Episodios

  • The Anxiety of What's Not Happening
    May 1 2025

    Have you ever found yourself feeling miserable about things that aren't even happening? As a mindful communications coach, I've encountered countless individuals who struggle with this peculiar form of unhappiness. In this episode of The Mindful Coach Podcast, we explore the powerful impact of our thoughts on our well-being and discover how to shift our focus to the present moment.

    The Trap of Imaginary Outcomes

    We often fall into the habit of worrying about potential future events, allowing our minds to create scenarios that may never materialize. This tendency can lead to:

    • Unnecessary stress and anxiety
    • Disconnection from the present moment
    • Missed opportunities for joy and appreciation

    I share insights on how to recognize when you're "living in the gap" between what's happening now and what could happen, and offer strategies to break free from this cycle.

    Embracing the Beauty of Now

    "To have a day that is enjoyable is to have a day that has enjoyable moments."

    Learn how to cultivate an awareness of the "diamonds at your feet" - those everyday moments of beauty and wonder that surround us. We discuss:

    • Techniques for noticing and appreciating ordinary experiences
    • The power of presence in transforming our perception
    • How to balance necessary planning with mindful living

    Practical Tools for Staying Present

    Discover actionable techniques to anchor yourself in the present moment, including:

    • The "name it to tame it" approach for managing difficult thoughts
    • Somatic practices for grounding yourself in your body
    • Strategies for breaking the spell of negative thought patterns

    Reframing Challenges

    Through powerful examples and personal anecdotes, we explore how to maintain presence even in the face of genuine difficulties. Learn how to:

    • Distinguish between necessary problem-solving and unproductive worry
    • Find moments of peace and clarity amidst challenging circumstances
    • Cultivate resilience by focusing on what's within your control

    This episode offers a fresh perspective on happiness and invites you to reconsider the source of your discontent. By learning to navigate the gap between imagination and reality, you can open yourself to a richer, more fulfilling experience of life - right here, right now.

    Are you ready to discover the unexpected path to greater happiness? Join me in this exploration of mindful presence and the transformative power of living in the now.

    #mindfulness, #presence, #happiness #anxiety #negative outcomes #ordinary beauty #Eckhart Tolle #mental health #coaching #self-awareness

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    29 m
  • Empathy as a Strength for Men
    Apr 16 2025

    As a mindful, somatic coach and trainer, I've witnessed the profound impact that effective communication can have on our lives. In this episode, I explore the often-overlooked topic of men's struggle with sensitivity and empathy in a world that often discourages these traits.

    The Challenge of Male Sensitivity

    I share a personal story from my youth that illustrates the harsh societal expectations placed on men to suppress their emotions. This experience, along with countless others I've encountered in my work, highlights the urgent need for a cultural shift in how we view and nurture male sensitivity.

    The Neurological Truth

    Contrary to popular belief, research suggests that there's little neurological difference between male and female brains when it comes to empathy. This revelation begs the question: Are men naturally less empathetic, or has our culture conditioned them to suppress these innate qualities?

    Reclaiming Empathy and Sensitivity

    I offer insights on how men can reconnect with their emotional selves and create safe spaces for vulnerability. This process involves:

    • Recognizing the value of sensitivity in leadership and relationships
    • Finding supportive communities that celebrate emotional intelligence
    • Developing mindfulness practices to enhance self-awareness

    The Power of Intentional Communication

    We explore the immense impact our words can have on others and ourselves. By choosing our language with care and intention, we can become powerful forces for positive change in our relationships and communities.

    A Call for Cultural Transformation

    This episode serves as an invitation for all of us - regardless of gender - to examine how we can create a world that honors and nurtures our innate sensitivities. By doing so, we open the door to deeper connections, more authentic relationships, and a society that values the full spectrum of human emotion.

    Whether you're a man grappling with your own sensitivity, someone who loves and supports sensitive men, or simply interested in fostering more empathetic communication, this episode offers valuable insights and practical strategies for embracing our true selves in a world that often resists vulnerability.

    Connect for Support and Coaching

    If you or someone know resonates with this episode, reach out to me at TheMindfulCoach.com as I love to work with people on how to manage empathy.

    The Gift and Burden of Empathy

    Read more about how Empathy can be a gift and burden

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    49 m
  • No Ordinary Conversations - The Art Mindful Communication
    Apr 3 2025





    In a world that often feels like it's spinning out of control, how can we find genuine connection and meaning in our everyday interactions? As a mindful communications coach, I've spent years exploring this question, and in this episode of The Mindful Coach Podcast, I share some powerful insights that can transform your relationships and your life.

    The Power of Presence

    We live in a culture that constantly pushes us to do more, be more, and achieve more. But what if the key to a fulfilling life isn't about striving for future success, but rather about being fully present in each moment? I discuss:

    • • The importance of slowing down and checking in with yourself
    • • How to notice and appreciate the small beauties in life
    • • Why connecting to your deeper self leads to more satisfying interactions

    Creating Extraordinary Conversations

    Every interaction holds the potential for meaningful connection. I offer practical tips for elevating your conversations:

    • Look beyond the story: Learn to see the person behind their roles and labels
    • Practice active listening: Tune into what's not being said
    • Name what you appreciate: Verbalize the positive things you notice about others

    The Art of Acceptance

    One of the most powerful tools for creating connection is accepting the truth of your experience. I share:

    • • Why resisting difficult circumstances only increases suffering
    • • How to acknowledge challenges without being defined by them
    • • The liberating effect of naming your emotions

    Embodying Your Authentic Self

    When you connect to your core essence, and speak form that place - you become an inspiration to others. I explore:

    • • The concept of "embodied authority" and how to cultivate it
    • • Setting clear, non-negotiable boundaries from a place of self-knowledge
    • • Why authenticity is magnetic and creates deeper connections

    This episode is an invitation to pause, reflect, and reconnect with what truly matters. By implementing these practices, you can create more meaningful relationships and a richer, more satisfying life experience.

    Are you ready to take your conversations from ordinary to extraordinary? Join me in exploring the transformative power of mindful communication.


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    The Power of Mindful Communication in Everyday Life

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    Navigating VUCA Times: Finding Balance in a Chaotic World

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    The Art of Deep Listening and Authentic Connection

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    Embodying Authenticity and Setting Boundaries

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    Practical Mindfulness: Integrating Awareness into Daily Life

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    48 m
  • A Powerful Tip for Self Care in Challenging Times: Curating Your Inputs
    Mar 21 2025

    In a world inundated with distressing news and constant challenges, how can we maintain our balance and effectiveness? This episode of The Mindful Coach Podcast explores the critical importance of curating our inputs to protect our mental health and preserve our capacity for positive action.

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    The Power of Selective Attention

    We discuss the concept of "curating your inputs" and why it's essential for maintaining emotional equilibrium:

    • Recognizing the impact of repeated exposure to negative news
    • Balancing awareness with self-preservation
    • Cultivating a mindset that acknowledges both global challenges and enduring beauty

    Practical Techniques for Mental Wellbeing

    I share actionable advice for managing your information diet:

    • Limit news consumption: Set boundaries on when and how often you engage with headlines
    • Choose quality over quantity: Focus on in-depth, thoughtful analysis rather than sensationalized snippets
    • Cultivate positive influences: Surround yourself with uplifting content and supportive individuals

    Maintaining Perspective in Challenging Times

    We explore the wisdom of spiritual teachers like Eckhart Tolle and Ram Dass, applying their insights to our current global situation. Learn how to:

    • Connect with your inner "being" that remains unshaken by external events
    • Find purpose and meaning in relieving suffering, starting with self-care
    • Embrace the enduring beauty of the world, even in difficult times

    The Importance of Self-Care for Effective Action

    I emphasize why taking care of yourself is not selfish, but essential:

    • Recognizing the marathon nature of long-term challenges
    • Building resilience through mindful practices
    • Preserving your energy for meaningful engagement and positive impact

    Whether you're a coach, leader, or simply someone striving to make a difference, this episode offers valuable insights for maintaining your center amidst chaos. By learning to curate your inputs effectively, you can cultivate the inner strength and clarity needed to be a force for good in the world.

    Remember, the world needs your heartfelt presence and embodied authority. Join me in exploring how to nurture these qualities, even in the face of overwhelming circumstances.

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    8 m
  • The Future of Coaching is Somatic
    Mar 13 2025
    The Future of Coaching: Embracing Somatic Practices for Deeper Connections

    Have you ever wondered how coaching could become more impactful and transformative? In this informative presentation, I explore the future of coaching—a future deeply rooted in somatic experiences.

    As a mindful communications coach and specialist, I've seen firsthand the power of integrating body-centered awareness into coaching practices. This approach goes beyond traditional methods, tapping into the wisdom of our physical experiences to create profound shifts in our clients' lives.

    The Power of Somatic Coaching

    Somatic coaching isn't just about talking through problems - it's about:

    • Connecting directly with bodily experiences
    • Integrating thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations
    • Helping clients give voice to their authentic selves

    I share how these practices can lead to more meaningful insights and lasting change for clients, often in less time than traditional coaching methods.

    Key Somatic Techniques for Coaches

    Throughout the presentation, I offer practical techniques that coaches can start using immediately:

    • Transition practices: Helping clients shift into a more present state
    • Body-part dialogue: Allowing different aspects of the body to "speak"
    • Slowing down movements: Creating space for deeper awareness and insight

    The Mindful Coach Methodthemindfulcoachmethod

    I introduce my comprehensive training program, The Mindful Coach Method designed to help coaches integrate these powerful somatic techniques into their practice. This 8-week course offers a structured approach to developing somatic awareness and applying it effectively in coaching sessions.

    Whether you're an experienced coach looking to expand your toolkit or a newcomer curious about somatic approaches, this presentation offers valuable insights into the transformative potential of body-centered coaching.

    Join me as we explore how embracing somatic awareness can revolutionize your coaching practice and create deeper, more meaningful connections with your clients.

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    54 m
  • Finding Your Center In Minutes Amidst Political Turmoil
    Mar 6 2025

    How can we maintain our balance and inner peace in today's tumultuous world? This episode of The Mindful Coach Podcast explores a powerful technique for cultivating resilience amidst life's storms.

    As your host, I share a simple yet profound practice that can help you navigate the challenges of our current political climate and the constant barrage of disturbing news. This practice is not about escaping reality, but rather about finding a stable center from which to engage with the world more effectively.

    The Centering Breath Practice

    At the heart of this episode is the centering breath practice - a tool that can help you:

    • Calm your nervous system
    • Expand your awareness
    • Increase your resilience

    I guide you through this practice, offering insights on how to incorporate it into your daily life for maximum benefit.

    Why Centering Matters

    In a world where outrage and anxiety seem to be the default states, I explain why cultivating a sense of center is crucial:

    • It prevents burnout
    • It allows for more effective action
    • It connects us to our deeper nature

    Balancing Engagement and Self-Care

    This episode tackles the challenging question: How do we stay engaged with the world's problems without becoming overwhelmed? I offer perspectives on:

    • Accepting reality without resignation
    • Finding inspiration in difficult times
    • The importance of beauty and grace in our lives

    A Call to Action

    I conclude with an invitation to listeners:

    • Commit to regular self-care practices
    • Develop your capacity for centered engagement
    • Be an effective force for positive change in the world

    Whether you're feeling overwhelmed by current events or simply seeking ways to enhance your resilience, this episode offers practical tools and inspiring insights to help you navigate life's challenges more easily and effectively.

    If you're interested, you can make use of my free mindfulness meditations by texting the workd CENTER to 425-584-5883

    Takeaways:

    • In this podcast episode, we discussed the importance of effective communication in professional settings.
    • We explored various strategies for enhancing interpersonal relationships within the workplace environment.
    • The episode emphasized the need for continuous learning and development to achieve success.
    • I articulated the significance of emotional intelligence in fostering collaborative team dynamics.
    • We examined the impact of leadership styles on organizational culture and employee motivation.
    • The discussion highlighted practical techniques for managing stress and maintaining work-life balance.

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    21 m
  • BEing Profitable - the marketing roadmap for mindful entepreneurs
    Feb 27 2025

    Are you a coach or entrepreneur struggling to make sense of marketing? In this eye-opening episode of The Mindful Coach Podcast, I sit down with John Watson, a sales and marketing coach with over 25 years of experience. John shares his journey from campaign-focused marketing to a holistic, systems-thinking approach that prioritizes intentionality and leadership.

    The Power of Intentional Marketing

    John reveals how his background in environmental science and geography shaped his unique perspective on marketing:

    • Viewing marketing as an integrated system
    • Focusing on the customer's journey through the business
    • Bringing order and structure to the often chaotic world of marketing

    Key Insights for Coaches and Entrepreneurs
    • Understand your maximum cost of acquisition and sale
    • Develop a clear value proposition and competitive distinction
    • Create an offer hierarchy that aligns with your business goals

    John emphasizes the importance of being an expert in your own business, even if you can't be an expert in all aspects of marketing.

    The "Being" in Marketing

    Discover how John's concept of "ways of being" can transform your approach to marketing:

    • Be intentional about your goals and strategies
    • Commit to your plan while remaining flexible
    • Engage vendors and team members in achieving specific outcomes

    Practical Steps for Success
    • Start with the end in mind
    • Create a roadmap for cultivating long-term customer relationships
    • Regularly assess performance and adapt quickly

    John's book, "Being Profitable," offers a comprehensive roadmap for business development that goes beyond tactics to focus on the fundamental principles of effective marketing.

    Whether you're just starting out or looking to refine your existing marketing strategy, this episode provides valuable insights into creating a more intentional, effective approach to growing your coaching or entrepreneurial business.

    Takeaways:

    • In this episode, we discussed the profound challenges inherent in marketing for coaches and professionals dedicated to mindfulness and helping others.
    • We emphasized the necessity of aligning marketing efforts with one's authentic mission to effectively communicate the value of one's services.
    • The conversation highlighted the importance of understanding the financial fundamentals of marketing to ensure sustainable business practices.
    • Listeners were encouraged to approach marketing with a mindset of intentionality and commitment to their objectives for greater success.
    • We explored how a well-structured marketing strategy can lead to meaningful engagement and profitable outcomes for businesses.
    • The episode underscored that cultivating a clear understanding of one's target audience is paramount in driving successful marketing efforts.

    Connect with John at https://accruemarketing.com/

    And check out his book: BEing Profitable on Amazon:

    https://www.amazon.com/Being-Profitab...

    If you'd like to connect with Brett and his work, check out https://themindfulcoach.com

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    51 m
  • Sacred Earth Medicine and the Path to Self Discovery
    Feb 20 2025

    Have you ever wondered about the healing potential of psychedelic microdosing? In this eye-opening episode of The Mindful Coach Podcast, I sit down with Leslie Draffin, a women's somatic coach and psychedelic microdosing guide, to explore the transformative power of sacred earth medicine.

    • • The subtle yet powerful effects of regular microdosing on mental clarity and emotional resilience
    • • How larger doses can catalyze profound breakthroughs and spiritual insights
    • • The importance of intention-setting and integration practices when working with psychedelics

    Safety and Legal Considerations

    We address common concerns about exploring psychedelic healing, including:

    • • How to research local laws and find reputable resources
    • • The value of working with experienced guides and integration coaches
    • • Weighing potential risks against therapeutic benefits

    Connecting with Your Inner Wisdom

    Leslie emphasizes the body's innate healing intelligence, encouraging listeners to:

    • • Trust their intuition when exploring new healing modalities
    • • Identify personal "touchstones" that foster a sense of safety and connection
    • • Cultivate a daily practice of intentional self-connection, even if just for a minute

    Whether you're curious about psychedelic healing or simply seeking new ways to enhance your well-being, this conversation offers valuable insights into the intersection of ancient wisdom and modern therapeutic approaches. Join us as we explore the potential of microdosing to facilitate profound personal growth and healing.

    Takeaways:

    • The podcast emphasizes the transformative power of somatic practices in healing trauma and fostering self-acceptance.
    • Leslie discusses her journey from a successful news anchor to a somatic coach specializing in women's health.
    • Microdosing with psychedelics is presented as a potential method for overcoming deep-seated wounds of unworthiness and mental health challenges.
    • The importance of connecting with nature and understanding one's body is highlighted as a pathway to personal healing and authenticity.
    • Listeners are encouraged to explore their own cycles and rhythms, fostering self-awareness through practices like breath work and movement.
    • The conversation underscores the necessity of trusting one's body to guide personal healing journeys and the significance of intentionality in this process.

    Links referenced in this episode:

    • mindfulcoachassociation.com
    • howtochangeyourmind.com
    • LeslieDraffin.com

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    43 m
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