I Miss You When I Blink

Essays

De: Mary Laura Philpott

Narrado por: Mary Laura Philpott

NATIONAL BESTSELLER
One of Esquire’s Best Nonfiction Books of the Year
One of NPR’s Favorite Books of the Year
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“I've spent my adult life prowling bookshelves for the modern-day reincarnation of my favorite authors—Nora Ephron, Erma Bombeck, Jean Kerr, and Laurie Colwin—all rolled into one...Good news: I have finally found their successor.” —Elisabeth Egan, The Washington Post

Acclaimed essayist and bookseller Mary Laura Philpott presents a charmingly relatable and wise memoir-in-essays about what happened after she checked off all the boxes on her successful life’s to-do list and realized she might need to reinvent the list—and herself.

Mary Laura Philpott thought she’d cracked the code: Always be right, and you’ll always be happy.

But once she’d completed her life’s to-do list (job, spouse, house, babies—check!), she found that instead of feeling content and successful, she felt anxious. Lost. Stuck in a daily grind of overflowing calendars, grueling small talk, and sprawling traffic. She’d done everything “right,” but she felt all wrong. What’s the worse failure, she wondered: smiling and staying the course, or blowing it all up and running away? And are those the only options?

In this memoir-in-essays full of spot-on observations about home, work, and creative life, Philpott takes on the conflicting pressures of modern adulthood with wit and heart. She offers up her own stories to show that identity crises don’t happen just once or only at midlife; reassures us that small, recurring personal re-inventions are both normal and necessary; and advises that if you’re going to faint, you should get low to the ground first. Most of all, Philpott shows that when you stop feeling satisfied with your life, you don’t have to burn it all down and set off on a transcontinental hike (unless you want to, of course). You can call upon your many selves to figure out who you are, who you’re not, and where you belong. Who among us isn’t trying to do that?

Like a pep talk from a sister, I Miss You When I Blink is the funny, poignant, and deeply affecting book you’ll want to share with all your friends, as you learn what Philpott has figured out along the way: that multiple things can be true of us at once—and that sometimes doing things wrong is the way to do life right.

Loved it!

I enjoyed this book so much! Light and hilarious look at the ups and downs of women’s lives.

I’m old enough to be her mom, and yet

Everything she writes about resonates with my own experience. The title essay is destined to be a classic. Loved every part of this book.

So very relatable!

Every time you want to beat yourself up for some quirky behavior she will confirm that it's not just you. There's no fix in here, but it sure feels good to know you're not alone. I thoroughly enjoyed this book and didn't want it to end.

Witty and Smart

I Miss You When I Blink is a combination of “oh my gosh, you feel that way too-giggle giggle” and “I know your pain- tear tear” that makes another working mom (trying to balance family, career and the ever elusive self-care) feel like she has a tribe. Mary Laura, Thanks for your honesty and your willingness to poke fun at your own journey so I feel more normal!

Awesome

Really made an impact on me! Perhaps one reason is because I’m also a recovering perfectionist English major grad of Davidson! Excellent, authentic, articulate. Thank you, Mary Laura!

Wonderfully human

I loved listening to this book. The author describes how an imperfect life can actually be perfect. That we have everything we need even when we feel like we don’t. This book is also hilarious, witty, and shows an in depth human experience of a girl trying to get it right. Well done! I highly recommend this book!

Loved these essays!

These were so relatable. I was genuinely sorry when I finished listening. I know I'll go back and listen again and again!

Light quick read. Fun. Not too deep.

An easy, quick, and overall good read. Nothing too deep or insightful. Funny in parts. Enjoyed some essays more than others.

I laughed, I cried, I totally related

One of my favorite memoir essay collections ever. So relatable to the everyday struggles of mothers and women in midlife. Can’t wait to read Bomb Shelter next.

Very well done!

This was a collection of essays but they hung together as an overall message on various aspects of life. At times they were funny, insightful about anxiety and depression, and poignant. I definitely recommend this book.