In this episode, Mike and Kristen Jones discuss the physical and psychological advantages of sexual intimacy within a marriage. Drawing from medical journals and personal anecdotes, the couple highlights how regular intimacy can improve cardiovascular health, boost the immune system, and reduce stress by lowering cortisol levels. They candidly address the social taboos surrounding the topic, encouraging couples to view sex as a God-designed tool for both health maintenance and emotional bonding. The conversation emphasizes that consistent frequency fosters a deeper sense of security and mental closeness between partners. To conclude the episode, the hosts share a lighthearted story about their own engagement at a themed restaurant, adding a personal touch to their professional advice.

Disclaimer: The hosts are not medical doctors or scientists. They encourage anyone dealing with trauma, abuse, or serious medical/mental health issues to seek professional help.

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Reference material and Resources to dive deeper:

• ​⁠⁠⁠Married Sex⁠⁠⁠, by Gary Thomas and Debra K. Fileta, published in 2021 by Zondervan publishing, available on Amazon in multiple formats.
• "Sexual Healing"
• • Artist: Marvin Gaye
  • Writers: Marvin Gaye, Odell Brown, David Ritz
  • Label: Columbia/CBS Records
  • Publisher: EMI Blackwood Music Inc. and EMI April Music Inc.
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In this episode of Heart and Soulution, hosts Mike and Kristen Jones discuss the relationship benefits of traveling as a couple after returning from a Caribbean cruise. They recount personal anecdotes, such as a tense walk through Grand Turk and a close encounter with a barracuda while snorkeling, to illustrate how shared adventures build a "memory bank." They emphasize that pushing past one's comfort zone and navigating unexpected travel challenges fosters better communication and teamwork. By intentionally unplugging from work and daily stressors, Mike and Kristen argue that couples can deepen their connection and create lasting stories. Ultimately, they encourage partners to prioritize dedicated time together through new experiences, regardless of the destination.

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In this episode of the Heart and Soulution podcast, Mike and Kristen Jones explore the complex nature of grief, using the recent passing of Kristen’s father to illustrate how to process loss more effectively. They move beyond the traditional "pull up your socks" mentality of previous generations to examine grief as a multi-layered experience that involves more than just death; it encompasses disappointment, missed expectations, and significant life transitions. They talk of what they have learned and share it with humility and rawness.

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Reference material and Resources to dive deeper:

• Weller, Frances; The Wild Edge of Sorrow: Rituals of Renewal and the Sacred Work of Grief; 2015; North Atlantic Books.

• The Place We Find Ourselves podcast with Adam Young; Five part series on grief (episode 132).

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In this special episode, Mike and Kristen Jones celebrate the life and legacy of Kristen’s late father, a retired Navy officer who recently passed away. They describe him as an extraordinarily generous man who frequently sacrificed his own career dreams to support his family’s stability and goals. The couple shares lighthearted anecdotes about his unique dietary habits, his humorous "billisms," and the way he warmly welcomed Mike into the family despite his unconventional appearance. They also highlight his character and humility, specifically noting his willingness to apologize and his joy in helping others. Ultimately, the hosts use his life as a reminder to live intentionally and consider the lasting impact one’s actions have on loved ones.

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Reference material and Resources to dive deeper:

• Emotionally Healthy Relationships by Pete and Gerri Scazzero. ⁠⁠Workbook and video training course.⁠⁠

• ⁠⁠Genogram exercise and Unbiblical Family Commandments⁠⁠.

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In this episode, Mike and Kristen Jones discuss the importance of learning from the past to avoid repeating mistakes in romantic and family relationships. Drawing on the book Emotionally Healthy Relationships, they explore how family of origin shapes a person’s views on conflict, success, and emotions through inherited "commandments." They emphasize that while individuals often adopt unhealthy generational patterns, it is never too late to rewrite these rules and pursue healing. By using tools like the genogram, couples can visually map out their family history to identify where dysfunction began and where positive shifts occurred. Ultimately, the discussion encourages listeners to examine their upbringing to build more intentional, authentic, and emotionally healthy foundations for their current lives.

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Reference material and Resources to dive deeper:

• Emotionally Healthy Relationships by Pete and Gerri Scazzero. Workbook and video training course.

• Genogram exercise and Unbiblical Family Commandments.

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In this episode of the Heart and Soulution podcast, hosts Mike and Kristen Jones explore the critical roles of vision and mission statements within personal and family relationships. While common in corporate settings, the hosts argue that many couples lack a clear direction for their lives together, leading to potential conflict and unmet expectations.They discuss the differences between Vision and Mission and give ideas on how to define, and refine these statements. Mike and Kristen discuss the benefits for having a shared vision and mission. For those who are dating, discussing life visions can help determine if two people are heading in the same direction or if their paths are fundamentally incompatible. Kristen and Mike share How to Create Your Vision and Mission and outline a practical process for couples to develop these statements.

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In this episode of the Heart and Soulution podcast, Mike and Kristen Jones continue their deep dive into the unrealistic and false sexual expectations that can impact intimacy within a marriage. Borrowing concepts from the book Married Sex, they discuss how getting clear on your own expectations and understanding your spouse's is the first step toward building a healthier connection.

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Reference material and Resources to dive deeper:

• ​⁠⁠Married Sex⁠⁠, by Gary Thomas and Debra K. Fileta, published in 2021 by Zondervan publishing, available on Amazon in multiple formats.

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In this episode of Heart and Soulution, Mike and Kristen Jones discuss sexual expectations in marriage, citing the book Married Sex. They argue that personal beliefs shaped by culture and upbringing influence intimacy. Couples must communicate realistic, agreed-upon expectations and debunk myths to foster deep intimacy.

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Reference material and Resources to dive deeper:

• ⁠Married Sex⁠, by Gary Thomas and Debra K. Fileta, published in 2021 by Zondervan publishing, available on Amazon in multiple formats.

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