December romance is often romanticised as fun and flirtatious, but for many, the festive season comes with anxiety, disappointment, ghosting, and hard relationship truths.

In this episode I unpack the realities of December romance: the unspoken rules, the festive personas we adopt, and why so many connections formed in December struggle to survive January. From premediated flings driven by fear of loneliness, to being the partner who doesn't get chosen for the holiday, this episode explores how scarcity mindset, alcohol, expectations, and festive pressure shape our dating decisions.

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We all know December has its own romantic ecosystem...LOL

1. Some people disappear from their relationships
2. Some get ghosted
3. Others prefer flings over anything serious
4. Some actually find love in December

Before I record the next episode on December Romance, I want to hear your do's and don'ts, your experiences, lessons, chaos, December drama, wisdom about December relationships and festive flings.

I'd love to hear from all sexualities, all genders, EVERYONE. Whether you are married, single, or in a long-term relationship, I want to hear your experiences.

You can submit your answers through IG stories (@fromagirlsgirl or @didi_masita) or TikTok stories (@didi_masita).

Your responses will be grouped into themes and shaped into a community-led episode.

Let's turn the last episode of the year into a mini "research study" together

RESPONSES WILL REMAIN CONFIDENTIAL

It's December! A whole lifestyle in South Africa, but before the vibes sweep us away, let's talk about why your 2026 goals should be set before January.

In this episode, I talk about why the best time to set your goals isn't January, it's right now. December comes with vibes, chaos, bonuses, and a whole lifestyle of its own, but it's also the month where we lose momentum without even realising it. I share how planning my year before January completely shifted my 2025, how my vision board came to life, and why strategy matters more than aesthetics.

Whether you had an amazing year or a painful one, this episode reminds you that your timeline is scared, your pace is valid, and you are not behind.