At the start of every year, I choose a theme - not just goals, but a guiding philosophy. For 2026, that theme is doing less and achieving more.

In this episode, we explore why focus beats busyness, why saying no creates better outcomes, and how choosing depth over overwhelm can actually lead to more success.

Our discussion includes:

• Why a yearly theme is more powerful than traditional goals
• The psychology of intrinsic motivation
• The importance of focused vs. scattered effort
• How to choose 1–2 true priorities for the year
• The surprising psychology of rest
• How to plan a year that feels intentional, not exhausting

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In our final guest episode for the year, we're hearing from the listeners! I asked you all to call in with the biggest dilemmas you've had in your 20s; questions you want answered, or just situations where you may have been desperate for advice and you answered the call!

We answer 7 of your most burning questions, including:

• How do I end a friendship in my 20s
• How do I get my life back after an ex
• How do I deal with disappointing my family
• How do I feel at home in a new city
• How do I deal with someone who doesn't like me?

Listen now for all the psychological advice and wisdom you need during this decade.

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I'm officially a UK resident! My thoughts on moving and this exciting new chapter for the podcast x

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There is a huge emphasis on treating romance as the main marker of a successful life – from questions from family, to seemingly perfect online couples – it’s hard to believe anything else when society celebrates this kind of ideal.

In this episode, we look at how romance is often seen as the main focus of our 20s, what it can distract us from, and how we can start to approach it differently.

We explore:

• The social script of our 20s
• The role of milestone anxiety and FOMO
• How this can lead to us neglecting other areas of our lives, including our goals
• Emotional bypassing and avoiding the deeper work
• What a healthy approach to love looks like
• 5 tips to decentre romantic love

If you’ve ever felt like your life is on pause until your relationship status changes, this episode is for you.

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We can be so fixed on a job, a person, an outcome that we fuse our identity to it – and, crucially, forget that we’re okay without it. In today’s bonus episode, we unpack detachment: why we cling so tightly to people and outcomes, what over-attachment does to our mind and mood, and how to loosen the grip in a way that feels calm, kind, and clear.
We explore:

• Why we become attached to certain people or outcomes
• The impact of becoming overly attached on our behaviours, thoughts and emotions
• The Buddhist concept of ‘non-attachment’
• How detaching from the outcome can keep us grounded
• The value of the Stoic mindset

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Money and love: the two things we stress about most in our twenties, and yet we rarely talk about how deeply connected they are. In this episode, I’m joined by Jack Howard, Head of Money Wellness at Ally, to unpack the psychology of money in our relationships and how it shapes who we date, how we fight, and how we build a life together.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why money and love are so deeply linked
• Spender vs. saver dynamics and why opposites so often attract
• Why we emotionally spend?
• What’s the deal with prenups?
• Is it worth having an expensive wedding?
• When to get joint bank accounts?
• How to talk about money WELL!

If you’ve ever argued about money with a partner, avoided talking about it, or worried you’re “bad” with finances, this episode will give you language, tools, and a lot of reassurance that you’re not alone.

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Getting diagnosed with ADHD as an adult can feel like both a relief and a reckoning. Suddenly your past makes so much more sense… but now you’re faced with learning a whole new way of managing your brain, your time, your relationships and your self-worth.

In this episode, I’m joined by Chris Wang, founder and CEO of Shimmer, who was diagnosed with ADHD at 28. Together we unpack what ADHD really looks like in your twenties, including:

• The three ADHD subtypes and why women are so often missed
• How late diagnosis can completely rewrite your identity (in a good way)
• Why traditional productivity advice often fails ADHD brains
• The role of urgency, novelty and accountability
• What actually is rejection sensitivity dysphoria (RSD)?
• What ADHD–ADHD relationships can look like vs ADHD–neurotypical dynamics?

If you’ve ever wondered, “Do I just suck at being an adult, or is my brain wired differently?”, this episode is for you.

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Find your dream job in your 20s is no easy feat, in fact your dream job probably doesn't exist, but you CAN determine what kind of career path is best for you based on your personality. Today we have on George Appling whose research on the 5 career paths can help us determine where to next! Our discussion includes:

• The five main career paths and what they entail
• When should you pursue your passion & when should you pursue financial stability?
• Why money doesn’t always make us happier
• The necessary role of failure and experimentation when finding purpose
• How to become a “passionpreneur”
• What Taylor Swift, Ed Sheeran & Matthew McConaughey have in common that makes them successful?

Plus so much more, listen now!

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