Your attitude has a lot to do with how your child sees and responds to your direction. Check your attitude before you speak.

Are your kids also a friend? It's a balance between friendship and being a teacher.

You're learning from your kids, as much as they're learning from you. Turn to God when those speed bumps happen.

Be a better listener and you will discover who they are. Children know they have purpose in life. Set the boundaries and help them discover who they will become. Not always easy, but always necessary.

Every child is unique. And every child deserves your specific attention to address behavior issues. You can't find the solution in a book. Get to know your child and be responsive to his or her specific needs.

Kids like to please their parents. Does that surprise you? They are listening, but are you sending the right message?

You know, even God does not always respond with a resounding "yes" to each of your prayers. He knows the boundaries and he knows when to make sure you've done what's necessary to walk with Him. Before you say "yes" to the next request, talk to God, first.

Okay, it's not about you. It's about what you expect from others. And so many times, others will let you down. Do your best to imitate the Lord God. Your efforts will benefit someone. It always will. Look to God for affirmation.