This month's episode covers Debbie and my last adventure together that started at least a year before she got sick and was finished six months after her death; that was the adoption of our son, JoJo. That is the nickname Debbie gave him. I believe that God does all things with purpose and having JoJo come into our life at this time was a blessing to us both. It is fitting that his name means, "God heals."

In the process of going through the grieving process we tend to ask the questions "Why?" to help cope or make sense of the loss. My search for the answer lead me down two different paths; that of the mind and that of the heart. This month I share how I came to a possible answer to "why I found myself 46 & Widowed."

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In this monthly episode, I will be discussing the legal issues that come up after the death of my spouse as well as the emotional side following those first few days. I will share my process of handling the legal paperwork as well as speaking about how to comfort someone that is grieving. I will provide my Top 3 "What Not to Say" and end with an issue that is common but highly insensitive to anyone that has loss a loved one.

Note: If you would like for me to further explain or clarify something mentioned in the podcast send me a comment below or email me at 46andwidowed@gmail.com.

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