Why do high-performing men struggle in their romantic relationships? My podcast guest, Mike Elliot, shares his wisdom in this episode of Last First Date Radio. Mike is a Relational Leadership Mentor and Men’s Initiation Guide. He guides men to lead with “Relational Authority”, anchored in initiation, integration, and inspiration. He’s the co-host of “The Sacred We”, where he helps men transform their relationships - starting with themselves - and create legacies of love, presence and purpose.

In this episode:

• What led Mike to this work
• The most common blocks for high achieving men in relationship
• How to help men show up with more presence
• How Mike’s clients relationships transform when they learn Relational Authority™
• The cost of not learning RA™

Connect With Mike

• IG https://www.instagram.com/mikeelliott.relating/
• Website https://www.itsmikeelliott.com/
• Masculine/Feminine Polarity Cheat sheet https://www.itsmikeelliott.com/newsletter+Freebie

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Storytelling in dating is an important skill to master. We connect and deepen relationships through story. Here are five reasons you need to learn how to tell better stories on dates (and everywhere else in your life).

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How do you break free from narcissistic abuse? My podcast guest, Dr. Alina Kastner, is a leading Vienna-based psychotherapist and author of “Break Up With Narcissism: How to Break Free and Stay Free”. Her specialty is promoting deeper intimacy, connection and clarity while helping people navigate trauma and narcissistic abuse.

In this episode:

• What exactly is narcissistic abuse, and why it’s so difficult for people to see when they’re experiencing it
• The first step to protect yourself from a narcissist
• The biggest misconceptions about narcissism in the media
• How to tell the difference between an emotionally unavailable partner and a true narcissist
• Small acts you can take to begin rewriting your story of narcissistic abuse

Connect With Alina

• Website: www.alinakastner.com
• Instagram: @dr.alinakastner
• TikTok: @dr.alinakastner

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Have you ever noticed this frustrating pattern: The people who text back immediately, show genuine interest, and are emotionally available often feel less exciting. Meanwhile, the ones who are a little distant, harder to read, or slow to respond make our heart beat faster.

There are real psychological reasons why aloof people can feel more attractive, especially in dating. And understanding why this happens can help you make more conscious, empowered choices instead of getting pulled into old dynamics.

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Why is there a rise in gray divorce? Dr. Dana McNeil, PsyD, LMFT, is a licensed couples therapist and Certified Gottman Therapist specializing in emotional safety, relationship repair, and long-term compatibility. She is the founder of The Relationship Place and Therapy Getaway, where she provides intensive couples therapy for high-conflict relationships. Dr. McNeil serves on the Advisory Board of MYA and is a national media expert and frequent speaker on modern relationships.

In this episode:

• Why there’s a rise in gray divorce
• What erodes in long term marriages that leads to divorce later in life
• How an empty nest amplifies relational issues
• The emotional and identity challenges unique to later divorce
• How to repair a fractured marriage later in life

Connect With Dr. Dana

• Website: www.danamcneil.com
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrDanaMcNeil
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drdanamcneil/
• The Relationship Place www.sdrelationshipplace.com
• Instagram: @sdrelationshipplace @drdanamcneil

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If you keep falling for the wrong people, this is for you. In this solo episode, I share 5 reasons why you do it and how to stop so you can finally go on your last first date.

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The age old question: when only one person does the work, can a relationship last? Dr. Lee Baucom has spent over three decades helping people shift from a disconnected marriage to a loving and connected relationship, even if only one is trying.

In this episode:

• What is a Pause Button Marriage?
• What are the three levels of connection?
• What can only one partner do to save a relationship?
  

Connect with Lee

• Website: http://UnPauseYourMarriage.com
• Podcast: http://SaveTheMarriage.com/podcast

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Do you find flirting in midlife to be awkward or fake? Here are five tips to help you flirt naturally, playfully, and effectively!

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