For anyone who has been listening to Sex on the Peach for a while - the title of this episode is going to seem as rage baity as HSTikkyTokky (if you don’t know who that is go ahead and watch Louis Theroux’s Inside the Manosphere). We all know by now that I believe language carries a lot of power, and that sex can’t be reduced to binary language such as “good” and “bad”. But, how to be “good” in bed still remains one of the most frequently asked questions in the sexual space and so there are SOME THINGS that I think can contribute to being as close to a “good” lover as we’re going to get. As always, everything I’m talking about sits firmly on a foundation of clear, ongoing consent, I’m not going to repeat that every five minutes, but let’s take it as a given. So, five seasons in, we’re going back to basics. Let’s get into this week’s episode. Here is, How To…Be “Good” In Bed.

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Happy Wednesday, Happy Hump Day, and Happy Sex on the Peach Day. Hi, it’s me, I’m back, for Season 5 of all things sex and relationships.

So… quick question. Is anyone else struggling to maintain a sex life while the world is actively ON FIRE?

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but if your sex drive has been a bit… inconsistent lately, I would like to gently point out that everything *imagine me gesturing wildly at EVERYTHING* is unhinged. Like truly. Unhinged. And I’ve recognised in the last however many months, how, almost hard, it can feel to be completely present in your sex life when everything feels… unstable.

Is it weird to want sex more when things feel unstable?
Is it selfish to focus on pleasure when there are bigger things happening?
Is something wrong with my relationship because I don’t feel turned on at all because the vibe globally is… bleak?

Because the truth is, your sex drive does not exist separately from the world. You are a body. You have a nervous system that reads headlines as potential threat. We cannot separate global chaos from personal safety as neatly as we’d like. So we’re talking about how to have sex - when everything feels slightly apocalyptic. Which, to be clear, is a sentence I did not think I’d be saying when I started this podcast. But here we are.

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Happy Wednesday, Happy Hump Day, Happy Sex on the Peach Day, and of course, Happy Christmas Eve to all who celebrate. I hope that you all get to have some joy over this festive season, whatever that looks like for you, and of course, sending love and thoughts to all for whom Christmas is a difficult time. It is the season finale of Sex on the Peach - and it’s been fairly well documented that this has been…a tricky season. I think 2025 has been a tough year across the board and it has been, a mental health rollercoaster to say the least. I’m joined by my Sex on the Peach ride or dies Devika Joshi and Katie-Faye Moorhouse, and we will be answering your questions, reading your stories, and yapping our usual nonsense. As always, this is not the episode to tune in to for serious education, but it is one to tune in to for a good time. So if you are driving home for Christmas, I hope this episode provides you with suitable company. So, let’s get into it. Here is…Ride A Bicep, Save A Scotsman.

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Friends, Lovers, Listeners. Happy Wednesday, Happy Hump Day and Happy Sex on the Peach Day. Here we are with the penultimate episode of Season 4 of Sex on the Peach, with the Season Finale coming on Xmas Eve, just in time to stop talking about sex out of respect for our dear old Virgin Mary. And given that this weeks conversation is all about contraception, The Virgin Mary is not a useful case study because bless her, all the divine intervention in the world couldn’t prevent that pregnancy. For the rest of us, abstinence does actually remain a highly effective pregnancy prevention method. But for the majority of adults, sex is part of life, and so contraception is a really important conversation. So today we’re going to talk about what works, what people pretend works, what no one warns you about, and why “hope” remains the most popular method in the UK. And this isn’t a medical lecture. I’m not here to read out NHS leaflets in a calm voice while you dissociate. This is a reality check. Because one of the sexiest things you can bring to bed isn’t just confidence, or enthusiasm. It’s preparation. Here is...It's A NexplaNO From Me.

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Friends, Lovers, Listeners. Happy Wednesday, Happy Hump Day and Happy Sex on the Peach Day. So…Everyone and their mum at this point knows the five love languages. 78% of you confidently answered a resounding YES on my insta poll when I asked if you had one. Now, if you’ve ever considered for a single second that you have a sex language - and as my Instagram poll tells me - 68% of you feel like you do - then here’s where things go off the rails a bit…because when it comes to sex: People assume that your love language = your sex language. Like, if you’re a 'physical touch' person, you must want sex all the time. If it’s 'words of affirmation' then you surely want a constant slew of dirty texts telling you how hot you are. But…No. Absolutely not…your love language and sex language are not one and the same. Your love language explains how you give and receive love. It does NOT explain how you get turned on, what opens your body, what shuts you down, or what makes sex feel good, connected, or exciting for you. What most people need - is an understanding of their sex language. The way you erotically connect. The style of intimacy that gets you open, excited, responsive, and ready. Because if you and your partner aren’t speaking the same sex language…you might not ‘incompatible’ after all, you might just be lost in pene-translation. Anyway… today, we’re getting fluent.

So. Let’s get into it…

Here is…Are you Bi-Lingual…in Bed?

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Friends, Lovers, Listeners. Happy Wednesday, Happy Hump Day and Happy Sex on the Peach Day. If you’re tuning in to this episode, congratulations: you survived and thrived through Part One where we hopefully normalised and celebrated the incredible variety of what turns people on, and hopefully reminded you that curiousity, imagination, and pleasure come in countless forms, and now we’re diving headfirst into N through Z. We’ll explore everything from nylons to vampirism to electrostimulation. We’ll cover praise kinks, because nothing says sexy like being told you’re good…or very, very good. Some of it will surprise you, some of it might make you laugh, and that’s ok, but we don’t kink shame here - all of it exists in the wide, rich spectrum of human sexuality, where none of it is “wrong” or “abnormal.” As always, before we dive in: whilst this is a judgement-free space, it is a consent-first, judgement-free space. Consent, communication, respect and safety are non-negotiable. Anything non-consensual, exploitative, or illegal? Not included. Not acceptable. Not condoned. Not a thing. End of story.

And just like Part One, because I did have people tell me I left x, y, z kink out…this episode is by no means an exhaustive list — there are countless other ways people experience desire, but I’m highlighting some of the more common, and some of the more unusual ones to celebrate the diversity of sexual expression. Going through every single one would take me about 200 hours worth of talking, which I’m sure probably counts as its own very niche endurance kink.

Anyway, let’s finish what we started shall we, and let’s get into it - here is The A-Z Of Things You Can’t Google At Work…Part 2.

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It’s not Wednesday, it’s not hump day but it IS Sex on the Peach day - brought to you here on this very special Friday because it is indeed…Halloween, and one thing we’re clearly all STILL scared of as a society…is sex — or at least scared of talking about it. It’s exhausting. And yet, it’s also kind of funny — because the more we avoid talking about sex, the weirder it gets. We’re like a nation of people collectively agreeing to never read the manual on the thing we use most often. But since it’s Halloween — the one time of year we actually celebrate fear — I thought we’d face this particular demon head-on. Why does sex — or even saying the word sex — still make so many of us feel uncomfortable? Grab your pumpkin spice lube and let’s get into it...here are The Ten Terrifying Truths of Sex.

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Anyone who knows me already knows that one of my life goals is to be one of the experts on Married at First Sight, but one of the things that worries me with reality TV, is when intimacy comes up or people start discussing intimacy and sex - the word “weird” starts getting thrown around fairly often. There’s also a lot of “should”, things that people “should” want to do, or things that people “should” be feeling. And, language is so important. These are shows that millions and millions of people are exposed to, and potentially leaves people feeling like something new they want to try or discuss with a partner would be WEIRD because a mainstream TV show told them so. and risks them missing out on exploring something that could bring them more pleasure in their own intimate lives. And, I hate that. Because the landscape of things that turn people on is VAST. This episode is part 1 of 2 that serves as a reminder that next time Love Island tries to tell you you’re weird for wanting to be called “good girl” during sex, you’re fucking not - praise kinks are common and sexy and we won’t be letting mainstream television or society tell us otherwise. This is to open some eyes and minds to the fact that sexual desire is expansive. VERY expansive. So, grab a drink, lock the doors, here we fucking go...

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