Episodios

  • E39: Why Intimacy is Terrifying
    Apr 16 2026

    Do you struggle with intimacy with your partner? Do you find that when it comes to being intimate, you feel repulsed, scared, avoidant, or just uncomfortable? Those of us with Relationship OCD (ROCD) have real issues with intimacy, and beneath the surface, we are ultimately terrified of it! In this episode, Grace and I explain why and how to go about navigating these fears.

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    Questions? Email me - alex@forloveweheal.com

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    1 h y 6 m
  • E38: Feeling Trapped, Suffocated and Fearing Losing Yourself with Relationship OCD (ROCD)
    Apr 2 2026

    Do you feel the urge to pull away when your partner gets closer because you feel suffocated, trapped, or fear losing yourself? If so, listen to today's episode where we break down the common reasons why we feel this way, where it comes from, and how to be at peace in the relationship without feeling like you need to escape.

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    https://www.rocdcourse-forloveweheal.com/sales-page-6756-8810-8850-8583

    Want one-to-one support for healing Relationship OCD (ROCD) from the root? Book a free discovery call to find out more about how we can help! https://forloveweheal.com/relationshipocd-therapy/

    Questions? Email me - alex@forloveweheal.com

    Check out my Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/forloveweheal/

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    1 h y 3 m
  • E37: Relationship OCD (ROCD) Partners Guide
    Mar 26 2026

    Are you the partner of someone struggling with Relationship OCD (ROCD)? If so, this episode is going to help you make sense of what your partner is going through and how you can be of support to them and yourself. While incredibly hard, working through these challenges together can be an incredible gift. This episode will walk you through how to navigate your way forward together in this relationship consciously and how to survive the tough times.

    Join my new ROCD Course & Community! Only $37 per month

    https://www.rocdcourse-forloveweheal.com/sales-page-6756-8810-8850-8583

    Want one-to-one support for healing Relationship OCD (ROCD) from the root? Book a free discovery call to find out more about how we can help!- https://forloveweheal.com/relationshipocd-therapy/

    Questions? Email me - alex@forloveweheal.com

    Check out my Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/forloveweheal/

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    43 m
  • Lack of Attraction, Disgust & Feeling Repulsed (EXPLAINED): Relationship OCD
    Mar 19 2026

    Do you struggle with attraction issues in your relationship? Do you ever look at your partner and feel disgusted? Do you worry that this is a sign that you are in the wrong relationship? Or if you were with someone more attractive, you'd be happier? In this episode, Grace and I reveal exactly why you are struggling to find your partner attractive, why you obsess about it, and what to actually do about it. We share why attraction issues aren't a deal breaker, and that you aren't even seeing your partner accurately due to the fear, shame, and insecurities you carry inside of yourself.

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    https://www.rocdcourse-forloveweheal.com/sales-page-6756-8810-8850-8583

    Want one-to-one support for healing Relationship OCD (ROCD) from the root? Book a free discovery call to find out more about how we can help!- https://forloveweheal.com/relationshipocd-therapy/

    Questions? Email me - alex@forloveweheal.com

    Check out my Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/forloveweheal/

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    1 h y 6 m
  • E35: Am I Wasting My Time? Am I Missing Out? Fear of Regret, Healthy vs Unhealthy Relationships, Relationship OCD (ROCD)
    Feb 28 2026

    I'm away on vacation, so posting the raw version of this episode without my usual intro or edits. The title says it all, and overall, it was a lovely conversation that I hope you enjoy and find helpful. :)

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    Want one-to-one support for healing Relationship OCD (ROCD) from the root? Book a Free Discovery Call to find out more about how we can help!- https://forloveweheal.com/relationshipocd-therapy/

    Questions? Email me - alex@forloveweheal.com

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    1 h y 2 m
  • E34: Ideal Parent Figure (IPF) Imagery Protocol (Without Music) for Healing Insecure Attachment
    Feb 25 2026

    In this guided exercise, you’ll be introduced to the Ideal Parent Figure (IPF) imagery protocol, developed by Dr. Dan Brown and used within integrative attachment therapy. This practice is designed to help heal insecure attachment patterns by gently and repeatedly engaging your mind, brain & nervous system in experiences of safety, attunement, and unconditional love.

    Through guided imagery, you’ll connect with imagined ideal parent figures who are consistently responsive, emotionally attuned, and deeply supportive, allowing your system to experience what secure attachment feels like. Over time, this helps remap attachment patterns at a deep, implicit level, creating a new internal sense of safety and stability from which you can relate to yourself and others. Enjoy!

    Join my new Course & Community!

    https://www.rocdcourse-forloveweheal.com/sales-page-6756-8810-8850-8583

    Want one-to-one support for healing Relationship OCD (ROCD) from the root? Book a Free Discovery Call to find out more about how we can help!- https://forloveweheal.com/relationshipocd-therapy/

    Questions? Email me - alex@forloveweheal.com

    Check out my Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/forloveweheal/

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    14 m
  • E33: Ideal Parent Figure (IPF) Imagery Protocol (With Music) for Healing Insecure Attachment
    Feb 25 2026

    In this guided exercise, you’ll be introduced to the Ideal Parent Figure (IPF) imagery protocol, developed by Dr. Dan Brown and used within integrative attachment therapy. This practice is designed to help heal insecure attachment patterns by gently and repeatedly engaging your mind, brain & nervous system in experiences of safety, attunement, and unconditional love.

    Through guided imagery, you’ll connect with imagined ideal parent figures who are consistently responsive, emotionally attuned, and deeply supportive, allowing your system to experience what secure attachment feels like. Over time, this helps remap attachment patterns at a deep, implicit level, creating a new internal sense of safety and stability from which you can relate to yourself and others. Enjoy!

    Join my new Course & Community!

    https://www.rocdcourse-forloveweheal.com/sales-page-6756-8810-8850-8583

    Want one-to-one support for healing Relationship OCD (ROCD) from the root? Book a Free Discovery Call to find out more about how we can help!- https://forloveweheal.com/relationshipocd-therapy/

    Questions? Email me - alex@forloveweheal.com

    Check out my Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/forloveweheal/

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    15 m
  • E32: Paula's Powerful Session: Going Beyond Relationship OCD & the Fear of Making Mistakes
    Feb 23 2026

    Witness this powerful session I did with Paula, who graciously offered to share her story and be a participant in what I would consider an absolutely beautiful and moving session. Paula shares her journey with Relationship OCD with someone she's been with since she was 15 years old and someone whom she's known almost forever. Paula touches into the core wounds of rejection and badness that live at the root of her fears of making mistakes. She tenderly reparents and heals the inner child that carries these wounds, freeing her system up from so much tension, anxiety, and worry that she's carried for so long. THANK YOU, PAULA!

    Join my new Course & Community!

    https://www.rocdcourse-forloveweheal.com/sales-page-6756-8810-8850-8583

    Want one-to-one support for healing Relationship OCD (ROCD) from the root? Book a Free Discovery Call to find out more about how we can help!- https://forloveweheal.com/relationshipocd-therapy/

    Questions? Email me - alex@forloveweheal.com

    Check out my Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/forloveweheal/

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    53 m