Episodios

  • 360. Psychotherapist Terri Cole: The Secret to Healing Your Childhood Wounds & Building Healthy Relationships
    Oct 14 2025

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    Psychotherapist Terri Cole reveals how childhood wounds quietly shape every relationship you have—and how to finally heal them. From codependency and fear of disapproval to the inability to set healthy boundaries, Terri shares the personal stories and therapeutic frameworks that have helped thousands reclaim their self-worth and rebuild trust in love. She opens up about the moment she realized she was abandoning herself in relationships, the three questions that expose repeating relationship patterns, and how learning to speak your truth—without guilt—is the key to secure attachment. You’ll walk away understanding that you can’t build healthy love by trying to be perfect; you build it by learning to be real.

    Follow Terri on Instagram: @terricole
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    Get her bestselling book, Boundary Boss: terricole.com

    In this episode, you will:
    • Uncover the roots of codependency – Learn how childhood dynamics create patterns of people-pleasing, fear of disapproval, and self-abandonment in adulthood

    • Master the Three Cues for Clarity – Terri’s simple framework to identify who someone reminds you of, where you’ve felt this before, and how that pattern repeats

    • Redefine boundaries as self-respect – Discover why preferences, desires, and deal-breakers are the foundation of every healthy relationship

    • Heal your attachment style – Understand how early attunement—or lack of it—impacts your ability to form secure, interdependent relationships

    • Transform discomfort into growth – Learn why uncomfortable conversations are where real healing and intimacy begin

    • Build emotional maturity – Replace control and reactivity with curiosity, empathy, and self-awareness in every relationship

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    1 h y 4 m
  • 359. How a 3% Chance to Live Changed Everything w/ John Ulsh
    Oct 7 2025

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    What would you do if life gave you a 3% chance to live?

    In this episode of The Decoding Success Podcast, host Matt LeBris sits down with John Ulsh, a husband, father, entrepreneur, and survivor of a devastating car accident that nearly claimed his life.

    John’s story isn’t just about survival — it’s about the radical grace required to rebuild when everything you knew is gone. He opens up about waking up from trauma, learning to take life one first step at a time, and the mindset that transforms setbacks into starting points.

    This conversation is a reminder that there are countless ways to go backward, but only one way to move forward — through grace, patience, and a willingness to begin again.

    If you’ve ever felt like you were starting over, this one’s for you.

    You’ll Learn
    • The mindset shift that helped John find purpose after tragedy

    • How to give yourself grace when life sets you back

    • Why progress isn’t linear — and why that’s a good thing

    • The importance of redefining strength as acceptance instead of perfection

    • How to take your next “first step,” no matter how small

    Follow John on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/johnulsh/

    Grab a Copy of The Upside of Down here: https://www.johnulsh.com/publications

    John's website: https://www.johnulsh.com/

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    1 h y 15 m
  • 358. Jason Stacy: Control Your Emotions, Harness Your Energy, Audit Your Environment
    Oct 1 2025

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    In this episode of The Decoding Success Podcast, host Matt LeBris sits down with world-renowned performance coach Jason Stacy, the man behind some of the most elite athletes and CEOs on the planet. Jason’s work with Olympians, professional fighters, and even the #1 tennis player in the world has given him a unique perspective on what it really takes to perform at the highest level.

    Jason shares his powerful framework built around the 3 E’s of Success — Emotions, Energy, and Environment — and why mastering these three areas is the key to sustainable high performance in sports, business, and life.

    What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
    • How to control your emotions so you don’t get stuck in negative patterns or fear-based decision-making.

    • How to harness your energy and use your body to shift your state instantly.

    • Why auditing your environment — both internal and external — is essential for growth and long-term success.

    • The surprising connection between discipline, small daily choices, and peak performance.

    • Why Jason believes your operating system (emotions, energy, environment) matters more than any “app” or strategy.

    Resources & Links Mentioned in This Episode:
    • Follow Jason on Instagram: @JasonStacy

    • Join Jason’s newsletter: The Coaching Sweet Spot

    • Keep up with Jason’s upcoming book release (October 2026)

    • Free Strategy Call with Brand Builders Group: https://freebrandcall.com/mattlebris/

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    1 h y 23 m
  • 357. How to Let Go of Control and Find Peace (with Panache Desai)
    Sep 23 2025

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    In this episode, Panache Desai and Matt LeBris dive into what happens when we stop trying to fix the unfixable, surrender control, and embrace who we truly are. We explore how ambition and success can mask deeper wounds, why so many of us feel “empty” even after we’ve achieved, and how letting go of past identity can open the door to lasting peace. Panache shares powerful insights, practical steps, and stories about what it really looks like to live with presence, self-love, and authenticity.

    Who This Episode is For...

    • Anyone feeling exhausted from chasing success that never satisfies.

    • People longing for peace, presence, and authenticity.

    • Black Sheep & non-conformists who often feel different or out of place.

    • Those who are ready to stop “working on themselves” and instead begin “being themselves.”

    Key Takeaways From This Episode...

    • Success and achievement won’t heal past pain — acknowledging we are powerless over the past is the first step toward freedom.

    • Surrender is not giving up; it’s a shift from doing-ness to being-ness.

    • Love of self is foundational: you can’t truly love others if you haven’t accepted and embraced yourself.

    • Letting go of control doesn’t mean inaction; it means trusting the natural unfolding.

    • Imperfection, mortality, human vulnerability—they’re essential. When we stop pretending and start being profoundly human, joy and peace follow.

    Resources Discussed...

    • Website / Official Hub: Panache’s site with programs, events, and resources — PanacheDesai.com panachedesai.com

    • Instagram: @panachedesai

    • You Are Enough: Revealing The Soul to Discover Your Power, Potential, and Possibility — Panache’s major book releasing the message that you are already whole, not something to be fixed. Grab Your Copy

    • Call to Calm — Free daily meditation / presence practices via Zoom to ground, breathe, connect. Call to Calm

    • Impact — A 3-month mentoring / small-group journey for people committed to living from truth. panachedesai.com

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    57 m
  • 356. Kyle Maynard: The 3-Foot Rule That Will Change Your Life
    Sep 9 2025

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    What do you do when the summit feels impossible? Kyle Maynard, NYT bestselling author, speaker, and athlete—breaks down the mindset that got him from an 0–35 wrestling record to bear-crawling a 22,800-foot mountain. His rule? Three feet at a time. We dig into focus, unlearning, healthy comparison, fear vs. certainty, and how to know when to push or pull back so you actually enjoy your life while you pursue big goals.

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    In This Episode, You’ll Learn
    • The 3-Foot Rule: A simple focus shift to do brutally hard things without burning out.

    • “Where attention goes, energy flows”: How to direct your mind so results follow.

    • Unlearning for growth: Dropping beliefs that quietly cap your potential.

    • Comparison as a tool (not a thief): How to compare properly and win.

    • Push vs. quit: The signals that tell you which choice is wisdom—not weakness.

    • Pain, presence, and toughness: Why ignoring pain isn’t strength—and what is.

    • Map ≠ territory: Seeing reality clearly so your strategy actually works.

    • Fear → Clarity → Power → Age: The “four invisible enemies” you’ll meet at every level.

    Connect with Kyle
    • Website / Speaking: https://www.kyle-maynard.com/

    • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylemaynard/

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    1 h y 18 m
  • 355. How to Reclaim the Desires You’ve Suppressed for Years w/ Dr. Robert Glover
    Aug 19 2025

    What happens when you realize the life you’ve built isn’t fully yours? When the career, relationships, or goals you’ve been chasing were shaped more by approval and outside expectations than your own true desires?

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    In this episode of the Decoding Success Podcast, I’m joined by Dr. Robert Glover, author of the international bestseller No More Mr. Nice Guy. Together, we unpack the hidden ways we suppress our desires, betray our authenticity, and live for approval — and more importantly, how to break free.

    Dr. Glover shares:

    • How to recognize the “lie coach” in your head that keeps you playing small.

    • Why so many of us pursue goals that were never truly ours.

    • The difference between emotional fusion and healthy differentiation (and why it’s the key to real freedom).

    • How to start reclaiming your suppressed desires — without guilt, shame, or fear of rejection.

    • Why authenticity is always a process, not a one-time choice.

    Whether you’ve struggled with people-pleasing, codependency, or simply not knowing what you truly want in life, this conversation will give you permission — and the tools — to step into your full, authentic self.

    🌐 Connect with Dr. Robert Glover:

    • Instagram: @drrobertglover

    • Website: drglover.com

    • Integration Nation (Men’s Community): integrationnation.net

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    1 h y 17 m
  • 354. The Hardest Lesson I’ve Learned About Opportunity
    Aug 14 2025

    I want to let you in on something that hit me hard recently:
    If you’re “playing it cool” in life, chances are… you’re actually just playing yourself.

    In this solo episode, I’m breaking down a moment that made me reflect deeply — a missed opportunity on a Brooklyn street that left me with instant regret. I’m sharing it because I know I’m not the only one who’s ever let fear get dressed up in confidence.

    We convince ourselves we’re being smooth. That we’re in control. But deep down, we’re just scared — scared of looking dumb, getting rejected, or not living up to the version of ourselves we’re trying to project.

    I dive into:

    • Why “playing it cool” is costing you the life you want

    • What fear looks like when it’s wearing designer clothing

    • The hard truth about opportunities: they don’t wait for you to be ready

    • Why it’s better to live with a “no” than a “never know”

    • How to start acting like the version of yourself you’re trying to become

    If you’ve been sitting on an idea, holding back your voice, or missing shots you know you were meant to take — this one’s for you.

    Let them see you try. Let God see you try. You're not here to play it cool — you're here to play it real.

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    Let’s stop letting fear call the shots.
    Appreciate you for tuning in.

    – Matt

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    11 m
  • 353. Suzy Batiz on the Darkest Season of Her Life And the Gold She Found There
    Aug 12 2025

    Suzy Batiz, the creator of Poo-Pourri and one of the most unconventional entrepreneurs in the game, joins The Decoding Success Podcast to share the raw, unfiltered truth about chasing success… and what she found when she got it.

    This is NOT the story you’ve heard before.
    Suzy opens up about the bankruptcy, divorce, suicide attempt, and even the darkest season of her life — fresh out of it and sharing publicly for the first time — and how those lows became the place where she found the gold that truly mattered.

    Resources & Links Mentioned in This Episode:
    🎯 Free Personal Brand Strategy Call: https://freebrandcall.com/mattlebris

    📖 Gay Hendricks – The Big Leap

    We’re diving into:

    • Why hitting rock bottom can be the doorway to your highest self

    • The real danger of making money your god

    • Learning the difference between body, soul, and spirit — and living from the one that knows the truth

    • Letting go of control and choosing trust in God (even when everything’s on the line)

    • Why “success” without alignment will never be enough

    • How to face reality, build your “figure-it-out” muscle, and lead through chaos

    Suzy’s journey is proof that surrender isn’t giving up — it’s letting go of the need to control so you can step into something bigger than you ever imagined.

    If you’ve ever felt the pressure to chase the next milestone, feared losing it all, or wondered what’s on the other side of letting go… this conversation will shake you in the best way.

    Connect with Suzy Batiz:
    🌐 Website: https://suzybatiz.com
    📱 Instagram: https://instagram.com/suzybatiz
    💡 Check out her course: Alive OS

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    1 h y 10 m