We wrestle with cognitive dissonance, the quiet lies that let us call ourselves good while doing harm. We push into faith, accountability, fatherhood, influence, forgiveness, and how to raise boys who can carry a heavy world

• slavery analogy used to explain cheating and self-deception
• clear definition of cognitive dissonance and why it sticks
• gratitude practice and faith after the blessing arrives
• Chicago pride and media narratives balanced with responsibility
• influence of circles and the ripple effect of one choice
• voicemail on caring for an estranged, ill father and conscience-led action
• forgiveness with boundaries and peace you can live with
• masculinity myths, validation from men, and truth about “player” stress
• losing good partners, therapy, and better communication
• boy moms preparing sons through standards, discipline, and competence
• happiness as a decision anchored in service and growth

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We unpack how to protect kids without excusing bad behavior, tracing a path from strict 90s upbringing to modern overcorrection and the cost of both. Along the way, we talk gratitude, purpose, teacher bias, fair consequences, and the realities of co‑parenting.

• drawing the line between advocacy and enabling
• gratitude as fuel for better parenting
• the village relaunch and mentorship for 12–19s
• teacher bias, targeting and fair classroom rules
• daily resets versus reputation policing
• origins of harsh parenting and inherited fear
• practical due diligence with schools and staff
• co‑parenting boundaries and letting fathers father

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We break down how delaying gratification builds real wealth, not just a better-looking life. Nate Randall joins us to talk real estate, networking across, and investing in people, while we share practical tactics for money, relationships, and raising boys with standards.

• saving on a teaching salary and buying the first building
• why delaying gratification never ends
• wealth versus things and status
• networking across to create future lifts
• leading with value to earn mentorship
• FHA strategy for couples before marriage
• reinvesting rental income and using trusts
• lifestyle autonomy over labels and cars
• working with dad in real estate with balance
• parenting boys with structure and clarity
• leaving room for failure while building skills

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We examine how a two-parent upbringing shapes our idea of normal love, confront the “highlight reel” trap, and make the case for coexistence, self-leadership, and seasons. A new job win, style and posture tips, and an AMP segment on why men often win later round it out.

• growing up with married parents shaping expectations
• social media highlights distorting healthy relationship norms
• conflict resolution without chaos
• leadership as self-discipline and example
• rejecting happy wife happy life in favor of shared wellbeing
• coexistence over constant entertainment and boredom traps
• seasons of money and setting a realistic floor
• men’s late wins and the value of losses
• style, posture, and presence boosting a man’s look
• boy moms teaching positive self-talk

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We unpack how “exclusive vibes without an agreement” let one person enjoy access while dodging the work of commitment, and we share a clear script and decision tree to end mixed signals. We draw firm lines on boundaries, couple privileges, and the difference between romance performance and real accountability.

• ambiguity as a tactic to avoid labels and responsibility
• exclusive routines without a clear agreement
• obligation versus fun and why labels feel risky
• practical boundaries on sleepovers, access and trips
• the “man dance” of performed intimacy without substance
• holiday pressure, social jealousy and non-breakups
• a direct script to define exclusivity and terms
• if it’s not yes, it’s no as a rule
• choosing a clean break over dating while attached
• self-audit on what accountability you are dodging

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Two hosts trace a line from childhood confrontations to adult courage, unpacking how fear multiplies when we avoid hard choices and how truth ends the loop. We answer a listener facing grief, money strain, and trust wounds, then map courage across love, work, and parenting.

• stories of being pressed and how fear lingers
• the quote that frames courage vs avoidance
• cheating, faux bro code, and real brotherhood
• listener question on space, grief, money, and past infidelity
• negotiation, self-worth, and career in tech
• dating confidence that spills into networking
• speaking up vs suffering in silence
• logic over heat in hard talks
• boy moms: prepare, don’t overprotect

If you’re chasing anything in life, make sure you give it y’all man: decide, plan, sacrifice. Shoot a shoot we out

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The phrase that won’t leave my head is simple: regardless of circumstance. Not the kind of confidence that shows up when the room is friendly and the clock is kind—but the kind that stays steady when the stakes jump, the rules change, and the finish line disappears. I walk through what that looks like when a kid drains a paper ball until push-ups are on the line, when love pulls in two directions no text can fix, when a savings plan meets a totaled car, and when creative work asks you to keep going long after applause would have helped.

We unpack the difference between belief that depends on comfort and belief that survives consequences. I share why some destinations don’t change no matter how many detours you take, and how to protect your time by choosing the straighter path. From mapping a real plan to provide for someone you love—even if the numbers are tight—to stacking cash for legal support and still hitting a year-end goal, the throughline is ownership. Not bravado. Not luck. Ownership that plans for friction, presses through setbacks, and keeps promises out loud.

If you’ve ever felt your confidence vanish when the moment mattered, or watched your goals wobble after one bad week, this is the reset. We talk reps under pressure, the “by any means” posture without the theatrics, and the no-finish-line mindset that keeps a podcast alive through changing co-hosts, broken cameras, and quiet months. I’m still here because the standard is the standard, even when nobody’s looking. Hit play, then tell me: which promise are you keeping regardless of circumstance? Subscribe, share with a friend who needs the push, and leave a review so more people find the show.

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We dig into how financial insecurity shows up in dating, why freedom is really about time, and how disciplined leadership turns money stress into a plan. The Freedom Coach maps the road from independence to wealth and shows why budgets, boundaries, and boring habits win.

• defining financial insecurity in relationships
• freedom as time, not dollars
• independence vs rich vs wealthy
• $250 date math and lifestyle creep
• budgets, emergency funds, and petty cash rules
• three paths to wealth: business, markets, real estate
• leading dates with a plan and a frame
• dating in your bracket across money and values
• public respect, polarity, and private conflict
• repetition and mastery in fitness and finance

If y’all want to get the book, go to cashflowfollowassets.com, After 5 A Millionaire, show you how to buy your time back, let you know freedom is not for sale

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