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In this heartfelt episode, Brent sits down with Brian Seim—a Christian coach and stepfather who shares what it means to choose fatherhood and be chosen back. From parenting a high-functioning autistic stepson to raising five kids in a blended family, Brian’s story is full of powerful insights for any man trying to lead his family with intention.

IN THIS EPISODE:

• How Brian became “Dad” the moment he got married
• The importance of presence over planning
• How roleplaying games helped connect with his kids
• Why even 20 minutes of undivided attention matters
• The danger of letting work steal our best energy
• And why every dad needs to hear “You’re enough”

CONNECT WITH BRIAN SEIM:

• https://kingdomfamilyleader.com
• https://www.facebook.com/coachbrianseim
• https://www.linkedin.com/in/brianseim
• https://www.youtube.com/@brianseim

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Becoming a dad for the first time is like stepping into a whirlwind of joy, terror, and a million questions. In this eye-opening episode, I dive deep into the unspoken truths about new fatherhood that every expectant dad needs to hear.

Drawing from real conversations with over 180 new dads, I uncover the six most common concerns that keep popping up in dad forums. But that's not all - I also reveal two critical insights that are rarely discussed but absolutely essential for your journey into fatherhood.

Your New Role as Protector and Advocate

Discover why you're about to become your wife's most important ally in a world where everyone has an opinion on your parenting choices. Learn how to navigate the overwhelming flood of advice and stand firm in the decisions you make as a couple.

Balancing Baby and Marriage

Uncover the secret to maintaining a strong relationship with your partner while adjusting to life with a newborn. I share personal insights on how I initially struggled with this balance and offer practical tips to help you avoid the same pitfalls.

Navigating Intimacy After Baby

Let's talk about the elephant in the room - changes in your physical relationship. Get honest advice on how to approach this sensitive topic with patience, understanding, and love.

Finding Your Place in This New Adventure

Feel like you don't know where you fit in this new family dynamic? I'll show you how your problem-solving skills are about to become your superpower in ways you never imagined.

Your Changing Social Circle

Understand why your friendships might shift and how to build a supportive community of fellow parents who truly get what you're going through.

Whether you've just found out you're going to be a dad or you're already in the trenches of early parenthood, this episode is packed with invaluable insights to help you navigate this incredible journey. Remember, no man is ever truly ready for fatherhood, but with the right knowledge and support, you can embrace this role with confidence and joy.

Are you ready to step up to the plate and become the dad your family needs? Listen now and equip yourself with the wisdom of dads who've been there before you.

Referenced Videos

Quality Over Quantity The New Math of Fatherhood

https://youtu.be/_QoI2W5CrNE

From Chaos to Control Strategies for Maximizing Every Hour

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5hlk4kI0b00

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In this powerful episode, Brent sits down with Max Shippee, a multi-talented actor and author who brings a fresh and grounded perspective to fatherhood and masculinity. They open with a dad-story gem—Max’s unforgettable tea party moment—and dive into how the stories we tell shape who we are as dads, men, and human beings.

They discuss how to build intentional narratives in our families, why masculinity isn’t the problem (but insecure imitation is), and how simple presence often outweighs any parenting strategy. The conversation also explores the subtle art of being a teen dad, creative parenting metaphors, and the importance of knowing your child’s world.

Main Topics Covered:

· 🎭 Max’s journey: from Maine to LA to authorhood

· 🫖 Hilarious tea party story that every dad will relate to

· 📚 The power of stories: what we tell ourselves and our kids

· 🧠 Villain vs. Hero: a lens for self-development and parenting

· 🧔 Redefining masculinity: toxic, divine, and misunderstood

· 🧭 Teaching integrity, discipline, and humility

· 💡 The single most important thing dads need to know: Be there

Timestamps:

· 00:00:00 – Welcome + intro to Max Shippee

· 00:08:34 – Cussing toddlers & the power of modeling

· 00:14:12 – From Maine woods to Young & the Restless

· 00:25:30 – The power of “I need to dad right now” conversations

· 00:32:05 – Parenting metaphors that actually help

· 00:43:00 – Max’s book, fiction writing & positive masculinity

· 00:55:42 – Brent’s core 3 traits of real masculinity

· 01:04:10 – Final wisdom: You don’t have to be perfect. Just be present.

Connect with Max Shippee:

· 📖 Book: Path of the Raven www.readmoonshine.com

· 🌐 Social: @ReadMoonshine | @MakingMax

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Ever wondered if taking time for yourself is selfish when you're a dad? Think again! In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with Jason Lang, a father of two and men's coach, to explore why self-care isn't just important for dads - it's essential for the whole family.

Jason shares his personal journey of balancing fatherhood with self-care, and we dive deep into:

The Power of Quality Time

Discover why 15 minutes of focused attention can be more impactful than hours of distracted parenting. Learn how to create magical moments that strengthen your bond with your children.

Building a Support Network

Find out why connecting with other men isn't just about you - it's about creating a richer environment for your kids to grow up in. We explore the benefits of exposing your children to diverse male role models.

Investing in Your Health

Understand why taking care of your body isn't vanity - it's about being there for your family in the long run. Jason shares practical tips for fitting exercise into even the busiest dad schedule.

The Guilt-Free Zone

Learn how to shake off the guilt that often comes with prioritizing self-care. Discover why taking time for yourself actually makes you a better, more present father.

Whether you're a new dad or a seasoned parent, this conversation will challenge your perceptions of what it means to be a great father. You'll walk away with practical strategies to nurture yourself while nurturing your family.

Remember, being a great dad isn't about sacrificing everything - it's about showing up as the best version of yourself. Are you ready to revolutionize your approach to fatherhood? Listen now and discover how taking care of yourself is one of the most powerful ways to care for your family.

Guest Links:

https://evolutionary.men

https://www.facebook.com/evolutionarymenswork

https://www.youtube.com/@evolutionarymen

https://www.instagram.com/evolutionarymen

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Ever wondered how to turn everyday parenting moments into magical memories? In this heartwarming episode, I sit down with Craig Parks, a musician, camp director, and father of two, who's mastered the art of infusing creativity and joy into the parenting journey.

Craig shares his unique "Parenting A to E" method, a powerful approach that transforms mundane tasks into unforgettable experiences. We dive deep into:

The Power of Affect

Discover how your body language and voice can dramatically improve your connection with your children. Learn simple techniques to boost cooperation and trust.

Music as a Memory-Making Tool

Uncover the magic of incorporating songs into daily routines like bath time and bedtime. Craig reveals how these musical moments create lasting, joyful memories.

Embracing Your Inner Goofball

Find out why letting loose and being silly with your kids is crucial for building strong relationships. Craig shares practical tips for even the most "serious" dads.

Screen-Free Fun for the Whole Family

Get a sneak peek at Craig's upcoming book, packed with 25 creative, no-tech activities that will bring your family closer together.

The Importance of Self-Care for Dads

Learn why taking care of your own well-being isn't selfish – it's essential for showing up as the best version of yourself for your kids.

Whether you're a new dad or a seasoned parent, this episode will inspire you to inject more fun, creativity, and connection into your parenting journey. You'll walk away with practical tools to create a childhood filled with laughter, love, and unforgettable moments.

Remember, you don't need to be a professional entertainer or musician to connect deeply with your kids. Craig's insights prove that with a little intention and a willingness to step outside your comfort zone, any dad can create magic in the everyday moments of parenting.

Are you ready to transform your parenting approach and build stronger bonds with your children? Listen now and discover how to turn the ordinary into extraordinary in your family life.

Key takeaways:

00:00:00 - The Dad's Rite of Passage: Parenting Mishaps and Lessons

00:10:36 - Craig Parks: Musician, Camp Founder, and Parenting Expert

00:23:48 - The Parenting A to E Method: Mastering Affect for Effective Parenting

00:33:26 - Embracing Creativity and Silliness in Fatherhood

Guest Links:

https://parentingharmony.com

https://www.facebook.com/craigparksmusic

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https://www.instagram.com/parentingharmony

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Ever wondered what happens to your role as a dad when your kids turn 18 and start their own lives? It's a question that many fathers grapple with as their children transition into adulthood. In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with Rob Finlay, entrepreneur, philanthropist, and author of "Hey Dad: Everything You Should Have Learned About Life But Didn't," to explore the evolving landscape of fatherhood beyond the traditional 18-year mark.

Rob shares his insights on navigating this new phase of parenting, drawing parallels between high school and professional football coaching to illustrate the shift in approach. We dive deep into:

The Transition from Dependent to Independent

Discover why the end of the "magic carpet ride" of childhood can be challenging for both parents and young adults, and how to support your kids through this crucial phase.

Balancing Guidance and Independence

Learn how to strike the right balance between offering advice and allowing your adult children to make their own decisions and mistakes.

Preparing for Life Beyond Parenting

Explore the importance of maintaining your own identity and purpose as your children become more independent.

Whether you're a dad with young kids looking ahead or already navigating the waters of parenting adult children, this conversation offers valuable insights on how to evolve your role while maintaining a strong, supportive relationship with your kids.

Remember, being a great dad doesn't stop at 18 - it just takes on a new form. Are you ready to embrace this next chapter of fatherhood? Listen now and discover how to stay connected and relevant in your children's lives, no matter their age.

Connect with Rob Finlay:

https://robfinlay.com

https://www.facebook.com/people/Robert-J-Finlay

https://x.com/robjfinlay

https://www.instagram.com/robjfinlay

https://www.linkedin.com/in/robjfinlay

https://www.youtube.com/@Robjfinlay

Chapters

00:00:00 - Introduction and Rob's Favorite Dad Moment

00:12:17 - Cultivating Relationships with Adult Children

00:24:34 - The Importance of Being Present and Having a Purpose

00:36:51 - Advice for Dads on Parenting Beyond 18

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Ever felt like you're fighting an uphill battle to be a great dad after a divorce? You're not alone. In this heartfelt episode, I sit down with David Pasqualone, a father who's been through the wringer of a challenging divorce and is still striving to maintain a strong connection with his children.

David opens up about his journey, sharing both the triumphs and the struggles of fatherhood post-divorce. His story is a testament to the power of perseverance and faith in the face of seemingly insurmountable odds.

The Reality of Post-Divorce Parenting

Learn how David navigates the complex landscape of co-parenting and maintaining relationships with his children despite challenging circumstances.

Faith as an Anchor

Discover how David's faith has been a source of strength and hope, even when his children have been turned against him.

The Power of Presence

Understand why being present in the moment is crucial when you have limited time with your children.

Overcoming Parental Alienation

Gain insights into dealing with situations where your ex-spouse may be influencing your children's perception of you.

Keeping Hope Alive

Find out how David maintains his vision of rebuilding strong relationships with his children, despite current challenges.

Whether you're going through a divorce, have experienced one, or simply want to be prepared for life's curveballs, this episode offers valuable lessons on resilience and unwavering love in fatherhood.

Remember, being a great dad isn't about perfection - it's about persistence. Are you ready to be inspired and equipped for the journey ahead? Listen now and discover how to keep your fatherhood dream alive, no matter what life throws your way.

Connect with David
https://davidpasqualone.com
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https://www.linkedin.com/in/dpasqualone/

Time Stamps
00:00:00 - The Impact of Divorces on Everyday Fathers
00:01:33 - Fatherhood After Divorce: David's Story
00:05:47 - The Challenges of Post-Divorce Fatherhood
00:12:17 - Navigating Strained Relationships with Children
00:24:34 - The Role of Faith in Difficult Times
00:36:51 - Advice for Dads Struggling Post-Divorce

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Ever wondered how to teach your kids about money without feeling like you're fumbling in the dark? As dads, we often worry about providing for our families, but what if we could empower our children to understand and manage finances from an early age?

In this eye-opening episode of Dad Hat Shenanigans, I sit down with Matt Morizio, a financial advisor and father of seven, to explore how we can transform our relationship with money and pass on valuable financial wisdom to our kids.

Here's what you'll discover in this episode:

Breaking the Money Taboo

Learn why open conversations about finances are crucial for your children's future and how to start them today.

The Blessing Account Concept

Discover a simple yet powerful tool to teach generosity and reshape your family's perspective on wealth.

Leveraging Technology for Financial Education

Find out how AI can help you quickly learn and explain complex financial concepts to your children.

The Power of Emotional Detachment

Understand why separating emotions from money decisions is essential and how to cultivate this mindset in your kids.

Creating Meaningful Money Experiences

Hear real-life examples of how small financial decisions can lead to unforgettable family moments and valuable life lessons.

Whether you're a financial whiz or still figuring things out yourself, this conversation will give you practical tools to guide your children towards financial literacy and success.

Remember, you don't need to be a money expert to start these conversations. By inviting your kids into your financial journey, you're setting them up for a lifetime of smart money management.

Are you ready to reshape your family's financial future? Listen now and discover how to empower your children with the gift of financial wisdom.

Connect with Matt Morizio:

· https://reconstructingwealth.com

· https://www.facebook.com/matt.morizio

· https://www.instagram.com/mattmorizio

· https://www.linkedin.com/in/mattmorizio/

Time Stamps:

00:00:00 - The Dad Hat and Money Mindset

00:12:17 - Breaking Down Financial Concepts for Kids

00:24:34 - Creating a Culture of Generosity in Your Family

00:36:51 - Practical Tools for Teaching Kids About Money

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