In this episode, I’m sharing one of my favorite coaching tools that can break that loop instantly. It’s simple, powerful, and might just change how you see everything—from your relationships to your goals to how you think about yourself.

Find the full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/390

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For just three days—April 24th to 26th—you can join The Feminist Self-Help Society at 50% off your first month. Get access to self-coaching tools, courses on everything from relationships to productivity, live coaching, unlimited personal support, and a vibrant community of like-minded women. If you’ve been thinking about joining, now’s the time to grab this birthday offer. Go to https://the-school-of-new-feminist-thought.captivate.fm/birthday-sale

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What does it really mean to be extraordinary—and why does it feel so uncomfortable to even ask that question? In this week’s episode, I’m unpacking the way society trains women and marginalized people to fear their own greatness. We’re taught that wanting more—more impact, more growth, more self-expression—is selfish or arrogant. And in times like these, when the world feels like it’s sliding backward, that message gets even louder: stay quiet, don’t make waves, be content with “good enough.”

But now is exactly when we need to lean into our power. Tune in to learn why being extraordinary has nothing to do with fame or visibility—and everything to do with how deeply you commit to your values, your purpose, and your own full expression.

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/389

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For just three days—April 24th to 26th—you can join The Feminist Self-Help Society at 50% off your first month. Get access to self-coaching tools, courses on everything from relationships to productivity, live coaching, unlimited personal support, and a vibrant community of like-minded women. If you’ve been thinking about joining, now’s the time to grab this birthday offer. Go to https://the-school-of-new-feminist-thought.captivate.fm/birthday-sale

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Does the future feel totally impossible to plan for right now? As someone who loves planning and going after my goals, I’ve found it really hard to wrap my brain around long-term thinking when everything—politics, the economy, even basic social norms—feels like it’s shifting under our feet. So in this episode, I’m sharing how I’m navigating this moment—and offering a mindset shift that can help you move forward with clarity, even when the future looks like a big ol’ question mark.

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/388

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For just three days—April 24th to 26th—you can join The Feminist Self-Help Society at 50% off your first month. Get access to self-coaching tools, courses on everything from relationships to productivity, live coaching, unlimited personal support, and a vibrant community of like-minded women. If you’ve been thinking about joining, now’s the time to grab this birthday offer. Go to https://the-school-of-new-feminist-thought.captivate.fm/birthday-sale

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Today, I'm revisiting one of the most essential tools in thought work: the thought ladder.

If you’ve ever tried to change your results by slapping on a shiny new thought that doesn’t quite feel believable, you already know it doesn’t work that way. In this episode, I’m breaking down why belief—not just thought—is what really drives change, and how to climb the ladder in a way your brain can actually follow. This work takes patience and persistence, but the payoff is huge.

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/387

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For just three days—April 24th to 26th—you can join The Feminist Self-Help Society at 50% off your first month. Get access to self-coaching tools, courses on everything from relationships to productivity, live coaching, unlimited personal support, and a vibrant community of like-minded women. If you’ve been thinking about joining, now’s the time to grab this birthday offer. Go to https://the-school-of-new-feminist-thought.captivate.fm/birthday-sale

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Ever felt the urge to shake things up with a bold, unexpected move? Women are taught that midlife is when we’re supposed to fade into the background, but what if it’s actually the perfect time to dream bigger, take more risks, and redefine what’s possible for ourselves?

This week, Master Certified Life Coach Susan Hyatt is back to talk about making courageous changes—at any age. She’s sharing her own wild decision to sail around the world (with six pets, no less!) and calling out the limiting beliefs that keep women from going after their biggest dreams. Whether you're looking to switch careers, take up a new hobby, or embark on an adventure, this episode is your sign to go for it!

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/386

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For just three days—April 24th to 26th—you can join The Feminist Self-Help Society at 50% off your first month. Get access to self-coaching tools, courses on everything from relationships to productivity, live coaching, unlimited personal support, and a vibrant community of like-minded women. If you’ve been thinking about joining, now’s the time to grab this birthday offer. Go to https://the-school-of-new-feminist-thought.captivate.fm/birthday-sale

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Are you struggling to focus with everything happening in the world right now? You’re not alone. When life feels chaotic and uncertain, it’s natural for your brain to spiral. But staying stuck in that disoriented, doom-scrolling state isn’t actually helping you feel safer—it’s just keeping you trapped in stress and anxiety.

In this episode, I break down why your brain wants to keep obsessively checking the news and why that strategy never really helps. Plus, I’ll share one powerful mindset shift that can help you navigate this unsettling time. Tune in to learn how to make this shift and find a little more peace—no matter what’s happening around you.

Get full show notes and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/385

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