• E20 | 7. Asperger's Narcissistic Traits Will Not Destroy A Wife If She Does Not Become Like Him
    Feb 23 2026

    In this episode, Libby and her husband, Steve, share concluding thoughts, bringing the 7-part series to a close on how a wife’s virtue can defeat narcissistic traits that present in Asperger’s. Guided by C.S. Lewis's inspirational thoughts, this 7-part series has revealed a way out of the entanglement of a narcissistic dynamic. The closing line in Lewis’s article is the following; Only a woman who refuses to lose herself can truly dismantle the illusions of a narcissist. Included below is a link to the full article.

    The article by C.S. Lewis that inspired the series.

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    27 m
  • E19 | 6. When A Wife In A Neurodiverse Marriage Is Not Believed—How Truth Reveals Itself
    Feb 16 2026

    In the sixth of the seven-part series on When Virtue Confronts Narcissism in a Neurodiverse Marriage (by C.S. Lewis), hear how God caused truth to bubble up for Libby in a season when she had no one to tell what her reality was like, and church leadership had no understanding of neurodiversity. Stick around for the activation at the end and be encouraged that you are known, seen, and heard.

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    22 m
  • E18 | 5. God Defends a Wife In a Neurodiverse Marriage — And Acts In Her Silence
    Feb 9 2026

    How does a wife in a neurodiverse marriage disconnect the unhealthy attachment that exists and allow God to defend her? How can she experience tangible emotional safety and relief? In today’s episode, Libby and her husband, Steve, continue their story, and you will hear how a beautiful transition unfolded for Libby, who once felt like a crumpled woman in the corner. Stick around for the activation and experience this for yourself. You don’t have to live in despair. Hope is on the way.

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    25 m
  • E17 | 4. In A Neurodiverse Marriage, Departing the False System Becomes The Grand Wake Up
    Feb 2 2026

    Would you describe your neurodiverse marriage as a false system? When others look in from the outside, does it look mostly OK, and no one has any idea of its true reality? How do you depart from a false system? What does it take to wake up a mindblind husband so he can choose to fight for his marriage? In today’s episode, Libby shares her story, revealing that ultimately strength and virtue win, allowing God’s light to pierce through the mindblindness, which reveals the truth to your husband. Hear the encouraging outcome that made Steve fight for his marriage. Hope is on the way!

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    23 m
  • E16 | 3. A Wife In Neurodiversity Can Become a Mirror He Can’t Escape: Telling My Husband He Had Asperger’s
    Jan 26 2026

    In neurodiversity, the traits of ASD that mimic narcissism can feel like hopelessness to an exhausted and discouraged wife who is trying to get through to him. What does it take to hold up a mirror to a husband in such a way that he can process the reflection of who he is and how he shows up? How can a wife withstand the storm of initial resistance? Libby and her husband, Steve, share their story of how Libby told Steve he had Asperger’s and offer hope-filled tips on withstanding the storm. Be encouraged!

    Books mentioned in today’s show;

    A Very Late Diagnosis Of Asperger’s Syndrome

    Alone, Together

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    25 m
  • E15 | 2. When A Wife In Neurodiversity Refuses to Play His Game
    Jan 19 2026

    This episode continues our 7-part series on When Virtue Confronts Narcissism in a Neurodiverse Marriage. Libby will share a story of how she learned to disengage from the game that evolves out of the narcissistic-swirl within Asperger traits. Her husband Steve’s insight adds valuable understanding of how those with Asperger’s resist any change to rigid patterns, but also how important it is to break through that resistance. Libby and Steve’s breakthrough can be yours!

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    21 m
  • E14 | 1. A Wife’s Virtue Exposes The Darkness Within Narcissistic Asperger Traits
    Jan 12 2026

    Libby’s husband, Steve, joins Libby today as they begin a powerful 7-part series of When Virtue Confronts Narcissism in a Neurodiverse Marriage. Libby shares a story from back in the day, when she learned to stop covering the non-reality in their marriage in public, and Steve shares how that impacted him. Learn how becoming whole begins to expose falseness, honesty reveals distortion, and becoming a living contrast reveals truth, all through calm virtue.

    Journal prompts from this episode’s activation;

    • In what ways am I not living as a princess-daughter?
    • How can I walk virtuously in truth, going forward?
    • What is one next step can I take?

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    25 m
  • E13 | Introduction: When Virtue Confronts Narcissism in a Neurodiverse Marriage
    Jan 5 2026

    In this episide, Libby introduces a 7-part series on how a wife in a neurodiverse marriage can confront the effect of Asperger’s that mimics narcissism—by walking in virtue. Libby decodes what the essence of virtue is, and how any Christian wife can access this key. For the following 7 episodes, Libby’s husband Steve will join the conversation, for a powerful understanding of how to dismantle the false empire of narcissism.

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    19 m