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In this powerful and heartfelt episode of Soulful Self-Care Conversations, host Pearl Chiarenza welcomes Tony Lynch—men’s grief coach, founder of Memories of Us and Men’s Grief Support, host of the Grief: Let’s Talk About It podcast, editor-in-chief of Grief Talk Magazine, and organizer of the Global Grief Conference.
Tony shares his deeply personal story of losing his son, the cascade of losses that followed, and how grief brought him to the brink—but ultimately gave him a renewed sense of purpose. Today, he creates spaces for men around the world to grieve, heal, and grow through connection, conversation, and creativity.
This episode is raw, honest, and filled with hope. If you’ve experienced loss—or love someone who has—you’ll find wisdom, compassion, and encouragement here.
What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
✨ Little Tony’s Dream – From sketching cartoons for his sister to creating The Adventures of Grief Guy, Tony shares how creativity shaped his life and still fuels his work today.
✨ The Turning Point – How losing his son, father, brother, and mother within a short time brought Tony face-to-face with despair—and how grief itself became his teacher.
✨ Grief and Men – Why men often grieve differently, why anger is often a “secondary language,” and how Tony helps men find healthier ways to process loss.
✨ Building Community – The birth of Memories of Us, the men’s grief support network, the Global Grief Conference, and a growing online presence that reaches millions worldwide.
✨ Living With Purpose – How grief can strip us down, yet also rebuild us into people with deeper empathy, clearer vision, and renewed commitment to love and connection.
Powerful Quotes from Tony:
- “Grief was the thing that almost took my life—and the very thing that saved it.”
- “When men grieve, it’s like a foreign love language no one speaks.”
- “Anger is often the secondary language of grief—it’s how we mask our pain and maintain our masculinity.”
- “Memories of Us was born because men need a safe space to talk about loss, without judgment.”
- “Surround yourself with people who will speak life and love over you.”
Resources & Links Mentioned:
🌐 Men’s Grief Support: mensgriefsupport.org
🎙️ Podcast: Grief: Let’s Talk About It (YouTube & major platforms)
📖 The Adventures of Grief Guy (graphic novel series – coming soon)
📰 Grief Talk Magazine
🌍 Global Grief Conference – annual international grief awareness event
Pearl’s Reflection:
Grief changes us. It strips away the life we knew and forces us to navigate an entirely new reality. What Tony reminds us is that grief doesn’t mean the end of our story—it can be the beginning of a new chapter.
Through his work, Tony shows that grief, when honored and expressed, can become a force for connection, healing, and even purpose. Whether you’re walking through your own loss or supporting someone else, remember this: you don’t have to grieve alone, and you are never without hope.
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