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If you’re the one holding everything together – work, family, admin, emotional labour, and everyone else’s needs – this episode is for you. James and Juli unpack the Superwoman Trap: the unspoken belief that your worth is tied to how much you can cope with, manage, and carry. In midlife, that identity often starts to crack, bringing guilt, resentment, exhaustion, and the feeling that rest has somehow become “lazy.”

They explore why this trap hits harder in perimenopause and menopause, when broken sleep, hormonal shifts, and brain fog make the mental load far more expensive than it used to be. It’s not that you’ve lost your capability – it’s that your stress buffering has changed, while the demands on you haven’t. As James puts it, your bandwidth didn’t disappear, your life just kept opening new tabs.

The episode finishes with a practical, no-nonsense toolkit to help you step out of Superwoman mode without blowing up your life – including simple reframes, boundary scripts, the Drop–Delay–Delegate rule, and “minimum dose” self-care that supports your energy instead of adding more to your to-do list.

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We’re hosting The Mother of All Menopause Summits, running February 11–13, 2026 – a fully virtual event created specifically for busy career and business mums who need realistic shifts, not more pressure. With a free ticket, you’ll get 48-hour access to each session during summit week, with the option to upgrade to the Menopause Momentum Power Pack for ongoing access, extras, and a free month inside Club Fabulous Beyond 40.

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And if your inner Superwoman tries to argue, tell her we said she can take the day off.

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If you’re a working mum over 40 and you’ve ever felt guilty for working, guilty for not working, guilty for snapping, or guilty for wanting ten quiet minutes to yourself… this episode is for you.

In perimenopause and menopause, your stress tolerance shrinks, sleep gets messy, and suddenly the mental load you’ve always carried feels twice as heavy. That doesn’t mean you’re failing. It means the rules quietly changed without anyone handing you a new playbook.

In this episode of Empower Your Menopause, we’re unpacking why mum guilt gets so loud in midlife, why menopause amplifies it, and how to work with it rather than letting it run the show. You’ll leave with practical, real-life tools you can use even on your most chaotic days — no perfection required.

And if this conversation hits a nerve, it’s exactly why we created The Mother of All Menopause Summits — a free, three-day online event (February 11–13, 2026) built specifically for busy career and business mums who need clarity, support, and a plan that actually fits real life.

Grab your free ticket here https://motherofallmenopausesummits.com/

The summit is free but if you want early and extended access to the presentations, plus lots more goodies there's a low-cost VIP upgrade. You will get the best value on that for the 30 minutes after you sign up to the free option.

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Have you ever had a day where you’re doing all the same things you’ve always done, but suddenly it feels like you’re pushing through mud?

You’re functioning, but you’re not really fine. You’re tired in a way that sleep doesn’t fix. And because so many of your symptoms are nearly invisible, you start doubting yourself instead of recognising what’s actually happening.

This is incredibly common for women 40+, especially those juggling kids, partners, work, ageing parents, pets, and everyone else’s needs, while quietly sliding themselves to the bottom of the list.

And here’s the problem: most women are never given a clear, practical roadmap for this phase of life. Instead, they’re left piecing together advice from social media, half-truths, and well-meaning comments that don’t reflect their reality. No wonder it feels overwhelming.

This is exactly why we created The Mother of All Menopause Summits.

In this episode, we explain what led us to build it, who it’s really for, and why “just push through” is not a strategy. Our aim is simple: to give busy working mums real, usable tools that still work on your most chaotic days, not just on your imaginary “perfect week”.

The Mother of All Menopause Summits is a free, online, three-day event running February 11–13. It brings together 20+ expert speakers covering the things that actually move the needle in midlife: sleep, stress, strength, energy, mindset, confidence, and how to balance it all while still showing up at work and at home.

No extremes. No guilt. Just realistic support for real women in midlife.

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In this first Empower Your Menopause episode of 2026, James and Juli from Fabulous Beyond 40 sit down with award-winning anthropologist, writer and coach Veronica Kirin to unpack a powerful and often misunderstood midlife mix: stress, perimenopause and PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder).

When these three collide, things can feel overwhelming, confusing and downright brutal. Veronica brings a refreshingly human and science-grounded lens to what’s really going on, why so many women feel dismissed or misdiagnosed, and how to make sense of your symptoms without spiralling into self-blame.

Together, they explore how big life transitions, hormone shifts and chronic stress interact, why some women are more vulnerable to mood changes in midlife, and what it actually means to advocate for yourself in the healthcare system. You’ll also hear practical guidance on how to switch clinicians when you’re not being listened to, without guilt, awkwardness or burning bridges.

If you’ve ever thought “something isn’t right, but I don’t know how to explain it”, this episode will feel like a breath of fresh air.

As always, this podcast is for education and empowerment, not medical advice. If anything resonates, take it as a starting point for a conversation with your healthcare provider.

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For more on Veronica's work, see https://veronicakirin.com/

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New Year’s resolutions often fail in menopause because the usual January diet rules ignore sleep disruption, stress load, cravings, and decision fatigue. In this episode, coaches Juli and James share a calmer January framework for women 40+ and a simple mini reset you can try this week.

In this episode:

• The January trap and why urgency backfires
• Menopause reality check: sleep, stress, appetite, energy
• Why all-or-nothing rules fail and what works better
• The missing ingredient: support and accountability
• A simple January framework for women 40+
• The 7-day Anchor Meal challenge

Ready for a calmer January?

If you want January to feel steady instead of chaotic, Transform in 4 is our four-week reset built for women 40+. You’ll learn and practise a simple, realistic way of eating that reduces overwhelm and helps you feel back in control. It’s the perfect plan to follow when you’re tired, busy, hormonal, and still want results.

Transform in 4 pre-work starts 2 January 2026 and the programme begins 5 January 2026: t4.fabulousbeyond40.com

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If you’ve ever woken up on January 1, stepped on the scales and thought, “Right. That’s it. I need to lose weight. Now,” this episode is for you.

In this conversation, we dig into menopause weight loss vs fat loss, why the usual New Year crash diets hit so much harder in midlife, and what to do instead so January isn’t just punishment for whatever happened in December.

Here’s what we cover in Episode 74:

• Why the classic December “I’ve blown it” → January “emergency diet” cycle feels tougher in peri and post-menopause
• What’s actually changing in your body: shifts in fat distribution (hello, menopause belly fat), muscle loss, appetite, sleep and stress
• The difference between chasing scale weight and actually improving body composition in menopause
• Why the scales often feel like they’re gaslighting you – and why that number tells you nothing about fat, muscle, bloat or your worth
• Our 5-Step Hierarchy of Fat Loss in Menopause:
• How to turn all of this into a realistic 2026 plan that fits your actual life – work, kids, caring, chaos and all

By the end, you’ll have a clearer picture of what you’re really chasing (fat loss, health, confidence, energy) and why your midlife body needs a different approach from your 30-year-old self.

Free live workshop: Five Steps to Master Your Menopause Weight Loss in 2026

If you’re listening before Wednesday, December 17, we’d love you to join our free live workshop, Five Steps to Master Your Menopause Weight Loss.

In about 90 minutes, we’ll help you:

• Identify which of the “big rocks” matters most for you right now
• Choose one or two simple actions you can actually stick with for the rest of December
• Sketch out a realistic, compassion-filled 2026 plan that focuses on fat loss, health and confidence – not detox punishment and diet misery

🗓 Wednesday, 17 December – 6 pm UK / 1 pm Eastern / 10 am Pacific
💻 Live on Zoom, with workbook and replay for everyone who registers

Save your free seat at: fivesteps.fabulousbeyond40.com

And if you’ve got a friend who always messages you on New Year’s Day saying “I need a new diet,” send her this episode and the workshop link so you can do January differently together.

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Menopause cravings are no joke. One minute you are fine, the next you are elbow-deep in the biscuit tin, finishing the crisps, or pouring another glass of prosecco you did not really plan to have.

In this episode of Empower Your Menopause, coaches James and Juli break down what is really going on with cravings in midlife and why they often feel louder during perimenopause and post-menopause, especially around the holidays. Spoiler: it is not because you have no willpower.

You will learn:

• Why shifting hormones, stress and sleep make cravings stronger in menopause
• What different cravings, from chocolate to crisps to boozy treats, might be pointing to
• A simple Cravings Compass framework to help you decode what your body and brain are asking for
• Real-life holiday examples and kinder strategies so you can enjoy festive food without feeling out of control or waking up in January full of guilt

This is not a diet lecture and we are not taking away your chocolate. It is about understanding the signals behind your cravings so you can respond with more calm, confidence and choice.

Listen in, choose one craving moment to work on this week, and know that you are not the only one eyeing up the biscuit tin.

Get your Menopause Impact Assessment

Our 45-minute Menopause Impact Assessment coaching session is where clarity begins. In our session we'll use a validated symptom assessment — not a guess, not a trend — to help you understand exactly how menopause is affecting your body, mind, and daily life. Then we’ll help you create a personalised, practical plan to start feeling better.

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Struggling with midlife sleep? Your evening screen time may be the culprit. Coaches James & Juli unpack a simple digital detox for hormonal health: why blue light and doomscrolling delay melatonin and how to use the 3-2-1 wind-down to reset your evenings. Expect practical boundaries, tiny rituals you can keep on your busiest week, and an easy “1-0-0” starter if 3-2-1 feels big. Earbuds in, screens down - and prepare to sleep better, think clearer.

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If you want a personalised roadmap for sleep, stress, food, and movement that fits your life, the Menopause Impact Assessment is spot-on. It’s just £10 / $13 for Black Friday, there are still some spots left, so grab yours today. And if you know anyone else who struggles with this, it would make a great gift!

See https://impact.fabulousbeyond40.com/ to book your slot