In this episode Kate emphasizes the importance of understanding one's heart desires, the cost of following Christ, and the struggle between belief and fear. Kate introduces the concept of self-denial as a crucial step towards freedom and outlines three essential rules for denying oneself. The episode concludes with a powerful message about finding true life through surrender and the transformative power of healing and holiness.

Takeaways

The struggle is real for everyone.

Count the cost of following Jesus.

Denying self is essential for spiritual growth.

Know your purpose to advance God's kingdom.

Share your purpose with a trusted circle.

Believe in God's promises over others' opinions.

Healing leads to the ability to heal others.

Chapters

00:00 Welcome to the Journey of Healing

02:00 Exploring Heart Desires and Longings

06:00 Understanding the Cost of Following Christ

11:29 The Struggle of Belief and Fear

17:32 Denying Self: The First Step to Freedom

23:10 Three Rules for Denying Yourself

28:54 Finding Life Through Surrender

35:05 Choosing to Live Free

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In this episode Kate delves into the themes of love, forgiveness, and reconciliation. She shares personal experiences of navigating complex relationships, particularly female friendships, and the challenges of forgiveness. The discussion emphasizes the importance of understanding, healing, and the biblical perspective on forgiveness, encouraging listeners to seek God's guidance in their relationships. Kate highlights that while forgiveness is essential, it does not always lead to reconciliation, and maintaining peace is crucial for emotional wellbeing.

Takeaways

Forgiveness is a process that may take time.

Conflict often arises from misunderstandings and trauma.

Female friendships can be particularly complex and challenging.

Reconciliation requires trust and a willingness to forgive.

Forgiveness does not always mean reconciliation is possible.

Biblical teachings emphasize the importance of forgiveness.

Protecting peace can sometimes lead to emotional bondage.

God's guidance is essential in navigating relationships.

Forgiveness is about healing, not reopening old wounds.

Healed individuals have the power to heal others.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Love Forgives

01:18 Navigating Relationship Breakups

03:41 The Complexity of Female Friendships

06:06 Conflict and Misunderstandings in Relationships

09:07 Forgiveness and Reconciliation: A Personal Journey

12:00 The Challenge of Forgiveness

12:58 Understanding Forgiveness: A Biblical Perspective

17:34 The Role of God in Forgiveness

19:49 Preserving Peace vs. Protecting Peace

22:43 Biblical Truths on Forgiveness

28:34 The Power of Love in Forgiveness

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In this episode Kate explores the principles of godly love, emphasizing that true love is not merely a feeling but an action rooted in obedience to God. She discusses the various types of love, the attributes of love as described in scripture, and the importance of loving others, even those who may be difficult to love. The conversation highlights the necessity of renewing our understanding of love through a biblical lens and encourages listeners to embody love in their daily lives as a reflection of their faith in God.

Takeaways

Godly love is an action, not just a feeling.

Love is defined by obedience to God's commands.

1 Corinthians 13 outlines the attributes of love.

We can love even those who are difficult to love.

To know God is to love others unconditionally.

Love must produce life and positivity.

Our understanding of love must be renewed through scripture.

Love is the greatest commandment in Christianity.

Healed people are called to heal others through love.

Living free involves making godly decisions daily.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Godly Love

01:21 Understanding Different Types of Love

03:14 Defining Godly Divine Love

05:10 The Action of Love vs. Feelings

07:36 Obedience as an Expression of Love

10:07 The Challenge of Loving Others

12:23 Attributes of Love in 1 Corinthians 13

14:51 Knowing God Through Love

19:35 The Importance of Obedience in Love

21:58 Living Out Godly Love

23:52 Conclusion and Next Steps

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In this episode Kate discusses the complexities of navigating emotions, particularly anger, in a spiritual context. Through personal anecdotes and scriptural references, she emphasizes the importance of self-control, understanding the triggers of anger, and the necessity of asking questions rather than making assumptions. The conversation explores how to manage anger in a way that aligns with Christian teachings, encouraging listeners to adopt a mindset of forgiveness and emotional wellbeing.

Takeaways

The journey of transformation is a lifetime of progressive actions.

Navigating emotions with God can be complex.

Anger is a common emotion that can be managed with God's help.

Making assumptions about others can harm mental health.

Self-control is essential in managing anger.

Scripture provides guidance on how to handle anger.

Our mindset plays a crucial role in emotional responses.

We should focus on the attitude of our minds.

Practical strategies can help in managing anger effectively.

Choosing to live free means making godly decisions every day.

Chapters

00:00 The Journey of Transformation

01:56 A Personal Encounter with Anger

13:02 Understanding Anger and Its Impact

19:22 Strategies for Managing Anger

31:09 Practical Steps to Heal and Move Forward

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In this episode Kate explores the significance of keeping one's word, the power of saying yes and no, and the principles that guide a godly woman in her commitments. Through personal anecdotes and biblical teachings, Kate emphasizes the importance of consistency, humility, patience, gentleness, and integrity in relationships and spiritual growth. She also discusses the challenges of making oaths and the necessity of listening to the Holy Spirit in decision-making. The episode encourages listeners to embrace their authentic selves and live free in Christ.

Takeaways

Reflect on who you said yes to and followed through with.

Consistency is key to building trust in relationships.

Jesus teaches us to let our yes be yes and no be no.

Humility is essential for thoughtful responses.

Patience helps us endure pressure and make wise decisions.

Gentleness is a sign of wisdom and strength.

Integrity in our words reflects our character.

Listening well is crucial for effective communication.

Avoid using 'maybe' to reduce mental clutter.

Living free means making principled decisions.

Chapters

00:00 The Power of Yes and No

03:51 Insights from a Workshop on Self-Esteem

04:47 Understanding Women's Hearts

12:02 The Importance of Keeping Your Word

18:54 Navigating Oaths and Vows

27:13 Five Principles for Being a Woman of Your Word

42:03 Listening and Responding with Integrity

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In this episode, Kate explores the journey of speaking from a godly perspective, focusing on the nature, nurture, and newness of the person speaking. The conversation emphasizes the importance of heart transformation, the role of the Holy Spirit, and practical steps to communicate effectively as a godly individual. She encourages listeners to embrace their new identity in Christ and to live free by making godly decisions that promote healing and growth.

Takeaways

We must understand the attributes and responsibilities of the new person speaking.

Our words reflect our heart's condition.

Guarding our hearts is essential for healthy communication.

Transformation comes from a willingness to present our hearts to God.

Being aware of our emotions helps us respond better.

We are called to be salt and light in the world.

Prayer and assurance in God are crucial for spiritual growth.

Living in newness requires action and commitment.

We must listen to God's guidance in our lives.

Healed individuals have the power to heal others.

Chapters

00:00 The Journey of Speaking: Nature, Nurture, and Newness

01:30 Understanding the Newness of the Person Speaking

03:26 The Art of Speaking: Molding and Emotions

06:34 Guarding the Heart: The Source of Our Speech

10:15 The Heart's Condition: Seeking God's Insight

13:32 The Ministry of Reconciliation: Our New Identity in Christ

18:33 Posture of Awareness: Being Alert and Assured

22:39 The Power of Prayer: Staying Connected to God

25:09 Walking in Newness: The Aroma of Godly Speech

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In this episode, Kate explores the significance of speech in the Christian journey, emphasizing the personal nature of communication and its impact on others. The discussion transitions into the nurturing aspect of a believer's journey, focusing on the role of the Holy Spirit in personal growth and sanctification. Kate encourages listeners to develop a friendship with the Holy Spirit, live in deference to His guidance, and run their spiritual race with patience and endurance. The episode concludes with a reminder of the importance of nurturing one's speech to reflect Christ's character and the call to live free in faith.

Takeaways

The journey of speech is personal and impactful.

Legacy is defined by wisdom and character, not material wealth.

Nurturing is essential for spiritual growth and sanctification.

Developing a friendship with the Holy Spirit is crucial.

Living in deference to the Holy Spirit leads to a fruitful life.

Repentance is key to producing good fruit in our lives.

We must acknowledge our defaults and distractions to grow spiritually.

Being poor in spirit is essential for inheriting the kingdom of God.

Our nurturing journey requires effort and commitment.

Healed people have the power to heal others.

Chapters

00:00 The Personal Journey of Speech and Impact

09:02 Nurturing the Believer's Journey

16:48 Developing a Friendship with the Holy Spirit

24:08 Running Your Race with Patient Endurance

31:14 The Nurturing of the Person Speaking

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In this episode, Kate explores the significance of being 'salt and light' through our speech as godly individuals. She discusses the process of communication, the nature of the speaker, and the impact of words on others. The conversation delves into the visible and invisible weapons we use in our speech, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and obedience to God. Kate encourages listeners to reflect on their speech patterns and to practice godly communication that aligns with their faith.

Takeaways

We are called to be salt and light in our speech.

Understanding the process of speaking can enhance our communication.

Words can carry weight and impact others significantly.

The nature of the speaker influences the message conveyed.

Visible and invisible weapons affect how we communicate.

Practicing cleanliness in our speech is essential for godly living.

Obedience to God's word is crucial for effective communication.

Self-awareness is key to improving our speech.

We must reflect on our nature and its influence on our words.

Choosing to live free involves making intentional decisions about our speech.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Salt and Light in Speech

03:16 The Process of Speaking and Its Impact

12:57 Understanding the Nature of the Speaker

24:57 Visible and Invisible Weapons in Speech

39:03 Practicing Godly Speech and Obedience

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