December romance is often romanticised as fun and flirtatious, but for many, the festive season comes with anxiety, disappointment, ghosting, and hard relationship truths.

In this episode I unpack the realities of December romance: the unspoken rules, the festive personas we adopt, and why so many connections formed in December struggle to survive January. From premediated flings driven by fear of loneliness, to being the partner who doesn't get chosen for the holiday, this episode explores how scarcity mindset, alcohol, expectations, and festive pressure shape our dating decisions.

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We all know December has its own romantic ecosystem...LOL

1. Some people disappear from their relationships
2. Some get ghosted
3. Others prefer flings over anything serious
4. Some actually find love in December

Before I record the next episode on December Romance, I want to hear your do's and don'ts, your experiences, lessons, chaos, December drama, wisdom about December relationships and festive flings.

I'd love to hear from all sexualities, all genders, EVERYONE. Whether you are married, single, or in a long-term relationship, I want to hear your experiences.

You can submit your answers through IG stories (@fromagirlsgirl or @didi_masita) or TikTok stories (@didi_masita).

Your responses will be grouped into themes and shaped into a community-led episode.

Let's turn the last episode of the year into a mini "research study" together

RESPONSES WILL REMAIN CONFIDENTIAL

It's December! A whole lifestyle in South Africa, but before the vibes sweep us away, let's talk about why your 2026 goals should be set before January.

In this episode, I talk about why the best time to set your goals isn't January, it's right now. December comes with vibes, chaos, bonuses, and a whole lifestyle of its own, but it's also the month where we lose momentum without even realising it. I share how planning my year before January completely shifted my 2025, how my vision board came to life, and why strategy matters more than aesthetics.

Whether you had an amazing year or a painful one, this episode reminds you that your timeline is scared, your pace is valid, and you are not behind.

Too many women give up their dreams, lower their standards, or lose themselves trying to be chosen by men.

In this episode, I talk about the importance of building your identity, your dreams, and your foundation before you build with a man. From societal pressure to timelines, to women abandoning their goals for relationships, I explore why prioritising yourself isn't selfish, but necessary. I dive into self-worth, standards, financial independence, emotional grounding, and why being single is no longer seen as a "tragedy". It's a reminder that men are additions, not definitions, and that the life you build for yourself will always be your greatest power.

We often talk about knowing our worth in romantic relationships, setting boundaries, walking away from mistreatment, and refusing to shrink ourselves just to be loved. But what happens when we forget to carry the same self-worth into our friendships?

In this episode, I explore 'selective people pleasing' - when you've healed enough to have boundaries in relationships but still struggle to choose yourself in friendships. If you're tired of performing, overextending, or being the only one trying..this episode is for you.

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Have you ever entertained someone you knew you weren't compatible with, just because it felt good to be wanted? Especially after a dry season where no one was pursuing or chasing you?

In this episode, I unpack the intoxicating feeling of being desired and how the need for attention can lead us into place holder relationships. I talk about why attention feels like validation, how it can blur our judgment, and the emotional labour that comes from settling for someone who simply filled a dry season,

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Remember when you were a little girl, and there was a woman you admired, maybe she lived in your neighbourhood, or maybe you saw her on TV. You admired her style, her career, the way she carried herself, and the life she created for herself. Looking at her, you saw a glimpse of your own future. Do you remember her, the woman of your dreams?

Society often tells us a woman's true success is measured by whether she gets married or has children. So, many of us grow up chasing 'the man of our dreams' adjusting our behavior to fit what we think he would want or approve of. Along the way, we lose sight of the WOMAN OF OUR DREAMS; the version of ourselves we once imagined becoming.

In this episode, I talk about how to reconnect with the vision of the woman of your dreams, and why it's time to chase her, instead of the man of your dreams

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When someone ghosts you, walks away, or doesn't fight to keep you in their life, it's easy to feel like you've taken a loss. You start questioning your worth, wondering what's wrong with you, and comparing yourself to people whose partners "fought for them". But the here's the truth: their lack of effort is not a reflection of your value.

In this episode, I break down why not being fought for doesn't mean you're not enough, how social media fuels this false narrative, and how to reclaim you power when someone doesn't show up. It's not your loss...it's their loss.