Episodios

  • EPISODE 13 - Psychosis
    Aug 31 2023

    What if you weren't sure about the world around you? What if you can't trust anyone or anything?



    If you or someone you know is struggling with mental health, please reach out.

    • https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/mental-health-services/mental-health-get-help.html
    • https://cmha.ca/
    • https://cfmws.ca/support-services/health-wellness/mental-health/mental-health-programs-services
    • https://www.canada.ca/en/department-national-defence/services/benefits-military/health-support/mental-health/programs-and-services.html
    • https://www.wellnesstogether.ca/en-ca/
    • https://www.telus.com/en/health/employers/physical/wellbeing?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=thvc-wellbeing-brand-en&utm_term=telus%20wellbeing&SEM_CID=18662794691&SEM_AG=141086941165&SEM_KW=telus%20wellbeing&SEM_MT=p&gad=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjw9MCnBhCYARIsAB1WQVXPCggckC6hQsdCg2LVszXsuLBH-Po92yVDSD0R9l461HGYL2JLxIoaAoyhEALw_wcB
    • https://www.mhrc.ca/mh-resources
    • https://ymhc.ngo/resources/


    Psychosis refers to a collection of symptoms that affect the mind, where there has been some loss of contact with reality. During an episode of psychosis, a person's thoughts and perceptions are disrupted and they may have difficulty recognizing what is real and what is not. It is a mental health condition characterized by a loss of touch with reality, including delusions and hallucinations. People experiencing psychosis may have distorted perceptions or beliefs about the world and themselves, and may struggle to differentiate what is real from what is not. Psychosis can be a symptom of several different mental health illnesses, including schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, and severe depression. Treatment typically involves medication, therapy, and support to manage symptoms and improve functioning. Early intervention and treatment can increase the likelihood of recovery and reduce the risk of long-term complications (https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/understanding-psychosis#:~:text=Psychosis%20refers%20to%20a%20collection,real%20and%20what%20is%20not.)


    ⚫️ SHOW NOTES:

    · Email: coffeeandcrimewithamilitarywifepod@outlook.com (write your military and/ or true crime stories in, or just say hi)

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    · Better Help Therapists! (use code coffeandcrime for %10 off your first month!) (Link on LinkTree)

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    ⚫️ RESOURCES:

    · Find support at your Local MFRC: https://cfmws.ca/support-services


    ⚫️ SOURCES:

    https://www.creepypasta.com/psychosis/


    ⚫️ CREDIT FROM CREEPY PASTA:

    Matt Dymerski (Official Website • Amazon • Facebook • Twitter • Reddit)

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  • EPISODE 12 (Interview 9) with Amanda
    Aug 31 2023

    On this episode, I had the pleasure to talk to Amanda. She is originally from Alexandria. She and her husband are posted to Ottawa but her husband makes the hour commute every day there and back so her two children can grow up in their small town alongside their grandparents. They have been married for 9 years and are enjoying every minute of life!


    ⚫️ SHOW NOTES:

    · Email: coffeeandcrimewithamilitarywifepod@outlook.com (write your military and/ or true crime stories in, or just say hi)

    · Find my socials here! https://linktr.ee/coffee.crimewithamilitarywife?fbclid=IwAR3k26-ET-RWWbnF2Hg9mcFhKINEQi6PJ5YXsOp4jYqDZOYT0FDier067QM · Buy me a Taco and leave me a message! 🌮 https://www.buymeacoffee.com/coffeeandcw

    · Better Help Therapists! (use code coffeandcrime for %10 off your first month!) (Link on LinkTree)

    · Subscribe to the podcast for only $2.99 a month! - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coffee-crimewmilitarywife/subscribe


    ⚫️ RESOURCES:

    · Find support at your Local MFRC: https://cfmws.ca/support-services

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  • EPISODE 11 (Interview 8) with Kristina
    Aug 19 2023
    On this episode, I had the lovely opportunity to speak with Kristina. She is originally from Iowa, USA. Kristina is a mom of 4 children, has been a military spouse for almost 15 years, and admin of The CFB Esquimalt Military Group. We covered a variety of topics from the culture of toxic positivity, lack of support from the MFRC, the importance of trust and vulnerability, and support within the military community, the importance of local military spouse groups, the lack of Canadian armed forced member pride, the military and foster care, the Stockholm syndrome effect of the military. It was a great episode that was full of great conversations. Enjoy! If you and your family are being posted to CFB Esquimalt: - MFRC Esquimalt: https://esquimaltmfrc.com/mfrc-launches-virtual-counselling-sessions/ - Private Military Spouse-only Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/Esquimalt.Military.Spouses/ TELUS Health link : https://www.telus.com/en/health/my-care See a doctor, counsellor or dietitian from your phone, at your convenience. It’s part of our mission to improve Canadians’ access to healthcare. Maple Health: https://www.getmaple.ca/ Talk to a Canadian-licensed doctor after hours or any time online in minutes 24/7, or book an appointment with a specialist, no referral is needed. Member and Family Assistance Service (MFAS): https://www.canada.ca/en/department-national-defence/services/benefits-military/health-support/member-family-assistance-services.html?fbclid=IwAR1uAIArWUiq7_dUTy3ZGiGYG7kM28v6oFBQuQwga_HVvnJh11_C8YdrjVI The Member and Family Assistance services is a 24 hour, 7 days a week bilingual telephone and face to face counselling service that is voluntary, confidential, and available to Canadian Armed Forces (CAF) members and their families who have personal concerns that affect their well-being and/or work performance BMO (banking for military members and military spouses): https://www.bmo.com/main/personal/canadian-defence-community-banking/?fbclid=IwAR09-gJRpgi1jbIlU-skBtnySq-C0YzZR8FE5ggVSB60c6j_NFiy47qucks Task/ Picker Decision Wheel: https://pickerwheel.com/?fbclid=IwAR2bnkDCoCUigOOBjNvwnDPzTPQRZBT9-jAJk1QQIaGtVrl4h0RO8Aaq2TY Pick a task to help you concentrate
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    2 h y 42 m
  • EPISODE 10 (Interview 7) with Emma
    Jul 16 2023

    In this episode, Emma talks about how she didn't expect to be a military spouse but she would not have it any other way! From a young age, Emma and her partner knew what long distance was like between her completing her studies and her partner working. Doing distance made them appreciate each other more, build resilience, trust, and communication. Emma talks about her struggles during covid with a young baby and how she put herself on "survival mode". At the time, her and other mothers and parents had no choice but to put themselves on survival mode throughout covid. Emma also mentions the struggles that her 2 year old daughter goes through at school with her classmates and how her behaviour changes once her dad leaves or is coming back from a course or a tour. Children are sponges and notice things that we may not always notice ourselves. Emma mentions that because of the health system we live in and how it's so bombarded with lack of services and / or workers, it's often times very hard to seek the help that parents need. Therefore, often times they have be their own advocate for their children.


    Enjoy this episode! It was a good one


    ⚫️ SHOW NOTES:

    · Email: coffeeandcrimewithamilitarywifepod@outlook.com (write your military and/ or true crime stories in, or just say hi)

    · Find my socials here! https://linktr.ee/coffee.crimewithamilitarywife?fbclid=IwAR3k26-ET-RWWbnF2Hg9mcFhKINEQi6PJ5YXsOp4jYqDZOYT0FDier067QM · Buy me a Taco and leave me a message! 🌮 https://www.buymeacoffee.com/coffeeandcw

    · Better Help Therapists! (use code coffeandcrime for %10 off your first month!) (Link on LinkTree)

    · Subscribe to the podcast for only $2.99 a month! - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coffee-crimewmilitarywife/subscribe


    ⚫️ RESOURCES:

    · Find support at your Local MFRC: https://cfmws.ca/support-services

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    1 h y 7 m
  • EPISODE 9 (Interview 6) with Julie
    Jun 29 2023
    In this episode, Julie talks about her life as a busy mom with three kids under 5 years old, the importance of therapy when you are posted away from your hometown, and trying to settle into a new routine away from your family and friends. Julie mentions how she stays in touch with her close family while being posted in a different province. She also talks about her own small business called Milso Brave Box! Go check it out! (links below in show notes) SHOW NOTES: · Email: coffeeandcrimewithamilitarywifepod@outlook.com (write your military and/ or true crime stories in, or just say hi) · Find my socials here! https://linktr.ee/coffee.crimewithamilitarywife?fbclid=IwAR3k26-ET-RWWbnF2Hg9mcFhKINEQi6PJ5YXsOp4jYqDZOYT0FDier067QM · Buy me a Taco and leave me a message! 🌮 https://www.buymeacoffee.com/coffeeandcw · Better Help Therapists! (use code coffeandcrime for %10 off your first month!) (Link on LinkTree) · Subscribe to the podcast for only $2.99 a month! - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coffee-crimewmilitarywife/subscribe RESOURCES: · Website: https://milsobravebox.com/?fbclid=IwAR0zl6iTvdow29l2YoZP1Rtd4dwsRNsTQc8LjxNy3mPXn1QYbzC7WHzV--Q · Facebook link: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100089483094434 · Instagram: //www.instagram.com/milsobravebox/?fbclid=IwAR0XjNaT16De1JhRNif8kchWD43UScIjgYZ-JiTsS2CtqTdZ7v3hglBaDJU · Contact her through email here: milsobravebox@gmail.com
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  • EPISODE 07 - (Interview 5) with Emily and Riley
    May 28 2023

    On this episode, Riley and Emilie talk about what it’s like just starting out in the Canadian military service. Trying to find the right services or be directed in the right place is oftentimes a struggle for new military spouses (we’ve all been there while starting out) but where do we turn? Emily and Riley talk about their experience so far while being a newly-wed couple, and their transgender perspective; all while experiencing the Canadian military lifestyle


    SHOW NOTES:

    · Email: coffeeandcrimewithamilitarywifepod@outlook.com (write your military and/ or true crime stories in, or just say hi)

    · Find my socials here!

    https://linktr.ee/coffee.crimewithamilitarywife?fbclid=IwAR3k26-ET-RWWbnF2Hg9mcFhKINEQi6PJ5YXsOp4jYqDZOYT0FDier067QM

    · Buy me a Taco and leave me a message! 🌮 https://www.buymeacoffee.com/coffeeandcw

    · Better Help Therapists! (use code coffeandcrime for %10 off your first month!) (Link on LinkTree)

    · Subscribe to the podcast for only $2.99 a month!

    https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coffee-crimewmilitarywife/subscribe


    RESSOURCES:

    · BASIC MILITARY QUALIFICATION(BMQ) AND BASIC MILITARY OFFICER QUALIFICATION (BMOQ) JOINING INSTRUCTIONS (Updated Version January 2023) https://www.canada.ca/content/dam/dnd-mdn/documents/military-benefits/QMB_QMBO_e.pdf


    · RECRUITING JOINING INSTRUCTIONS: https://www.canada.ca/en/department-national-defence/services/benefits-military/education-training/establishments/canadian-forces-training-development-centre/basic-military-qualification-bmq-joining-instructions.html


    · FAQ FOR PARENTS OF NEW RECRUITS: https://cfmws.ca/support-services/families/parents-of-caf-members/faq-for-parents-of-new-recruits


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  • EPISODE 06 - (Interview 4) with Founder of Reset with Vanessa (Your Life Beyond Military. Nomadic Bestie. Relocation Assistance)
    May 7 2023

    On this episode, I had the pleasure talking to Vanessa, who has been a wife for 26 years and counting, mother of two, the founder and owner of her own business called Reset with Vanessa, and in her spare time, her and her husband travel the world in a van with the company of their two small dogs. Her business model is based on one’s life beyond the military, finding your nomadic bestie, and helping you through the relocation assistance process. She guides the Military Veteran community to create exit strategy Plans for smooth transition after retirement.


    She discusses five tips on importance of alone time in a healthy military marriage.


    SHOW NOTES:

    · Email: coffeeandcrimewithamilitarywifepod@outlook.com (write your military or true crime stories in, or just say hi1)

    · To get a hold of Vanessa:

    o Website: http://www.resetwithvanessa.com

    o LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/resetwith...

    o Book a Call: https://calendly.com/resetwithvanessa...

    · Find my socials here!

    https://linktr.ee/coffee.crimewithamilitarywife?fbclid=IwAR3k26-ET-RWWbnF2Hg9mcFhKINEQi6PJ5YXsOp4jYqDZOYT0FDier067QM

    · Buy me a Taco and leave me a message! 🌮 https://www.buymeacoffee.com/coffeeandcw

    · Better Help Therapists! (use code coffeandcrime for %10 off your first month!) (Link on LinkTree)

    · Subscribe to the podcast for only $2.99 a month!

    https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coffee-crimewmilitarywife/subscribe


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  • EPISODE 04 (Interview 2) - Conversation with Chantel (PART 2)
    Apr 2 2023

    On this episode, Chantel and I continue our conversation about finances, the MFRC – also known as the Military Family Resource Centre, relationships and how to communicate when your partner goes away on exercise or on tour, priorities within the relationship, personal and professional goals, privacy, and all things military lifestyle related. Enjoy!


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    ✉️ EMAIL: coffeeandcrimewithamilitarywifepod@outlook.com

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