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Are you and your spouse more “roommates” than romantic partners? You’re not alone, cultural shifts and daily life pressures are making emotional distance a real threat to modern marriages. In Episode 102 Matthew & Monica Powers unpack why couples drift apart, what the research actually says about connection (and divorce), and, most importantly, practical, faith-friendly steps to rebuild an unstoppable “we.”

You’ll hear:

• Why missing the small moments (Gottman’s “bids for connection”) predicts relationship outcomes and how small turns-toward beat grand gestures.
• How shifting from “soulmate” expectations to a growth mindset helps you grow together instead of apart.
• Concrete, everyday exercises to find each other again: state-of-the-union meetings, intentional micro-moments, value alignment, and a better definition of self-care.
• Real couple stories from our lives (and the podcast mic) that make the tough work feel doable — not doom-and-gloom.
  Plus: we break down what major research says about marriage trends and why this moment matters for couples today.

If this episode lands for you, comment, DM us, or share — tell us one small thing you’ll do this week to “turn toward” your partner. Want a resource list or worksheet for your State-of-the-Union meeting? Hit reply and we’ll send it.

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This Q&A goes there. From a late-20s Christian woman who’s honoring God but aching for touch…to a new mom whose husband says stay-at-home isn’t a “real job”…to couples wondering if sleep-groping means desire or disaster, and spouses asking, “Can a marriage survive if attraction was never really there?” We tackle the messy middle between body, spirit, and reality with truth, humor, and zero fluff.

In this episode you’ll hear:

• Singles & desire: Where do faithful women take frustration without losing faith or themselves?
• “Marriage is overrated?” We unpack the headlines vs. hope.
• Postpartum & respect: What to say (and do) when he minimizes your work and you’re running on fumes.
• Sleepy affection: Dreaming of you or hiding from you? How to read it and respond.
• “I love you, but I’m not in love”: Why it happens, how to talk about it, and a roadmap back.
• Porn or fatigue? The hard conversation behind lopsided intimacy.
• Attraction confessions: Rebuilding desire when words cut deep.
• Church & singles: Why so many feel unseen and how to start the community you need.

Plus: a global listener roll-call (US to Iran to Hong Kong), a lawnmower miracle, and the heart behind our new Single AF group.

Why listen: You’ll leave with scripts you can use tonight, next-step challenges for couples and singles, and a hopeful, faith-centered path forward—no matter where you’re stuck.

CTA: If this hit home, share it with a friend, drop your question for our next Q&A, and leave a 5-star review—help more couples and singles find the conversation.

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Is this the most misunderstood marriage idea of the year? On our 100th episode, we argue that a **healthy marriage requires saying “I do” to multiple people** not other partners, but every new version of your spouse as they grow, change, fail, heal, and mature.
No, this isn’t poly, swinging, or sister-wives. It’s the bold, biblical, and practical commitment to re-choose each other across seasons, career shifts, kids, body changes, crises, and midlife rewrites.

We tackle:

• Why “find the one” is less powerful than becoming the one for your spouse
• The annual State of the Union weekend (yes, including great sex) that keeps you synced
• How curiosity beats control: questions that reignite desire and direction
• The roommate trap after the kids leave and how to never end up there
• A spicy take on intimacy after 40: why it gets better when you grow together

Trigger Warning (for the algorithm and the comments): If you think your spouse should stay who they were on your wedding day… you’re going to hate this one.

Listen, then tell us: How many times have you said “I do” to the new version of your spouse?

“Is it betrayal to miss an old version of your spouse or honesty that can help you reconnect?”

“What’s one way your spouse has changed that you never expected… and how did you adapt?”

“Should couples schedule an annual ‘State of the Union’ or is that too clinical for romance?”

“Hot take: If you won’t re-choose your spouse’s current self, are you actually married to a memory?”

00:00 Cold open: “Is marriage overrated?”
04:50 Why “multiple marriages” (to the same person)
10:30 The curiosity script: questions that re-ignite connection
22:10 The annual State of the Union (and why great sex belongs there)
26:30 Roommates after kids, how to avoid it
30:45 Intimacy after 40: better than the myths
33:40 Roadblocks: nostalgia, control, unrealistic expectations
37:10 Final challenge + prayer

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Taylor & Travis get engaged…and the internet loses its mind. Then Charlie Kirk tells Taylor to “reject feminism, submit to your husband,” and implies marriage will “fix” her politics. If that’s your gospel, it’s not from Jesus. We break down the Taylor & Travis engagement and the Christian clickbait machine trying to hijack it. Come for the tea, stay for the theology.” We break it all down!

Taylor Swift engagement, Travis Kelce, Charlie Kirk rant, Christian marriage, Ephesians 5, wives submit, mutual submission, faith and politics, culture war, conservative vs liberal, role model debate, name change marriage, marriage rates decline, Gen Z marriage, is marriage outdated, Pew poll marriage, clickbait outrage, Christian influencers, JD Vance reference, Pfizer discourse, Swifties, NFL celebrity couple, premarital counseling, healthy conflict, marriage experts, relationship podcast, Married AF

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What happens when a stolen moment of passion turns into a public spectacle that destroys lives overnight? In this raw and revealing episode, we dive deep into the scandal that rocked the internet. Andy Byron, CEO of a billion-dollar tech company, and his HR exec Kristin Cabot caught in a compromising embrace on a Coldplay concert kiss cam.

They weren’t married to each other. But they were married.

Their panicked reaction, his retreat and her fall, spoke volumes. And the fallout? Swift, brutal, and viral. Andy lost his job. Kristin disappeared. But the real mic drop came from Andy’s wife, Megan, whose dignified, blistering statement flipped the script from humiliation to empowerment. Her words "I don’t cry for clowns" and "I’m not spiraling, I’m ascending", became the anthem for betrayed spouses everywhere.

This isn’t just a story about cheating. It’s about what happens when betrayal meets a camera. When secrets become memes. When your marriage becomes a headline.

Join us as we unpack:

• The shocking betrayal and its digital aftershocks
• Megan Byron’s viral power move and what it teaches about reclaiming dignity
• Why infidelity hits harder in the digital age
• The invisible collateral damage: kids, careers, and trust
• How to rebuild from the wreckage whether you’re the one betrayed or the one who blew it all up

Through the lens of this public scandal, we explore the deep, often hidden marital issues couples face intimacy breakdown, emotional loneliness, and temptation at work. We’ll also tackle how to strengthen your own marriage before it ends up in a thread on Twitter.

This episode is for anyone who's felt betrayed, blindsided, or just wants a brutally honest conversation about love, sex, and the fragile lines between public image and private truth.

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In this Married AF episode, we rip off the polite mask and get real about what’s actually driving the wedge between spouses.
From low sex drive to emotional burnout, we tackle the marriage challenges that Christian couples and newlyweds alike are quietly suffering through, yet rarely discuss out loud.

Here’s what we dive into:

• 🔥 When your spouse is too tired for intimacy: What do you do when emotional and sexual connection are replaced with silence or shutdowns? The answer may surprise you and it starts with serving before speaking.
• 🧠 Is it low testosterone or something deeper? We sound the alarm on the rush to hormone fixes and quick supplements. Sometimes, the solution to low libido is not in a bottle, but in the bedrock of your lifestyle and soul care.
• 💬 Relearning real communication: Forget the stale advice and empty affirmations. We share a faith-centered, actionable framework for reigniting romance through honest, grace-filled conversation.
• 🎢 Disneyland vs. Disney World: Yes, we argue about theme parks. But it’s not just playful it’s a powerful picture of how couples can disagree, joke, and still deeply connect. It’s proof that conflict doesn’t have to mean chaos.

With relationship experts' insights, real-life stories, and a faith-forward approach, this episode is your wake-up call and warm hug rolled into one.

Whether you're just married, deep in the journey, or questioning everything, this is the kind of marriage coaching that meets you where you are raw, real, and filled with hope.

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Let’s be real: most couples stop talking about sex long before the problems start showing up in the bedroom. In this raw and honest episode, we tackle real problems that destroy happy marriages not because of lack of love, but because of lack of communication.

Whether you're newlyweds or decades deep into married life, this episode unpacks the 4 sexual needs most couples never talk about and why avoiding them causes emotional and spiritual distance. From desire differences and the orgasm gap to the power of non-sexual intimacy and overcoming sexual shame through God’s power and grace, this conversation blends marriage coaching, relationship expertise, and faith-based insight to help you reconnect in the most sacred space of your marriage.

We cover:

• Why sexual desire discrepancies create conflict and how to talk about them without blame
• The truth about orgasm inequity and how to close the pleasure gap
• How non-sexual affection builds trust, emotional intimacy, and stronger sex
• What it takes to explore your sex life without shame, guilt, or fear

This is a no-hype, no-guilt zone rooted in honesty, support, God’s power, and genuine conversation whether you’re healing from marital issues, struggling with intimacy, or just want to love your spouse more fully.

💬 Plus: Listener Q&A on feeling unfulfilled, how to bring up tough topics, and why you’re not broken, you just need better tools.

👉 Perfect for couples navigating dating, newlywed years, or decades of messy relationship challenges, this episode blends humor, faith, and expert talk with practical conflict resolution tools to deepen your romance and reignite connection.

🎯 Challenge: Pick one of these 4 silent needs and have a no-pressure conversation with your partner this week. No expectations. Just honesty.

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What happens when the smiling couple on social media closes the front door? Behind the curated photos and perfect captions, many marriages are crumbling under the weight of fake happiness. In this raw, real, and necessary conversation, we expose how pretending everything is fine, when it’s not, slowly suffocates love, kills sexual intimacy, and leaves couples emotionally disconnected and spiritually depleted.

This episode is packed with expert talk, marriage advice, and self-improvement insights to help you identify the real problems behind the performance. We unpack why couples fake happiness, fear of conflict, social pressure, guilt and reveal the subtle signs you might be faking it without even realizing. From avoiding intimacy to fantasizing about being single, these red flags are destroying marital joy and killing off real romance.

But we’re not just diagnosing we’re giving you tools to fight back. Learn how to:

• Have honest, judgment-free conversations with your spouse
• Rebuild emotional trust and sexual intimacy
• Invite God’s power into your marriage for true healing
• Reconnect through touch, truth, and intentional effort
• Move from “picture-perfect” to deeply connected and joyfully real

We’ll challenge you to stop faking and start fighting for each other. Because your married life is too important for pretend love. You deserve a genuine connection, God-centered partnership, and a relationship that doesn’t just look good but feels alive.

👉 This episode is for couples struggling silently, newlyweds unsure what’s normal, and anyone chasing a real, joy-filled, and resilient marriage. Whether you're navigating marriage challenges, questioning your connection, or longing to deepen your bond this one’s for you.

Have one completely honest conversation this week. No filters. No faking. Just real talk with the person you vowed forever to. Because true love starts with truth and that's what builds a happy marriage worth fighting for.

🔁 Don’t forget to share this episode with a friend, drop us a DM with your story, or leave a review if this spoke to your soul. Let's start the kind of conversations that save marriages.

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