Episodios

  • Mother and Son
    Dec 31 2025

    Gladys and Elijah open up to one another about their hopes for growth, resolution, and deeper love in their relationship. Both speak candidly about their desire for honesty and understanding within their family. Elijah expresses his confusion about certain family conflicts and concerns, yearning for accountability and clarity. Through their stories, you'll witness a mother's unwavering pride in her son's boldness and kindness, as well as Elijah's reflections on his mother's nurturing influence. Their shared moments reveal the profound connections between them and their hopes for a healed, harmonious future. Discover the significance of consistency, the joy of cooking, and the importance of self-care and service to others in their lives.

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    48 m
  • Balancing Honesty With Compassion
    Dec 24 2025

    In this session, Jasmine, Elijah, and Gladys discuss the importance of open communication within families to truly understand each other without blame or silencing. Elijah raises profound questions about love and its complexity in familial interactions. The discussion moves towards how to maintain transparency and understand historical family trauma without taking things personally. The group also explores the idea of speaking their truth with care, even when responses might be offensive or triggering. This leads to a deeper understanding of boundaries and healthy love. The conversation serves as a reminder that real growth and healing come from aligning one's communication with their true self, and centers around balancing honesty with compassion.

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    39 m
  • Learning How To Say, NO and Set Boundaries
    Dec 17 2025

    WHO IS JASMINE? Jasmine shares her hopes of managing her boundaries and healing through saying 'no' to others. She reflects on her transformation from reacting aggressively to choosing calm responses, igniting her healing journey. Jasmine explores how she knows she is on her healing path by feeling healthier and maintaining positive changes in her life. Through an engaging conversation, Jasmine expresses her desire to build a supportive village, move to Atlanta, and maintain the changes she’s manifesting in her life. This episode offers valuable insights for anyone learning to set boundaries and striving for a healthier future.

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    38 m
  • I Didn't Get the Whole Truth Until I Was in My Thirties?
    Dec 10 2025

    WHO IS CHRIS? From being separated at a young age after his mother's tragic death to the struggles of growing up in foster care, Chris opens up about his life experiences and the importance of therapy in his healing process. Chris expresses how understanding his siblings' perspectives could transform his relationships and help him become a better father and grandfather. He emphasizes the value of truth, acceptance, and passing down positive life lessons to future generations. Keep listening to learn more about Chris's journey and gain inspiration from his pursuit of inner peace and happiness.

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    37 m
  • Family Therapy: The Gathering - A New Family
    Dec 7 2025

    The Black Effect Presents... Family Therapy!

    WHO'S ALL HERE? Jasmine, along with her siblings Chris and Gladys, and her nephew Elijah, embark on a transformative journey of family healing through therapy. Led by licensed psychotherapist Elliott Connie, this session, we learn more about each person who agreed to participate and who did not. Discover how consistency, cooking, and a shared love of service play pivotal roles in their paths to personal growth and familial connection. Experience the power of vulnerability, honesty, and hope as this unique family works together to create a better future. Perfect for anyone seeking tools and support for their own healing journey.

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    30 m
  • Letting Go of the Past to Move Forward
    Dec 3 2025

    WHO IS GLADYS? In this session of Family Therapy, Elliott Connie works with Gladys, who shares her emotional struggle and hopes to mend her relationship with her son, Elijah. After court battles, misunderstandings, and a damaging altercation, both mother and son have experienced significant pain and distance. Despite these challenges, there remains an unbroken bond, exemplified when Elijah reached out to his mother during a moment of deep despair. The therapy session aims to help Gladys reconnect with Elijah by focusing on the present and letting go of past anger and resentment. Elliott encourages Gladys to get to know her son as he is today, as this could pave the way for healing. The session closes with a powerful message about the importance of choosing healing and creating a space for connection, urging listeners to reflect on their own relationships and the emotions that may be hindering them.

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    41 m
  • Imagining Tomorrow: 'If I Woke Up as a Main Character
    Nov 26 2025

    WHO IS ELIJAH? Elijah explores his past traumas and seeks clarity on his role within his family. He discusses his hopes for healing, understanding his family dynamics, and avoiding repeating past mistakes with future generations. Elijah also shares his love for working with kids and his dream of becoming a storyteller and writer. Throughout the discussion, Elijah delves into the impact of family conflicts and his aspiration to break the cycle of anger and violence. Join us on this emotional journey as Elijah reflects on his personal growth, aspirations, and the importance of self-recognition in his path to healing.

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    39 m
  • Following Up from Season 1- Creating Peace Now: Replacing Resentment with Appreciation
    Nov 12 2025

    Welcome back to Family Therapy! Before we dive into the sessions with this Season's family, we catch up with last season's family—Jay, David, and Freddy—to see how they've been progressing. During their last sessions, we tackled issues concerning lack of confidence, adjusting to co-parenting, and personal growth.

    Today, we hear about David's journey back to faith with his baptism and his new role supporting special education students. Jay shares her commitment to a healthier lifestyle and her pride in her children's achievements. Both express a strong desire to move forward by living separately, emphasizing the need for personal peace and better co-parenting.

    Elliott encourages them to replace resentment with appreciation to create a better environment for their kids, even before they transition to separate living spaces. It's a heartfelt check-in that underscores their continuous effort and the slow, steady progress they are making.

    Learn More: ElliottConnie.com

    Connect: @ElliottSpeaks Text: 972.426.2640

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    47 m