Episodios

  • Finding a Therapist: The Stuff Nobody Tells You
    Dec 30 2025
    In this episode of Chin Hairs and F-Bombs, SallyAnn sits down with her friend Felicity, a mental health therapist, for an honest conversation about finding the right therapist. They talk about the hesitation so many of us feel when reaching out for help, the importance of feeling understood and safe, and the practical stuff nobody tells you: navigating insurance, what to say in your first conversation, and even how to break up with a therapist if it's not the right fit. Felicity shares insider tips for therapy newcomers while both women open up about their own experiences on both sides of the therapy couch. Whether you're therapy-curious or looking for a better match, this conversation offers relatable, no-BS guidance.

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    1 h y 5 m
  • Storytime with your Gal Pal Sal: Instruction Manual
    Oct 18 2025

    In this special bonus episode, your Gal Pal Sal shares a sweet Saturday morning story about her 12-year-old son Teddy and his mission to create the perfect lemonade recipe.


    From flashbacks of stressful baking sessions to her own childhood learning to cook with Betty Crocker, Sal reflects on how we learn—and how hard it is to watch someone you love make mistakes on purpose. But as Teddy experiments, adjusts, and finally nails his recipe, Sal discovers something beautiful about stepping back and letting the process unfold.

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    6 m
  • Finding Light in the Dark: What Actually Helps When Life Gets Hard
    Oct 16 2025

    In this episode of Chin Hairs and F-Bombs, SallyAnn and her guest, Chelsea Ray get real about finding light in the darkest moments. Chelsea opens up about navigating an unexpected divorce and reclaiming her power, while SallyAnn shares her ongoing battles with anxiety, depression, and loss. Together, they explore what actually helps when life gets hard—the healing power of music and dance, wellness rituals, solo retreats in nature, and the life-saving power of genuine human connection. This episode includes Story Time with your Gal Pal Sal and wraps up with Joy Shares, celebrating the ordinary delights that keep us grounded. An honest conversation about resilience, support systems, and finding comfort in the mess.


    00:00 Welcome to Chin Hairs and F-Bombs

    01:29 Meet Chelsea: Fashion and Friendship

    03:00 The Power of Dopamine Dressing

    05:13 Finding Light in the Dark

    07:58 Chelsea's Heartbreaking Year

    13:47 The Importance of Sharing and Support

    23:04 Healing Rituals and Practices

    27:50 The Joy of Walking

    28:55 Solo Retreats: Disconnect to Reconnect

    32:03 Self-Discovery Through Hardship

    36:08 Finding Light in the Dark

    39:33 Story Time with Your Gab Pal Sal

    47:00 Joy Shares: Celebrating the Little Things

    52:47 Closing Thoughts and Gratitude


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    54 m
  • Exhausted and Exploding: Burnout in Real Life
    Apr 16 2025

    In this episode of Chin Hairs and F-Bombs, SallyAnn Gray invites her husband, Benjamin, for a raw and honest conversation about burnout. They open up about how it impacted their marriage, their work, and their sense of self - and how they each found their way back. Sally and Benjamin unpack the different ways burnout shows up for men and women, the weight of societal expectations, and the strategies that actually helped them heal. Along the way, they share practical advice, real-life stories, and one surprising truth: sometimes you’ve gotta get outside and play in the dirt.


    00:00 – Welcome to Chin Hairs and F-Bombs

    00:40 – Meet the guest: Benjamin

    01:06 – Burnout: Let’s talk about it

    01:49 – Who we are, what we’re about

    04:35 – So what IS burnout, really?

    06:34 – How burnout messes with your head and heart

    13:02 – Men, women, and burnout: Different rules, same pressure

    19:29 – What burnout did to our relationship

    24:48 – Finding our way back

    26:33 – Yard work is therapy now? Sure is.

    28:01 – Getting out of our heads and into our bodies

    29:21 – Our burnout stories (the messy kind)

    32:17 – Learning to live within our limits

    43:37 – “Ohhh… THAT was burnout”: Early signs

    47:55 – Generational Perspectives on Mental Health

    49:28 – JOY SHARE! What’s lighting us up right now

    53:21 – Final thoughts

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    55 m
  • Part 2: Late to the Party: Discovering ADHD Later in Life
    Mar 13 2025

    In Part 2 of this two-part Chin Hairs and F-Bombs series, SallyAnn and Lynne continue exploring their ADHD journeys, focusing on life after receiving their diagnoses. They discuss the practical tools and strategies that have significantly improved their daily lives, such as body doubling, visual reminders, and digital organization tools. They share their personal experiences with ADHD medication, highlighting both the challenges and benefits. SallyAnn and Lynne also celebrate the often-overlooked positive aspects of having ADHD! Filled with relatable stories, practical advice, and encouragement, this episode offers helpful insights for anyone managing ADHD or supporting loved ones who are.


    00:00 Introduction and Recap

    00:42 Effective Support Strategies

    02:27 The Power of Body Doubling

    06:05 Visual Reminders and Habit Stacking

    11:39 Medication Experiences

    18:44 Reflecting on ADHD Diagnosis

    20:12 Realizing ADHD in High Achievers

    20:49 The Power of Self-Diagnosis

    22:04 The Impact of Medication

    23:10 Embracing the Creative Brain

    26:06 Journaling and Tracking Progress

    31:17 Sharing Joys and Self-Care

    34:57 Concluding Thoughts on ADHD



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    37 m
  • Part 1: Late to the Party: Discovering ADHD Later in Life
    Feb 26 2025
    In this episode of Chin Hairs and F-Bombs, SallyAnn and her friend Lynne open up about their journeys with ADHD, focusing on the challenges of being diagnosed as adults. In Part 1 of this two-part series, they dive into their experiences with ADHD symptoms, including difficulty focusing, time blindness, and sensory overload. They share the struggles they faced before receiving an official diagnosis and the immense relief and clarity that came afterward. SallyAnn and Lynne also discuss the importance of self-diagnosis, practical coping strategies, and the need for self-compassion when managing ADHD as adults. Tune in for an honest and relatable conversation about navigating life with ADHD.

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    44 m
  • The Art of Making Friends: An Adult’s Guide to New Connections
    Feb 10 2025

    In this episode of Chin Hairs and F-bombs: Conversations with Girlfriends, host SallyAnn reconnects with longtime friend Deb to talk about the challenges of building friendships as an adult. SallyAnn, who left Kansas City for Maine, and Deb, a retired nurse now based in Colorado, share their personal experiences and tips for finding community in unfamiliar territory. They highlight the importance of spontaneity, discuss what it takes to form meaningful bonds and celebrate the joys of lifelong companionship.


    00:00 Introductions

    01:05 Childhood Memories and Long-Lasting Friendship

    03:01 Challenges of Making Friends as Adults

    04:05 Deb's Retirement and New Beginnings

    09:34 Sally's Move to Maine and Isolation

    13:01 Finding Community and Making Connections

    18:32 Balancing Social Life and Personal Time

    22:37 Advice on Making New Friends

    24:00 The Importance of Being Open to Opportunities

    26:37 Maintaining Long-Distance Friendships

    29:24 The Pain of Losing Friendships

    33:17 Cherishing Deep Platonic Friendships

    35:30 A Heartwarming Story

    38:10 Reflections on Retirement and Friendships

    39:16 Joy Share and Closing Remarks

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    45 m
  • Seen and Unseen: Navigating Middle Age as a Woman
    Jan 15 2025

    In this episode of Chin Hairs and F-bombs, guests Barbara Evans and Monique Garrett join host SallyAnn Gray to uncover the realities of life as a middle-aged woman, tackling the often-overlooked "Invisible Woman Syndrome." Together, they share candid stories about aging, the shifting dynamics of professional life, and how societal perceptions evolve as women navigate perimenopause, menopause, and beyond. The conversation is a heartfelt exploration of self-perception, resilience, and the freedom that comes with letting go of societal expectations. Plus, don't miss their "Joy Share" segment, where these friends celebrate the simple things that bring them happiness, reminding us of the power of connection and community.


    00:00 Introduction and Welcome

    01:44 Meet the Guests: Monique and Barbara

    04:18 Virtual Coffee Connections

    07:11 Invisible Woman Syndrome

    10:16 Personal Experiences of Invisibility

    19:49 Benefits of Invisibility

    26:07 Navigating Professional Challenges for Women

    28:48 The Struggles of Middle-Aged Job Seekers

    30:55 Embracing Personal Style and Liberation

    35:12 The Journey to Going Gray

    39:22 Understanding Menopause and Aging

    44:23 Final Thoughts and Joy Share

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    51 m
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