Episodios

  • Ep 150: Lessons From Children
    Dec 2 2025
    Children are powerful teachers for us on our journey of self-realization. They can be catalysts of unconditional love, the worst fear imaginable, frustration to the extent of questioning our sanity, and brilliant inspiration all in one day! Through our experience with children, we are reminded of dualities, such as order and chaos or security and insecurity. We also experience the dynamic relationship between freedom and responsibility. Arguably, the most important reasons for our experiences with children are for deeper self-love and self-acceptance. But this only comes with much continuous internal reflection. Natural curiosity to keep probing Curiosity coming from inspiration or fear Preparing for uncertainty is almost ridiculous Fearlessness to explore and be fully in the moment Ability to bounce back When kids lie Openness with emotions and physical needs ------------------------- CONNECT WITH JEFF: Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/ IG: @jeffmillercoaching FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965 Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching CONNECT WITH TATSU: Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/ IG: @tatsuyafushimi FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
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  • Ep 149: You Reap What You Sow
    Nov 25 2025
    The concept of sowing and reaping is employed as both a fear tactic and a motivational tool. While both are valid in their uses, we tend to overemphasize the reaping portion of the concept. Since we want some result or outcome, we will sow. However, what is most important is how we consistently show up when we sow, regardless of the result. This exposes our true purpose for sowing and whether our act of sowing is authentic. EPISODE SUMMARY Most of us were raised with a fear-driven model People’s shared experience of you will show up in the long run Faux sowing Unattachment to when you reap You can’t engineer relationships We can only control the sowing ------------------------- CONNECT WITH JEFF: Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/ IG: @jeffmillercoaching FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965 Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching CONNECT WITH TATSU: Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/ IG: @tatsuyafushimi FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
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    31 m
  • Ep 148: The Journey
    Nov 18 2025
    Goal setting, planning, vision boarding, and other results-oriented methods often fail to emphasize the internal transformation that occurs in each of us on the journey to the finish line. Instead, we are led to believe that the material results will bring us the joy, fulfillment, peace of mind, love, and other intangibles that we actually want. The intangibles of internal transformation are far less enticing and glamorous than the images of material wealth, a slim waistline, or a new romantic partner. The futility of chasing external material goals becomes obvious to us when our spiritual awakening begins. Then, we naturally bring deep purpose and meaning to every goal we set thereafter, while appreciating every daily win and setback as a wise blessing. But until then, the spiritually disconnected pursuit of results is laden with suffering and victimhood. EPISODE SUMMARY The tipping point The movie analogy The result is the most insignificant part Misleading images to feel good What they didn’t tell you Transformation is grueling work What are you willing to die for? Change and transformation are ongoing ------------------------- CONNECT WITH JEFF: Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/ IG: @jeffmillercoaching FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965 Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching CONNECT WITH TATSU: Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/ IG: @tatsuyafushimi FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
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  • Ep 147: O.F.G. November
    Nov 11 2025
    O.F.G. means opportunities for growth. Every situation we experience presents a seemingly infinite number of growth opportunities towards becoming the highest version of ourselves. However, it is up to us to train our minds to identify the opportunities and to integrate our hearts in the process. In this series of episodes, Jeff and Tatsu share their thought processes when triggered by people and events in their lives. EPISODE SUMMARY Attachment to my Japanese identity Feeling blamed for something I’m not Triggered by son’s emotional reaction My needs not being met ------------------------- CONNECT WITH JEFF: Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/ IG: @jeffmillercoaching FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965 Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching CONNECT WITH TATSU: Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/ IG: @tatsuyafushimi FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
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  • Ep 146: Flow With Grace
    Nov 4 2025
    What’s your relationship with grace? Do you embody it or do you use it tactically? Grace provides flexibility within the rigid structure of personal standards, like oil to a squeaky gear. Grace is beautiful, powerful, and necessary when expressed in its purity. It is also something that requires a great deal of self-awareness, intention, and practice. EPISODE SUMMARY The battle of grace and judgment Giving grace in traffic Grace with being ghosted or multiple rescheduling Judgment of self being harsher than that of others Expectation of reciprocation of grace? Giving grace to others to deepen grace within ourselves Grace isn’t in opposition to having conversations or giving reflections Grace and standards ------------------------- CONNECT WITH JEFF: Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/ IG: @jeffmillercoaching FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965 Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching CONNECT WITH TATSU: Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/ IG: @tatsuyafushimi FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
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  • Ep 145: Sorry, Not Sorry
    Oct 28 2025
    What’s your relationship to apologizing? Is it an empowered relationship from the heart or a disempowered one from the ego? Apologizing tends to imply admitting wrongdoing, which is typically disempowering. In a society that punishes mistakes, our incentive is to avoid apologizing. As a result, less ownership, responsibility, and transparency. Furthermore, we all have personal traumas and disempowering beliefs and behaviors that impact our relationship to being apologetic and unapologetic. But how would our lives be different if we created an empowered heart-centered relationship to apologies? EPISODE SUMMARY Cultural apologizing when you’re not “wrong” to keep harmony Learning that apologies meant nothing Unapologetic puppetry Pride and ego getting in our way “I’m sorry,” admitting wrong? Apologizing from empowered ownership Feedback is crucial for our growth Openness to change ------------------------- CONNECT WITH JEFF: Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/ IG: @jeffmillercoaching FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965 Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching CONNECT WITH TATSU: Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/ IG: @tatsuyafushimi FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
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  • Ep 144: Adventure Is Everywhere
    Oct 21 2025
    What’s your relationship to adventure? How do you describe adventure? Adventure is a mindset, not just an act. An adventurous mindset keeps us open to seeing ourselves and the world in a new way. As a result, we have more opportunities to grow than we otherwise wouldn’t. Even in the mundane routines of daily life, how would our experience of life shift if we practiced a more adventurous mindset? It would be transformative. The adventurous mindset Adventure as access to getting out of your comfort zone Tapping into the emotional side as an adventure Mindset of adventure with money Mindset of adventure with time Noticing what we’re comfortable and uncomfortable with ------------------------- CONNECT WITH JEFF: Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/ IG: @jeffmillercoaching FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965 Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching CONNECT WITH TATSU: Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/ IG: @tatsuyafushimi FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
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  • Ep 143: O.F.G. October
    Oct 14 2025
    O.F.G. means opportunities for growth. Every situation we experience presents a seemingly infinite number of growth opportunities towards becoming the highest version of ourselves. However, it is up to us to train our minds to identify the opportunities and to integrate our hearts in the process. In this series of episodes, Jeff and Tatsu illustrate their thought processes when triggered by people and events in their lives. Triggered by mosquitoes Disempowered by disrespect and being unheard Being able to see the patterns Triggered by my son Taking up space and being loud and annoying Parents have their favorite child Acting annoying vs the narrative of being inherently annoying ------------------------- CONNECT WITH JEFF: Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/ IG: @jeffmillercoaching FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965 Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching CONNECT WITH TATSU: Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/ IG: @tatsuyafushimi FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
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    34 m