Episodios

  • Becoming Lighter: The Energy Reset Zone
    Mar 28 2026

    If your home feels like a constant restart, you’re not failing—you’re carrying too much.

    In this quarter’s Becoming Lighter collaboration, I’m joined by Treenah Kight for a simple, permission-based conversation about reclaiming energy in real life. We’re talking about the Energy Reset Zone: one small, intentional space that helps reduce decision fatigue, lower the mental load, and create a softer landing when ADHD life gets loud.

    This isn’t about a perfect house. It’s about nervous system support. It’s about fewer “where did I put that?” moments, fewer unfinished loops staring at you, and more ease returning to your day.

    In this episode, we explore how to choose the right zone for your real life, how to give it one clear purpose, and how to use it as a repeatable reset—without shame, without all-or-nothing thinking, and without turning it into another thing you “should” be doing.

    If you’ve been feeling scattered, overstimulated, or stuck in reaction mode, this episode is your reminder: you’re allowed to set some of it down. You’re allowed to create support. You’re allowed to begin again.

    Song of the Episode: Dog Days Are Over by Florence + The Machine

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    12 m
  • Becoming Unmasked: Belonging Without Performing
    Mar 24 2026

    What if the version of you everyone praises is also the version that’s wearing you out?

    In this episode of Backpacking Through ADHD, Tera talks about unmasking from a very real place—not as someone who has it all figured out, but as someone who’s been high-functioning for a long time and is starting to feel the weight of it. When you’re the capable one, the dependable one, the one who “gets it done,” it can be hard to admit how much effort it takes to look that put together.

    This conversation is about the desire to unmask. The longing to stop performing your way through your own life. The exhaustion that comes from perfectionism, overthinking, over-preparing, and carrying an invisible second job: managing how you’re perceived.

    You’ll hear a grounded, honest look at:

    • What masking looks like for high-achieving women with ADHD
    • Why it can feel so risky to be real, even when you want to be
    • What belonging actually means when you’re used to earning your place
    • Small, practical ways to begin unmasking without blowing up your life

    Song of the Episode: “Unwritten” — Natasha Bedingfield

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    15 m
  • Becoming Brave at School
    Mar 12 2026

    Becoming Brave at School is about the kind of courage ADHD kids practice every day, even when no one calls it brave. In this episode, Grayson joins me as we talk about what school bravery really looks like: starting when your brain feels stuck, coming back after a hard moment, repairing when things go sideways, and telling the truth when it would be easier to hide.

    One thing teachers have praised in Grayson for years is his honesty. No matter the situation, no matter the answer, he tells the truth. And in a school environment that can feel loud, fast, and demanding, honesty isn’t just “good behavior.” It’s self-trust. It’s regulation. It’s a brave nervous system choosing connection over fear.

    If school has felt heavy for your child lately, this episode is a reminder that struggling doesn’t mean failing. It means they’re practicing skills. It means they’re becoming.

    Song of the Episode: King of the Lost Boys by Sara Bareilles

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    22 m
  • Becoming
    Feb 23 2026

    After almost two months of space, reflection, and quiet intention, a new season begins.

    In this first episode of 2026, Tera introduces Becoming — a year-long exploration of identity across generations. What does it mean to become who you are as a child navigating ADHD? What does it mean to become who you’re meant to be as a woman rediscovering herself later in life?

    This season is not about fixing. It’s not about optimizing. It’s not about performing.

    It’s about becoming.

    In this episode, Tera shares:

    • Why she intentionally stepped back before starting 2026 • The difference between reinvention and revelation • Why some creative ideas feel electric in theory but heavy in practice • Letting go of what no longer fits (including the weekly photo pressure) • Why songs — not hats — will anchor the emotional tone this year • And what it means to evolve without abandoning yourself

    As someone who loves creativity and momentum, Tera opens up about the tension between inspiration and sustainability — and why noticing that tension is growth, not failure.

    The Song of the Episode is The Story by Brandi Carlile — a reminder that who we become is shaped by where we’ve been.

    This year, each month will hold two conversations: One speaking directly to the ADHD child. One speaking to the woman rediscovering herself.

    And each quarter, a conversation about becoming lighter — in our homes, in our habits, and in what we choose to carry forward.

    We are not starting over.

    We are becoming.

    Follow, subscribe, and join the journey as Backpacking Through ADHD steps into a new season — one rooted in identity, growth, and choosing what we carry.

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    8 m
  • Episode 50: The Year of Reflection
    Jan 1 2026

    2025 was my reflection year, the year Backpacking Through ADHD began, the year I found my voice, and the year everything changed.

    In this special season finale, I’m closing out my very first year of the podcast by looking back on the journey that shaped it all. I reflect on why I started this show, what I learned about ADHD in myself and my son, how my parenting evolved, and how this community grew into something far bigger than I ever imagined.

    This episode is honest, emotional, funny, and deeply personal. I talk about the realities of producing a weekly podcast while navigating ADHD, parenting, and life — and why, while I’m not going anywhere, 2026 may look a little different as I think intentionally about sustainability and alignment for the future.

    And for the first time ever, I’m joined by my husband for a powerful closing conversation. Together, we reflect on what this year looked like behind the scenes, parenting an ADHD child, supporting each other through growth, and walking this trail as a family.

    This episode is a thank-you. A reflection. A full-circle moment.

    Thank you for being part of my first year on the trail. I can’t wait to see where we go next.

    Listen now and keep backpacking through ADHD with me.

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    54 m
  • Episode 49: Joy, Dopamine and December
    Dec 21 2025

    December can feel magical… and completely exhausting — especially for ADHD brains.

    In this cozy, fireside-style episode of Backpacking Through ADHD, Tera Greenwood slows things down and gently explores why the end of the year hits ADHD adults and kids so hard. From the dopamine chase and burnout cycle to emotional overload and decision fatigue, this episode offers compassion, understanding, and practical ways to find real joy — not the forced, performative kind.

    Together, we talk about:

    • Why December is uniquely overstimulating for ADHD brains

    • The dopamine spikes and crashes that leave us exhausted

    • How ADHD burnout shows up at the end of the year

    • What “micro-joys” actually are — and why they work

    • Simple ways to support ADHD kids when everything feels “too much”

    • Letting go of perfection and embracing softness, rest, and connection

    This episode isn’t about doing more. It’s about noticing small sparks of joy, regulating your nervous system, and reminding yourself that you don’t have to earn rest or happiness.

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    22 m
  • Episode 48: The ADHD Gift Guide
    Dec 21 2025

    December shopping with an ADHD brain is not for the faint of heart. You go in for one thing, come out with seven, forget two, and somehow still feel like you missed something important. If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you.

    In this week’s episode of Backpacking Through ADHD, I’m wearing my “That’s a Terrible Idea, I’m In” hat and taking you on a fun, honest, story-filled journey through The ADHD Gift Guide, the real one. Not the Pinterest-perfect version, but the kind of gifts that actually work for ADHD kids, adults, partners, teachers, coworkers, and yes… the gifts we accidentally buy for ourselves and pretend were intentional.

    We talk about gifts that help regulate, gifts that spark joy without adding clutter, gifts that support movement, focus, and emotional balance, and why experience gifts often matter more than “stuff” for ADHD brains. This episode is full of laughter, personal stories, and those “oh my gosh, that is so me” moments that make the holidays feel a little lighter.

    So grab a snack, settle in, and come hang out with me. This is your permission slip to shop with intention, embrace imperfection, and remember that ADHD brings creativity, magic, and connection to the holidays, even when things get a little chaotic.

    Press play and let’s backpack through ADHD together.

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    19 m
  • Episode 47: Holiday Survival Guide
    Dec 7 2025

    December is here… which means joy, chaos, glitter explosions, forgotten gifts, sensory overload, emotional intensification, and that magical moment where you decorate for 12 minutes and then mysteriously lose your entire holiday spirit. If you’re an ADHD adult, parent, or part of an ADHD family — you KNOW exactly what I’m talking about.

    In this hilarious, heartfelt holiday special, we dive into the real ADHD December experience: the vibey bursts of motivation, the time-blindness, the emotional rollercoasters, the sensory overwhelm, the “I swear I bought tape” moments, and the surprising magic that happens when we finally embrace imperfection.

    This episode is part comedy show, part hug, and part reminder that you are absolutely not alone. I’ll share personal stories (including my son Grayson’s iconic peppermint bark meltdown), research-backed insight into why ADHD brains feel holidays so intensely, and the quiet truth we all need this month:

    You don’t need a perfect holiday. You just need moments that feel true.

    We’ll explore: ✨ Why ADHD brains experience “holiday intensification mode” ✨ Time-blindness, wrapping chaos, and vibe windows ✨ Parenting ADHD kids during the most overstimulating month of the year ✨ How to take things off your plate—guilt-free ✨ Letting go of perfection and embracing presence ✨ How the “Take It Easy” mindset actually helps ADHD regulation ✨ And the magic that shows up when we stop trying so hard to make everything “just right”

    If December drains you and delights you all at the same time… this episode will feel like a deep breath and a warm laugh.

    Pour your cocoa, lower your expectations, tilt your hat to “Take It Easy,” and let’s survive this beautiful, ridiculous season together.

    Listen now and remember: you are doing enough. Truly.

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    25 m