(LO #68).

• • buying dates with pits teaches us to value the virtues of people, not their defects;
  • parents guiding children not with ego but with true support;
  • virtue of chessed;
  • ask a shaalah before guaranteeing a large loan;

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(BPJ #140).

• • beginning with self-awareness;
  • utilizing your past, and your relationship with your parents in the past to influence you in a healthy way as an adult;

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(BPW #131).

• • what spouses need to learn from each other sexually;
  • celebrating the differences;
  • working with each other to understand each other's physical and emotional needs;

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(EX #49).

• • Insightful talk by Rivka Sidorsky, a social worker & qualified sex therapist:
    • also talks to a secular audience, with some having had these relationships prior to marriage;
    • acknowledges that she is talking from a therapist standpoint, not a halachic standpoint, and therefore in some instances one may need to ask a rav/posek about specific things;
    • We will post lectures such as these because they have great value and contain a wealth of knowledge that can help married couples greatly, including Torah observant couples. But it will never be a perfect system, and at times, you will need to ask a shailah by a rav or ask questions and get more info on some of these points.
    • As the Chovos Halevavos says, to paraphrase, "part of being careful is not to be overly careful," and therefore, together with due diligence and prayer to Hashem for siyata deshmaya, we will NOT withhold from this group any information that can help married couples, even if it will never be a perfect system.

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(LO #67).

• • part of parenting is setting a good example for them in your own behavior;
  • being cautious regarding your environment;
  • learning from our elder teachers while respecting the fiery enthusiasm of the youth (fire in a fireplace);

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(BPJ #139).

• • 6 essential EQ/self esteem characteristics;
  • health and fitness;
  • adequate sleep;
  • healthy eating;
  • exercise are all crucial aspects of EQ that will increase your spiritual life and marriage significantly;

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(BPW #130).

• • we will never experience truly satisfying and fulfilling sex if it's disconnected from the relationship on an emotional and commitment level;
  • redefine sex by facing our unhealthy selfishness and focusing on our spouse by supporting, praising, protecting, and pleasing them;

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(LO #66).

• • be sensitive to other peoples feelings;
  • bring joy to bride and groom;
  • be concerned about using your days productively rather than chasing money;
  • protecting a person's honor;

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