In this episode of The Parenting Pair Podcast, Dr. Suzanne Allen and Dr. Annalise Caron unpack the myths and realities around teens and marijuana. With cannabis now legal in many states, parents are left wondering what’s normal experimentation, what’s risky, and how to talk about it without shutting their teen down.

Together, they explore:

• How marijuana affects the developing teen brain
• Why legalization and changing norms can give teens mixed messages
• The difference between occasional use and patterns that raise red flags
• How to have open, curious conversations that keep your teen talking
• Strategies for setting boundaries while maintaining trust and connection

If you’ve ever worried about your teen and marijuana—or just want to be prepared for the conversation—this episode will give you clarity, language, and compassion to navigate it with confidence.

Here are some highlights from this episode:

0:00 Parenting in the era of legal weed
1:14 Listener question: Teen thinks marijuana is safe
3:35 Risk-taking in adolescence
6:08 How marijuana affects the teen brain
10:08 Short-term vs. long-term risks
10:48 “Weed helps me” – tips for talking with your teen
14:30 Parent use vs. teen use
15:22 Why today’s marijuana is stronger
17:04 Edibles, vaping & hidden dangers
20:51 Delta-8 vs. Delta-9: what parents should know
24:15 Talking with other parents about marijuana
26:44 Heavy teen use & when to seek help
30:11 What now: Conversations & safety plans
32:13 Final advice for parents

Should you track your teen’s location? From apps like Life360 to Find My iPhone, GPS tracking can offer parents peace of mind — but it can also raise big questions about trust, privacy, and independence. In this thoughtful conversation, Dr. Annalise Caron and Dr. Suzanne Allen explore the pros and cons of location tracking for teens and tweens.

You’ll hear:

• What parents gain (and lose) when tracking their teen’s whereabouts
• How tracking can affect a teen’s sense of autonomy, trust, and responsibility
• When GPS tracking might strengthen your relationship — and when it might strain it
• Why transparency and open discussion matter
• Practical ideas for setting boundaries, using tracking selectively, and preparing for the transition to young adulthood

Whether you currently use a location tracking app or are just considering it, this episode will help you reflect on your family’s needs, manage your own anxiety, and make intentional choices about digital safety and independence.

Here are some highlights from this episode:
00:00 – Intro: Should Parents Track Their Teens?
02:17 – Gains for Parents from GPS Tracking
05:22 – Potential Gains for Teens from GPS Tracking
07:43 – Losses for Teens: Privacy, Trust, and Independence
11:33 – Losses for Parents: Tolerating Uncertainty
13:10 – Parallels with School Grade Tracking Apps
15:47 – Tracking Is Not All-or-Nothing: Finding a Middle Ground
18:30 – Transparency with Teens About Tracking
20:06 – Modeling Digital Boundaries & Talking About Snap Map
23:27 – What Now: Reflecting on Gains & Losses
24:20 – Parent-to-Parent Support, College Years Considerations

Don’t forget to share this episode with fellow parents—because thoughtful conversations about technology and autonomy can shape healthier, more trusting relationships with your teens.

The Power of Apologizing: How Genuine Apologies Strengthen Your Relationship with Your Teen

In this new episode of The Parenting Pair Podcast, Dr. Annalise Caron and Dr. Suzanne Allen explore the vital role of apologies in parenting—why saying “I'm sorry” can be a powerful tool for building trust, respect, and emotional health with your teens. They discuss common barriers that prevent parents from apologizing effectively, and share practical strategies to overcome these “apology traps” to foster more authentic, compassionate connections.

Join us as we delve into:

-- Why parents often hesitate to apologize and how it impacts your authority and your teen’s perception of respect
-- The misconception that apologizing equals losing control, and how genuine apologies can actually empower your relationship
-- How to avoid “tit for tat” and “double dipping” traps—apologizing without expecting anything in return or pairing apologies with blame
-- Simple, effective ways to apologize—whether face-to-face, via text, or with a quick note—that feel authentic and respectful
-- The importance of timing, patience, and repair in the apology process—when to revisit and how to show accountability over time
-- How practicing honest apologies now can positively influence your teen’s future relationships and emotional resilience

Here are some highlights from the episode:

00:00 – Why Parents Need to Apologize for Stronger Relationships
02:50 – The “Losing Authority” Trap—Why Apologizing Can Actually Boost Respect
05:20 – Avoiding “Tit for Tat” and “Double Dipping” Traps in Apologies
11:51 – Self Reflection and How to Keep Apologies Genuine and Effective
17:22 – When and How to Revisit Apologies for Lasting Impact
18:42 – Repairing and Strengthening Your Bond with Your Teen Helps Their Future Relationships

Tune in for practical advice on how to own your mistakes with confidence, foster mutual respect, and create a family culture rooted in honesty and care. Don’t forget to share this episode with fellow parents—because heartfelt apologies are a cornerstone of loving, resilient relationships.