Brian celebrates a number of firsts when it comes to hooking up, and encourages listeners to lean into new experiences. Judson bemoans hooking up in winter but looks forward to a trip to Steamworks in Toronto. Dads and Daddies stirs up jealous feelings that inspire a listener to try cuckold play with his partner in the Hookup of the Week. Brian and Judson are then joined by Daddy Kylex, one of New York City’s preeminent adult content creators. Kylex takes them through the origins of his career, what his Jewish mother does and does not know about his livelihood, what his sex life looks like off-camera, and what his romantic aspirations are long-term. He shares his Daddy Issue with the disparity between how people interact with him online versus in person, and helps Brian and Judson respond to a Go Ask Your Dad question from a listener who wants advice on how to speak to people at kink socials without anyone getting the wrong idea about his intentions.

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Judson prepares to celebrate his birthday. Brian attends his daughter’s first fashion show as a designer. Judson clarifies what he means when he uses the term “Duck Toast” to describe a man’s physique. Brian provides an update on the effect Lexapro is having on his sexual performance. The Hookup of the Week follows the international adventures of a listener who has opened his marriage after more than 20 years. Brian and Judson are then joined by Tony, Drama Desk, Outer Critics Circle and NY Drama Critics Circle awards-winning comedy writer for stage and screen, Robert Horn. Robert shares incredible stories from throughout his life, ranging from the time he set his home on fire as a child to the underground way in which he maintained contact with his sister after they were sent to separate orphanages, to his sexual awakening while at the orphanage, to the impact the Big Brothers Big Sisters organization made on his life. He tells them about his move to Manhattan where he made money any way he could–legal or not, his move to Los Angeles where his TV writing career took off, and his most recent chapter writing hit after hit on Broadway and the West End. Robert talks about his marriage to his true southern gentleman husband John, his thoughts on the evolution of queer culture, and the challenges of aging as a gay man. To close, Robert helps Brian and Judson respond to a Go Ask Your Dad question from a listener who continues to fall for straight men and wants help putting a stop to the pattern.

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Brian reflects on the past year and shares his wishes for the year ahead. Holiday brain leads Judson down a rabbit hole reminiscing about the tabloid news of the 1990s.The Hookup of the Week features a validating public massage experience that opens up conversation between the listener and his husband. Brian and Judson are then joined by TikTok’s favorite anti-ICE activist and immigration attorney, Michael Foote. Michael talks about how the Department of Homeland Security (DHS) shares a memo with their lawyers about what to do if they face Michael in court, his subversive ways of tormenting DHS, what each of us can do to help those in our lives and our communities being targeted by ICE, and why you should never pet a police horse, but particularly not in New Orleans during Mardi Gras. He also talks about his podcast Brief Recess, the addiction that will keep him from competing on “Survivor,” how his husband is his perfect counterbalance, what it’s like becoming “gay famous,” navigating the holidays as queer people, the importance of Daddies, and how people judge him when he reveals that he and his husband are monogamous. Michael then joins Brian and Judson in responding to a Go Ask Your Dad question from a listener who wants to know if it’s ok to lie to spare his friend’s feelings when he is invited to a sex party where his friend isn’t welcome.

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Judson and his husband host an engagement/tree-trimming/Shabbat celebration with a Halloween theme. Brian and Judson’s husband have a clandestine meeting without them. Brian thinks he may have come out to his mother about his open marriage. A listener provides some important context around the use of SSRIs. The Hookup of the Week comes from a listener sharing a favorite memory of some public group sex that took him by surprise. They are then joined by actor, comedian and writer Aaron Jackson. Aaron talks about his role as “social justice warrior, but for Instagram” Caden Smucker in Drew Droege’s Messy White Gays currently running off-Broadway, how the role is a departure of sorts for him and his journey from theatre school to improv comedy back to acting. He also shares the origin and process of writing his spectacular novel, The Astonishing Life of August March, discusses his longstanding working relationship with prior Dads and Daddies guest, Josh Sharp and their experience as some of the few gay members of Upright Citizens Brigade when they joined. Other topics covered include whether or not Aaron and his college sweetheart husband could be part of a throuple, his skills in the kitchen, why he christened himself as a “Garbage Troll” on Instagram, and his hatred of completing forms. To close, Aaron helps Brian and Judson respond to a listener's two-part question asking whether or not he is watching too much porn, and for advice on what to do when one looks like a daddy but wants to be a son.

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Judson enjoys a hookup that goes past the typical twenty minutes and returns to his favorite gay event at his local bathhouse. Brian spends an evening with the Real Housewives of Salt Lake City and tries to entice Judson to check out the show. The Hookup of the Week is a twofer from a Daddy who enjoys public sex. The two are then joined by rising Broadway star Jimin Moon, and returning guest Will Wikle, known first for his iconic time spent as a houseguest on Big Brother 5 in 2004, and now as a psychiatric nurse practitioner with his own practice, Peace Park Psychiatry. Jimin talks about performing the leading role of Joe Gillis in the recent Broadway production of Sunset Blvd., the secrets of cruising from the stage, the shift his life has taken since his recent 25th birthday, and the New Year’s resolution that revolutionized his sex life. Together, Jimin and Will talk about their chosen family, mentorship in the gay community, how Dads and Daddies helped bring them together, and how they’ve since developed a relationship that defies labels. Will also updates Brian and Judson on the successful growth of his psychiatry practice, on attending his first organized sex party, the Daddy Issue he spoke about during his first visit, and how Jimin has helped him conquer it. To close, Jimin and Will help Brian and Judson respond to not one, but two Go Ask Your Dad questions: one from a listener in an open marriage who finds the amount of sex his husband needs outside the marriage disconcerting, and a second from a listener debating whether or not he should accept the invitation from a couple 15 years his senior to join them in a throuple.

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Judson attends the Christmas Spectacular starring the Radio City Rockettes for his first time. Brian is asked to define some key sexual vocabulary terms by his daughter. The two celebrate being named a 2025 Marathon Show, Talked About Show and Most Shared Show by Spotify. The Hookup of the Week comes from a listener who has found his role helping people explore their versatility. After the break, Brian shares two personal revelations about his mental and physical health, which together inspire his own journey from bottoming to topping. The episode concludes with a Go Ask Your Dad question from a listener who wants help establishing rules around communication in his open relationship.

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Judson is riding high from a health rebound and a proud week at work. Brian’s daughters surprise him by saying and doing a number of things that speak both to their maturity and to their being raised by gay dads. The Hookup of the Week comes from a listener at the start of opening his marriage, who shares a fun night out with his husband and others during their anniversary trip to Puerto Vallarta. Brian and Judson are then joined by the leading anal health expert in the United States, Dr. Evan Goldstein. Dr Goldstein is the founder of Future Method, makers of science-backed sex toys and other anal sex products; he’s the author of Butt Seriously: The Definitive Guide to Anal Health, Pleasure, and Everything In Between; and he’s one of the few surgeons in the world whose practice, Bespoke Surgical in New York City, is dedicated to treating and restoring the human butt. Dr. Goldstein speaks with Brian and Judson about his inspiration for pursuing his particular medical specialty, what brings most patients to his office, how he helps people become more comfortable as bottoms, the shame so many people feel about what their butt does or doesn’t do, his guidance for learning to remove that shame, how and why he recommends using toys, the three different types of bottoms, why anal botox is a game-changer and how we should think about protecting the prostate. He also shares his thoughts on aging, what it’s like being a dad to two teenage boys, and talking with kids about sex. To close, Dr. Goldstein helps Brian and Judson respond to a Go Ask Your Dad question submitted by a listener who isn’t able to ejaculate after a medical procedure and wants help finding ways to communicate that to his sexual partners without making it awkward.

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It is a momentous occasion when Judson wears an entirely black outfit. Brian takes his family to the fantastic new revival of The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee off-Broadway, where his daughter joins the cast for the afternoon. Judson crowdsources an internship for a new friend he met by chance over ramen. The Hookup of the Week comes from a sub who finds a deeper connection with one of his regular Doms. The two are then joined by Dr. Demetre Daskalakis, former director of the CDC’s National Center for Immunization and Respiratory Diseases before his fiery resignation this summer. Having also served as the CDC’s Director of HIV Prevention, the White House’s Deputy Coordinator of the National Monkeypox Response in 2022-2023, and the Deputy Commissioner of NYC’s Department of Health, Dr. Daskalakis brings an incredible wealth of knowledge, experience, stories and sexy Daddy energy to the Dads and Daddies studio.

Dr. Demetre speaks with Brian and Judson about his resignation from the CDC this summer and the hostile takeover of the organization by RFK Jr., being dubbed “Dr. Daddy” by legendary nightlife impresario Susanne Bartsch, his days on the front lines testing for HIV in NYC’s bathhouses and sex clubs, the origin and evolution of his 14-year relationship with his husband Michael, their imminent move back to New York, the meaning behind his tattoos, the love of Madonna concerts he shares with Brian, and his intolerance of bullies instilled by his father that has made him the fighter he is today. He then joins Brian and Judson for a mini Go Ask Your Dad Extravaganza, tackling three listener-submitted questions about communicating when one tests positive for an STI, conquering a debilitating fear of HIV, and handling the discovery of an open sore during an anonymous sex encounter.

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