Episodios

  • 274: 7 Steps to Move Beyond Your Painful Past with Katherine Woodward Thomas
    Jan 27 2026

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    In this episode, Shane talks with Katherine Woodward Thomas about What's True About You: 7 Steps to Move Beyond Your Painful Past and Manifest Your Brightest Future. Katherine is a licensed therapist, recognized pioneer in transformational psychology, and The New York Times bestselling author of Calling in "The One" and Conscious Uncoupling. Hear how consciousness plays into couples therapy, what to do when your clients feel stuck, how to prevent them from losing out on love, what you can learn from imagining yourself as a child, and where healing happens.

    To learn more about Katherine Woodward Thomas, Conscious Uncoupling, and What's True About You: 7 Steps to Move Beyond Your Painful Past and Manifest Your Brightest Future, visit:

    KatherineWoodwardThomas.com

    ConsciousUncoupling.com

    PenguinRandomHouse.com

    You can also listen to Katherine Woodward Thomas on Episode 269 of The Couples Therapist Couch

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    49 m
  • 273: Working with Infidelity in Couples Therapy with Shane Birkel
    Dec 23 2025

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    In this solo episode, Shane talks working with infidelity in couples therapy. Hear why every infidelity case is different, how to initiate the work with your clients, whether it's appropriate to give a timeline, why the guilt is so crucial, and what to coach each partner to do.

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    54 m
  • 272: Common Sexual Issues in Couples Therapy with Adrien Monti
    Dec 16 2025

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    In this episode, Shane talks with Adrien Monti about common sexual issues in couples therapy. Rebecca is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), Couples Therapist, and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist. Hear how to become a sex therapist, how to get comfortable talking about sex with your clients, the most common issues when it comes to sex & couples therapy, when to refer your clients to a sex therapist, and whether you should schedule sex.

    To learn more about Adrien Monti, visit:

    InnerFlameCounseling.com

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    53 m
  • 271: Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) with Dr. Rebecca Jorgensen
    Dec 9 2025

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    In this episode, Shane talks with Dr. Rebecca Jorgensen about Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). Rebecca is a Supervisor & Trainer for EFT, and one of the leaders for teaching the EFT model. Hear why you should consider the EFT model, how to stay grounded as a couples therapist, how to stop your clients from arguing, why self-compassion can be the key to helping your clients, and where to get good EFT support.

    To learn more about Dr. Rebecca Jorgensen and her trainings, visit:

    DrRebeccaJorgensen.com

    Facebook & Instagram @EFTDoc

    Emotionally Focused Therapy Group Facebook Group

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    53 m
  • 270: Attachment Patterns & Secure Relationships with Jessica Baum
    Dec 1 2025

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    In this episode, Shane talks with Jessica Baum about attachment patterns & secure relationships. Jessica is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) and the Author of the new book, Safe: An Attachment-Informed Guide to Building More Secure Relationships. Hear the 4 attachment styles, what causes different types of attachment, how to help your clients develop compassion from themselves, how to use attachment insights with your clients, and why we rely on protectors.

    To learn more about Jessica Baum and her book, Safe, visit:

    JessicaBaumLMHC.com

    JessicaBaumLMHC.com/Safe

    JessicaBaumLMHC.com/Interview

    Instagram @JessicaBaumLMHC

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    46 m
  • 269: Conscious Uncoupling with Katherine Woodward Thomas
    Nov 24 2025

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    In this episode, Shane talks with Katherine Woodward Thomas about Conscious Uncoupling. Katherine is a licensed therapist, recognized pioneer in transformational psychology, and The New York Times bestselling author of Calling in "The One" and Conscious Uncoupling. How to help your clients navigate the shame of failing in a relationship, why finding a great partner comes from within you, how to gently direct questions towards your clients, whether couples therapy works better with one or both partners in the room, and how to shift the language you use when working with clients.

    To learn more about Katherine Woodward Thomas and Conscious Uncoupling, visit:

    KatherineWoodwardThomas.com

    ConsciousUncoupling.com

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    49 m
  • 268: Change Your Questions, Change Your Future with Elliott Connie
    Nov 17 2025

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    In this episode, Shane talks with Elliott Connie about Change Your Questions, Change Your Future. Elliott is a Psychotherapist, Author, Podcaster, and Trailblazer in Solution-Focused Therapy. Hear how to take care of yourself as a couples therapist, why Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) is helpful, how to help your clients find inspiration, how to remind your clients who they are & what they want, and how to practice as a couples therapist.

    To learn more about Elliott Connie, The Solution Focused Universe, his podcasts, and Change Your Questions, Change Your Future, visit:

    ElliottConnie.com

    TheSFU.com

    ElliottConnie.com/Books

    Instagram & Facebook @ElliottSpeaks

    YouTube @ElliottConnieSpeaks

    You can also listen to Elliott on Episode 96 & Episode 154 of The Couples Therapist Couch

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    45 m
  • 267: So Much More than Listening with Shane Birkel
    Nov 13 2025

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    In this solo episode, Shane talks what it really means to be the listener. Hear the listening skills we should all learn, when to be the speaker vs. listener, what to do when your clients are having a hard time being the listener, why affair recovery requires a ton of listening, and the importance of taking a timeout when arguing.

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    40 m