This week on Butt Honestly, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo roll out the red (and probably leather) carpet for a real-life superhero—San Diego’s own Paulo Batista He’s a former leather titleholder, an activist, a board member of Sparta Pride and Trans Family Support Services, a sometimes runway model (hello, fierce!), and now an active-duty transgender service member. Basically, if Paulo had any more titles, we’d need a longer episode description.

The guys get into it—really into it—chatting with Paulo about what it means to serve authentically in today’s military and the very real threat of a renewed trans military ban. But this isn’t just politics and policy—it’s personal, passionate, and powerful AF.

They also talk about:

• Pablo’s work with Sparta Pride and how the org supports trans folks in the armed forces
• How he keeps his mental health strong when the world feels a little too on fire (spoiler: it doesn’t involve doomscrolling)
• His leather journey—from titleholder to mentor to full-blown icon status

And because this is Butt Honestly, you know we couldn’t wrap things up without: ✨ A couple rounds of Hit It or Quit It

💗 And, of course, their Love Languages of the Week, because we’re here to uplift your heart while gently stretching your limits.

Whether you're into leather, activism, or just love a damn good conversation with a side of sass, this episode delivers. Suit up, strap in, and press play. 🎙️🍑

Welcome back to Butt Honestly, where the cheeks are always clapping. This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo are throwing open the confessional curtain for a fresh round of Ready, Set, Confess—and honey, your sins are safe with us… unless they’re hilarious, in which case we’re absolutely sharing.

But first, we dig into some listener letters. One from a Spring Bloomer who’s finally blossoming into his full, filthy self, and another from an incredible mom who’s tuning in and showing up—because this podcast is for everyone with a butt, and the people who love them.

Quick hits in our butt dial segment tackle life’s big questions, like:

• “Should I keep it in… or push it out?” (Spoiler: It depends on the setting.)
• “What’s the real prep time for PREP?” (Hint: It’s not a crockpot.)
• “Does love mean you always have to cum?” (The existential crisis we never saw coming.)

The guys also dish about :

🐻 Oso Sucia Dirty Bear After Dark Leather Ball Eleganza Extravaganza – and yes, that is the full name, and no, there will not be a quiz.

🎢 Dangilo’s Disneyland detour – because even after a leather ball, a Dole Whip hits different.

In the spirit of joy and justice, they shout out the bear event that boldly stood up for trans rights.

As always, the episode ends with their Love Language of the Week, where the feels are real and the innuendos are plentiful.

Hit play, confess your sins, and maybe… keep a towel nearby. 🍑

Bald and Bingeable is back now on the Member's Only BUTT HONESTLY POD patreon. On each episode, Dangilo guides Doctor Carlton and Producer Tony Bejerano through the pop culture landscape as they discuss movies, tv, media and gossip. On this first drop the guys get into their thoughts on the White Lotus Season 3 Finale (SPOILERS obviously), On this episode they also talk about Ru Paul's Drag Race final 4 (Tony didn't watch), Survivor 48 hunks, Midcentury Modern and what the guys are binging...ps. there is always a segment of Pedro Pascal.