Welcome Back to the Love How Deep Podcast!

In this episode of the Love How Deep podcast, host Brian Mayer sits down with special guest Christopher Falconer, an author and expert on cultivating enduring love in marriages. They delve into the essence of lasting love, drawing from real-life experiences and biblical principles, particularly from 1 Corinthians 13.

Christopher shares personal anecdotes from his 30-year marriage, discussing challenges like career pressures and health issues, and how essential elements like patience, kindness, and forgiveness have played critical roles. The conversation also touches on practical advice for singles, the importance of forgiveness, and how to prepare for a future marriage. Whether you're married, engaged, or single, this podcast offers valuable insights on building a love that lasts a lifetime.

Check out more here:

Email Chris: christopher@christopherfalconer.com

Website: www.christopherfalconer.com 

Enduring Love Book: https://www.amazon.com/Enduring-Love-Principles-Nurturing-Relationships/dp/B0FRWSB5BQ

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Managing Money as a Couple: Balancing Finances and Family Values with Gino and Julia Barbaro

In this episode of The Love How Deep Podcast, hosts Brian and Heather Mayer dive into the important topic of managing money as a couple without compromising family values.

Joined by special guests Gino and Julia Barbaro, the conversation covers their personal journey of overcoming financial challenges and harmonizing money management with core family values. The Barbaros share insights from their 27 years of marriage, including how they have successfully raised six children, homeschooled them, and fostered their entrepreneurial spirits. The discussion touches on different attitudes towards money, shaped by upbringing, and the importance of communication in resolving financial conflicts within a marriage.

Gino and Julia also explore the concept of money archetypes, which helps individuals understand their relationship with money and develop healthier financial habits. They delve into the significance of aligning financial decisions with personal values and the impact that can have on family dynamics. They also discuss the importance of involving children in financial conversations and teaching them the value of money from a young age.

More Information and Resources:

For more resources and to take a money archetype quiz, visit the Barbaros' website at www.barbaro360.com.

Additionally, check out Gino and his son's Happy Money Show podcast for more insights on creating a positive relationship with money.

Thanks so much for joining us and remember to check out all Love How Deep has to offer your marriage.

Navigating Grief and Blended Families: A Conversation with Heidi Vegh

In this episode of The Love How Deep podcast, hosts Brian and Heather Mayer tackle the delicate topic of 'Grief in Marriage' with special guest Heidi Vegh.

Heidi courageously shares her deeply personal story of losing her first husband to cancer, becoming a widow, and the struggles of parenting her two young boys through profound loss. Heidi talks about her journey of finding love again, as she remarried to her current husband David, blending a new family despite facing societal judgments and emotional challenges. She highlights the importance of keeping faith, seeking counseling, and prayer in maintaining a strong marital bond and managing the complexities of a blended family.

Heidi also discusses her new book 'A Hard Journey to the Good,' which chronicles a decade of her life filled with loss and ultimate redemption. Tune in for an emotional and inspiring episode full of hope, resilience, and faith.

Connect with Heidi:

Her Book: https://mrsheidivegh.com/a-hard-journey-to-the-good

Her Website: https://mrsheidivegh.com/

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When your child has a complex medical diagnosis, their entire life—and your family's—revolves around their care. But what happens when they grow up and leave the nest? In this special episode, we're joined by our friends, Ron and Kim, who share their deeply personal journey with their son, Noah, who has a rare genetic disorder. This is a story of faith, perseverance, and learning to find joy in the midst of uncertainty.

In this episode, you'll learn about:

• The Overwhelming Diagnosis: How to emotionally and spiritually process the news of a complex medical condition, and why seeking help is so important.

• The Power of Advocacy: Why parents must become the chief advocates for their child's care, especially when navigating a fragmented healthcare system.

• Parenting Other Children: How to make sure siblings of a medically complex child feel seen, loved, and just as special.

• Reframing Your Journey: How to find gratitude in the small victories, learn to trust God's plan, and recognize His presence in every step.

Just because the kids are gone doesn't mean travel is easy! In this episode, we're sharing our best tips for empty nest couples who are ready to start traveling again—this time, just the two of you. We're pulling from our own 11 years of experience and sharing what we've learned, from balancing a meticulous planner with an easygoing wanderer to handling unexpected travel issues without a fight.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• The Planning Power Play: How to balance your personality types for a trip that works for both of you.

• Mastering the Budget: Why having a clear budget and playing to each other's strengths can prevent major disagreements.

• The Art of Flexibility: What to do when things go wrong and why it's a test of your communication skills.

• Making Every Moment Count: The most important tip of all—how to reconnect as a couple on vacation without distractions.

Free Resource: Download our free core values exercise to help you and your spouse reconnect and understand each other better as empty nesters. [Link Here]

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The kids are gone, and you're feeling a mix of pride, excitement, and…emptiness. As empty nesters, it's normal to feel lost or wonder what your purpose is now. In this episode, we talk about how to navigate this new season of life, both as individuals and as a couple.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why It's Okay to Grieve: Embrace the feelings of loss that come with an empty nest and understand that it's a natural part of the transition.

• Redefine Your Roles: Transition from being your children's managers to being their trusted consultants and learn to respect their new independence.

• Discover Your God-Given Gifts: Find new passions and shared interests to pursue as a couple, from volunteering to starting a new hobby.

• Prioritize Your Marriage: Learn to make your relationship a priority again and find new ways to connect and dream together for the future.

Please Check out our Free Goals Worksheet: https://love-how-deep.kit.com/goal-setting-married-couples

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As an empty nester, you may be considering downsizing your home. It's a huge decision—one that's full of emotions, financial considerations, and logistical challenges. In this episode, we talk about how to navigate this major life change as a couple and a family.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• The Emotional Toll: Why it's okay to grieve the loss of your home and how to make sure your adult children feel heard in the process.

• The Financial Reality Check: The hidden costs of downsizing you need to consider and how to budget for a smoother transition.

• The Practical Game Plan: How to go from chaos to clarity with a simple strategy for decluttering and deciding what to keep, sell, or donate.

Free Resource: Download our free downsizing checklist to help you start your journey from an old house to a new home. [Link Here]

The kids are gone. Now what? Many couples face a period of rediscovery after the children leave home, but it doesn't have to lead to a lack of connection. In this episode, we talk about how to reignite the romance in your marriage by making time for creative and intentional date nights.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• The "Co-Conspirator" Date: Transform a chore into an adventure by visiting a farmer's market and building a meal together on the spot.

• Recreating a "First": Take a walk down memory lane by recreating your first date, first meal together, or another significant memory.

• The "Adventure Jar": Take the pressure out of planning by brainstorming fun ideas together and pulling one out when you need a spontaneous date night.

• Learning a New Skill: Take a class together or learn a new hobby side by side.

• The Surprise Date: Take turns planning a mystery date for each other to bring excitement and anticipation back into your relationship.

Get our Free Date Night Ideas Here: https://www.lovehowdeep.com/date-night-ideas