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Becoming a dad for the first time is like stepping into a whirlwind of joy, terror, and a million questions. In this eye-opening episode, I dive deep into the unspoken truths about new fatherhood that every expectant dad needs to hear.

Drawing from real conversations with over 180 new dads, I uncover the six most common concerns that keep popping up in dad forums. But that's not all - I also reveal two critical insights that are rarely discussed but absolutely essential for your journey into fatherhood.

Your New Role as Protector and Advocate

Discover why you're about to become your wife's most important ally in a world where everyone has an opinion on your parenting choices. Learn how to navigate the overwhelming flood of advice and stand firm in the decisions you make as a couple.

Balancing Baby and Marriage

Uncover the secret to maintaining a strong relationship with your partner while adjusting to life with a newborn. I share personal insights on how I initially struggled with this balance and offer practical tips to help you avoid the same pitfalls.

Navigating Intimacy After Baby

Let's talk about the elephant in the room - changes in your physical relationship. Get honest advice on how to approach this sensitive topic with patience, understanding, and love.

Finding Your Place in This New Adventure

Feel like you don't know where you fit in this new family dynamic? I'll show you how your problem-solving skills are about to become your superpower in ways you never imagined.

Your Changing Social Circle

Understand why your friendships might shift and how to build a supportive community of fellow parents who truly get what you're going through.

Whether you've just found out you're going to be a dad or you're already in the trenches of early parenthood, this episode is packed with invaluable insights to help you navigate this incredible journey. Remember, no man is ever truly ready for fatherhood, but with the right knowledge and support, you can embrace this role with confidence and joy.

Are you ready to step up to the plate and become the dad your family needs? Listen now and equip yourself with the wisdom of dads who've been there before you.

Referenced Videos

Quality Over Quantity The New Math of Fatherhood

https://youtu.be/_QoI2W5CrNE

From Chaos to Control Strategies for Maximizing Every Hour

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5hlk4kI0b00

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E013 of the Dad Hat Shenanigans Podcast: The Unfiltered Truth of Being a Dad

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In this powerful episode, Brent sits down with Max Shippee, a multi-talented actor and author who brings a fresh and grounded perspective to fatherhood and masculinity. They open with a dad-story gem—Max’s unforgettable tea party moment—and dive into how the stories we tell shape who we are as dads, men, and human beings.

They discuss how to build intentional narratives in our families, why masculinity isn’t the problem (but insecure imitation is), and how simple presence often outweighs any parenting strategy. The conversation also explores the subtle art of being a teen dad, creative parenting metaphors, and the importance of knowing your child’s world.

Main Topics Covered:

· 🎭 Max’s journey: from Maine to LA to authorhood

· 🫖 Hilarious tea party story that every dad will relate to

· 📚 The power of stories: what we tell ourselves and our kids

· 🧠 Villain vs. Hero: a lens for self-development and parenting

· 🧔 Redefining masculinity: toxic, divine, and misunderstood

· 🧭 Teaching integrity, discipline, and humility

· 💡 The single most important thing dads need to know: Be there

Timestamps:

· 00:00:00 – Welcome + intro to Max Shippee

· 00:08:34 – Cussing toddlers & the power of modeling

· 00:14:12 – From Maine woods to Young & the Restless

· 00:25:30 – The power of “I need to dad right now” conversations

· 00:32:05 – Parenting metaphors that actually help

· 00:43:00 – Max’s book, fiction writing & positive masculinity

· 00:55:42 – Brent’s core 3 traits of real masculinity

· 01:04:10 – Final wisdom: You don’t have to be perfect. Just be present.

Connect with Max Shippee:

· 📖 Book: Path of the Raven www.readmoonshine.com

· 🌐 Social: @ReadMoonshine | @MakingMax

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Ever wondered if taking time for yourself is selfish when you're a dad? Think again! In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with Jason Lang, a father of two and men's coach, to explore why self-care isn't just important for dads - it's essential for the whole family.

Jason shares his personal journey of balancing fatherhood with self-care, and we dive deep into:

The Power of Quality Time

Discover why 15 minutes of focused attention can be more impactful than hours of distracted parenting. Learn how to create magical moments that strengthen your bond with your children.

Building a Support Network

Find out why connecting with other men isn't just about you - it's about creating a richer environment for your kids to grow up in. We explore the benefits of exposing your children to diverse male role models.

Investing in Your Health

Understand why taking care of your body isn't vanity - it's about being there for your family in the long run. Jason shares practical tips for fitting exercise into even the busiest dad schedule.

The Guilt-Free Zone

Learn how to shake off the guilt that often comes with prioritizing self-care. Discover why taking time for yourself actually makes you a better, more present father.

Whether you're a new dad or a seasoned parent, this conversation will challenge your perceptions of what it means to be a great father. You'll walk away with practical strategies to nurture yourself while nurturing your family.

Remember, being a great dad isn't about sacrificing everything - it's about showing up as the best version of yourself. Are you ready to revolutionize your approach to fatherhood? Listen now and discover how taking care of yourself is one of the most powerful ways to care for your family.

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E011 of the Dad Hat Shenanigans Podcast: The Unfiltered Truth of Being a Dad

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