Episodios

  • A Difference in Sex Drive with Court Vox-62
    Sep 10 2025

    This week on Butt Honestly, we’re raising the bar (and maybe your blood pressure) with a guest who knows more about sex, intimacy, and connection than your last three hookups combined. Joining Dr. Carlton and Dangilo is none other than Court Vox—certified sex and intimacy coach, surrogate partner, and somatic wellness educator.

    Court has helped individuals and couples explore their sexuality, overcome sexual shame, and actually communicate (wild, right?). From building body confidence to navigating kinks, Court’s work is about creating healthier, more fulfilling relationships—whether that means deep emotional intimacy or simply making your next “Netflix and chill” session a little less… awkward.

    The guys dive in with the big questions:

    What exactly is the “male loneliness epidemic,” and why should you care?

    How do couples with very different kinks and sex drives actually make it work without one person faking a migraine every night? And what does true sexual connection look like when you take the shame and fear out of the equation?

    Of course, they wrap things up with their signature Love Language of the Week—because even when it gets deep, this show always ends with a little sweetness to balance out the spice.

    Court VOX: https://thebodyvox.com/

    Vote for Dangilo:https://gunoil.netlify.app/https://www.instagram.com/courtvox/




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    1 h y 10 m
  • The Gay Ex-con Interview-61
    Sep 3 2025

    On a recent episode of Butt Honestly, Dr. Carlton casually mentioned a message he got on the apps—from a guy fresh out of prison looking for a hookup. What started as a spicy little anecdote quickly spiraled into one of our most talked-about Open Chat segments, with the Booty Gang flooding us with reactions, questions, and a healthy dose of curiosity.

    So this week, we’re taking it deeper (don’t we always?). Instead of our usual butt dials and booty calls, we sat down with someone who has lived that reality. Meet “Dayton”—not his real name, because Grindr isn’t the only place anonymity is sexy. Dayton has spent time in county jail, later served time in prison after violating probation, and now, post-release, he’s rebuilding his life and sharing his story.

    While his experiences may not be typical, they are raw, real, and unapologetically his. The Booty Gang sent in some candid questions (you never disappoint), and Dayton opens up with honesty, humor, and a perspective most of us only know from Netflix docuseries.

    This episode might not come with the usual Butt Dials and Ready Set Confuse—but trust us, it’s still one hell of a ride. Sometimes the most important conversations happen when you least expect them.

    👉 So loosen your cuffs (the fun kind or the jail kind, we don’t judge) and join us for this eye-opening conversation with Dayton.



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    57 m
  • But Munch-60
    Aug 27 2025

    Welcome back to another unapologetically cheeky episode of BUTT HONESTLY. This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo are serving up equal parts education, chaos, and fart jokes (literally).

    First up, the Booty Gang delivers a grab bag of butt dials: one member wants answers about HPV (because Google isn’t always the best doctor), another self-identified BUTT MUNCH is worried about the risks of snacking where the sun don’t shine, and yet another listener is just looking to chill out after their nightly “release.” And if that weren’t enough, we’ve got a 60-something hero who’s ready to swing the back door open for some long-overdue visitors. Bless.

    Meanwhile, Dr. Carlton dishes about his night out at Back Hair Night, where the farts were plentiful and the men were hairy. The guys also recap FilmOut SD—from The Orchestra and Plainclothes—because culture is just as important as kink.

    And of course, it wouldn’t be Butt Honestly without a steamy, hilarious, and slightly unhinged wrap-up with their Love Language of the Week.

    👉 Tune in, loosen up, and remember: whether you’re munching, releasing, or revisiting, your butt is always welcome here.



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    1 h y 9 m
  • The Prostate Files: Pokes, Pigs & Prison DMs-59
    Aug 20 2025

    Welcome back to BUTT HONESTLY, the podcast that isn’t afraid to poke around where the sun doesn’t shine. This week, we’re zeroing in on the almighty prostate—and let’s just say, things get… stimulating.

    First up, a Booty Gang member writes in with questions about sex after prostate cancer, while another swears his prostate might be broken (spoiler: it’s not Amazon Prime, it doesn’t come with a warranty). And if that weren’t enough, a certain pig on the prowl checks in to let us know his prostate just got absolutely wrecked—but in the best possible way.

    Meanwhile, Dr. Carlton slides into the weird and wonderful world of his prison DMs (apparently, orange really is the new black), while Dangilo shares a bloody IV situation that’ll make you clutch your pearls… or at least your veins.

    Oh, and mark your calendars: Slutter Camp is happening August 30. If you’re not ready, now’s the time to stretch, hydrate, and maybe invest in a jockstrap or two.

    As always, the guys wrap it all up with their “Love Language of the Week” — because after all the prostate poking, prison proposals, and IV drama, you’ll need a soft landing.



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    55 m
  • Chat GPT Gave Me the Runs (Dirty D*cks in Amsterdam)- 58
    Aug 13 2025

    Welcome back to Butt Honestly, the only podcast where your butt dial might just end up on air. This week, someone reached out with a tragic tale: ChatGPT gave them…the runs. (Artificial intelligence, natural consequences.)

    Our Butt Dials segment is bursting with goodies: an email from a nurse gives the 411 on a new PrEP medication, a listener having a hard time at a nude beach (emphasis on hard), and — because the universe loves us — a full-on booty call from an actual pig on the prowl.

    Meanwhile, Dr. Carlton returns from his trip over the pound — that’s right, from West End musicals to steamy bathhouses, he’s been hitting all the cultural landmarks.

    The guys dish on the Hollywood Bowl, give their review of Jesus Christ Superstar (spoiler: the Lord works in mysterious, jazz-handed ways), and wrap things up with their “Love Language of the Week” — because after all that, we all need a gentle cuddle.

    Warning: Listening may result in spontaneous laughter, inappropriate beach thoughts, and the uncontrollable urge to slather yourself in Gun Oil while singing show tunes.



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    58 m
  • My Balloon Knot Is Supple-57
    Aug 6 2025

    This week on Butt Honestly, Dr. Carlton is packing more than just his suitcase as he gears up for a cheeky trip to London — and that's just his first stop! Meanwhile, Dangilo tries to keep things grounded.

    The boys dive into the deep end with a conversation about pronouns and why language matters, before answering a question about fissures — from someone who doesn’t even listen to the show (rude, but okay). They take a bit go a serious turn as they unpack the emotional toll lose and overdose.

    Then, just when you think your cheeks have dried — we’re back to steamy territory. This week’s Hit It or Quit It gets wild with tales of bathroom BJs (public plumbing, anyone?), sketchy Aussie sexcapades, chastity cages (yes, we’re locked in), sensual massage parties, and a little something special from Black’s Beach. Sun, sand, and... submission?

    They wrap things up, as always, with their “Love Language of the Week” — a soft landing after a very hard ride.

    So plug in, lube up, and loosen your grip on reality — Episode 57 is serving sex, substance, and just the right amount of sass. 🎙️🍑



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    1 h y 5 m
  • It Smells like Mud- 56
    Jul 30 2025

    Hello Booty Gang! Buckle those harnesses and hydrate—because this week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo are back from their San Diego Pride escapades! Both of our favorite butt men marched their way through the Pride parade and into more than a few steamy situations after dark. From wild nightlife stories to daytime parade dazzle, you’ll get the full rainbow-colored rundown—naked bits and all.

    Dr. Carlton trades in his jockstrap for some theater critique and dishes on Noises Off at the Old Globe (yes, she’s cultured and kinked)

    This week’s listener Q&A about switching between Truvada and Descovy. Is it safe? Does it provide the same level of protection? We have your answer.

    PLUS: The latest update in the ever-evolving Trampaige saga!

    And as always, we wrap it up with our Love Language of the Week

    Whether you're listening from a sling, your car, or while pretending to do work at your desk—this one’s a ride you don’t want to miss.



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    1 h y 2 m
  • Cruising with Leo Herrera - 55
    Jul 23 2025

    Welcome back, Booty Gang, to another eye-opening episode of BUTT HONESTLY

    This week, the boys are lubed up and locked in with a butt dial from a listener who signs off as Confused in Connecticut—he’s in his first monogamous relationship and wondering if he's doing it right... or if he is the red flag. Dr. Carlton and Dangilo give their unfiltered thoughts, therapy-adjacent advice, and probably make it worse (in the best way).

    The guys welcome a very special guest: Leo Herrera—filmmaker, activist, queer historian, and author of POST and (analong) Cruising. Get ready for a raw, sexy, and deeply intellectual kiki about preserving queer culture, pleasure activism, and why the ghosts of our queer ancestors are probably rolling their eyes at your text game.

    Of course, it wouldn’t be Butt Honestly without a new crop of Hit It and Quit It questions that'll leave you clutching your pearls and your prep. Topics this week include everything from topping fatigue to anal ambition and one listener who just wants to know if his dick has too much charisma.

    The boys wrap it all up with their Love Language of the Week—because nothing says romance like overanalyzing your emotional availability between butt stuff convos. 💞

    So sit back and press play—because this episode is giving you education, entertainment, and a little bit of existential thirst. 🧠🍆💦


    https://www.amazon.com/Analog-Cruising-Manual-Leo-Herrera/dp/B0DJGPQYLC



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    1 h y 11 m