Certain moments inspire my "America feeling"—a profound connection to the ideals of the United States. For instance, the formal words of the opening ritual for a session of the United States Supreme Court reminds me of the value of justice.

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We talk about the happiness, rewards, and challenges of having a new dog.

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• Support your favorite indie booksellers and enjoy a fun perk from Bookshop
• Follow me on Instagram for photos and videos of Taffy
• Read Secrets of Adulthood

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We’re excited to introduce you to Confessions of a Female Founder with Meghan, a new show from Lemonada Media.

As Meghan, Duchess of Sussex builds out a business of her own, she’s getting advice and insights from a handful of amazing women who have scaled small ideas into successful companies. These fly-on-the-wall conversations will no doubt inspire anyone who’s interested in turning their own entrepreneurial dreams into a reality and anyone else who just wants to hear what really happens behind the scenes.

In this episode, you’ll hear Meghan in conversation with Reshma Saujani, the founder of Girls Who Code and Moms First—and a recent guest on our friendship roundtable. The two reunite to talk about redesigning workplaces for women and how to make the hard choice to put your health (and yourself) before your work.

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We discuss why arriving right on time for events makes it easier to have fun and to network (especially for introverts or newcomers). We also share the benefits of using an ordinary weekly pill organizer, and explore research supporting the Secret of Adulthood: “One of the best ways to find friends is to make friends with the friends of our friends.” Plus, a listener asks for suggestions about how to request support from family and friends after her recent diabetes diagnosis.

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• Order your copy of Secrets of Adulthood
• Happier in Hollywood Substack newsletter
• More discussion of networking in Happier in Hollywood episode 413
• Elizabeth is reading: After I Do by Taylor Jenkins Reid (Amazon, Bookshop)
• Gretchen is reading: An Accidental Man by Iris Murdoch (Amazon, Bookshop)

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When we’re trying to make a point, it’s often more effective to tell a story than to deliver a lecture. Example: an episode from the popular TV show “Better Call Saul” memorably illustrates the important truth that we’re probably better off assigning a complex problem to the person who acknowledges the difficulties rather than to the person who offers suspiciously easy answers.

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• Secrets of Adulthood
• The Four Tendencies

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In honor of the arrival of a new dog, we take a flashback to previous discussions of our lives with Barnaby, Daisy, and Nacho. We each decided to “Choose the bigger life,” and we’re very happy we did. Bonus: One of the all-time best episode of “A Little Happier,” all about Barnaby.

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• A Little Happier: We’ve Had Our Dog Barnaby Always.
• Podcast 27: Choose the Bigger Life, Identify Your “Tell”–and I Reveal Whether I’ll Get a Dog.
• Podcast 24: Take Photos of Everyday Life, the Tension that Exists in Love — and Should I Get a Dog?

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To get ready for spring, we share some of our favorite habits, hacks, and resources for clearing clutter and getting organized.

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• Order your copy of Secrets of Adulthood
• Join me on book tour starting April 1, 2025
• Tools for getting organized this spring
• Outer Order, Inner Calm
• 3-Tier Organizing Cart
• Magic Erasers
• Command Hooks
• Packing Cubes
• Shelf spinner
• Swedish dishclothes
• Label Maker
• Wall Pops
• Guardsman Reusable Watermark Remover cloth
• Chalk labels + markers
• Small digital scale
• Apothecary Jars
• Bank Box
• Memento Keepsake Journal
• One-minute rule
• Ep. 10: Clearing Elizabeth’s closet
• Ep. 160: Clearing Elizabeth’s office
• Ep. 210: Favorite hacks from Outer Order, Inner Calm
• Ep. 443: Clear the Decks
• Sweep the Deck

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While writing my book "Secrets of Adulthood," I discovered how the structure of a single traditional proverb could spark dozens of new insights. The elegant formula "No X, no Y" began with the traditional wisdom "No receiver, no thief," but soon expanded into observations ranging from the paradoxical ("No expectations, no disappointment") to the historical ("No Plato, No Socrates ") to the practical ("More highways, more traffic").

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• Secrets of Adulthood
• More highways, more traffic

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