F the Fairy Tale

Rewrite the Dating Myths and Live Your Own Love Story

De: Damona Hoffman

Narrado por: Damona Hoffman

From a popular dating coach and podcast host, a guide to dismantling the myths that get in the way of finding love

Does dating feel like you’re chasing a “happily ever after” that always seems out of reach? You’re not alone: many modern daters are stuck following old rules, hung up on ideas like instant chemistry and “the One.” In F the Fairy Tale, love expert Damona Hoffman helps readers break free of those dating myths—and write their own love stories. Drawing on nearly twenty years of experience as a dating coach, Hoffman reveals the four pillars of strong relationships: goals, values, communication, and trust. And she doesn’t just tell readers what to do or not to do—she explains why, exploring the psychological and societal factors behind our behavior to help us break free of old habits for good. F the Fairy Tale gives you the tools to create the happy ending to your love story that’s just right for you.

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“Damona Hoffman is an absolute genius because she makes us realize how to help ourselves not stay stuck and gets us on a path to understanding ourselves better. And when we clear the cobwebs of one-sided expectations and societal myths, she helps us get the clarity to move forward in a reality that is beautifully tailored for ourselves. It is a pragmatic and self-respecting place of hope with an actual road map.”

—Drew Barrymore

“As a therapist deeply invested in human relationships, I loved reading F the Fairy Tale. Hoffman shakes up conventional narratives and invites readers to take control of their love stories with relatable anecdotes, wise insights, and actionable tools to help anyone looking for authentic connection navigate the modern dating landscape.”

—Lori Gottlieb, New York Times-bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone and co-host of the Dear Therapists podcast

“Hoffman’s F the Fairy Tale is the cold shower and cup of warm tea every single needs in today’s toxic swipe culture. Not just a no-BS approach to love and dating, but also a manual that deserves a spot on every therapist’s bookshelf, to maneuver through the process and make smart decisions to set you up for a relationship with legs.”

—John Kim (The Angry Therapist), author of Single On Purpose

“If you’re serious about finding love, this is the book for you! Drawing on her deep expertise in the world of online dating and written with her signature wit and candor, Hoffman provides a clear and concise guide to modern dating.”
—Logan Ury, author of How to Not Die Alone and director of relationship science at Hinge

“In the 1980s when I began broadcasting the radio program Loveline, my goal was to help people navigate the complex biological reality of sex and relationships. Today, people confront some of the same persistent myths, as well as many new social, cultural, and interpersonal shifts that have made the romantic landscape far more complex. In a very intelligent and readable book, Damona Hoffman outlines these challenges as well as the pillars for establishing healthy connection. Based on years of her experience working with singles, this book is the compendium of what she has learned through helping people in a real-world context. Entertaining, smart, and fun; the reader will find something here that speaks to them and enhances their dating lives.”
—Dr. Drew Pinsky

very worth the listen

I like the breakdown of dating and just how upfront and straight forward she talks about it. Learned a bunch.

Lots of aha moments.

I enjoyed the relevance or the logical connections from the many examples. I want to try several of the exercises for the book.

Clarity!

Loved Damona’s straightforward clear advice. Have already recommended to friends! And used the advice on my last date and it was a good one- potential is there!

For everyone

This is a tool that is very well rounded and practical! Most importantly it’s applicable. This book encompasses very straightforward guidance that can be beneficial for anyone on the relationship spectrum ( not interested to married for many years) can benefit from Damona’s meaningful work! Thank you 💚

Dr. Sandreea Durham, PhD, LMHC

Don’t throw in the towel on dating just yet…

A must read for all singles every where! I loved the examples and actionable steps to understand the why we do or should do certain things in dating. This book is my go to on repeat. Soaking in all the goodness that is to be had and can’t wait to see how these learns change my dating experience. I was dead set on giving up on dating but now I am going into it with better perspective and clarity all thanks to this book!

Shattering Dating Myths

In ‘F the Fairy Tale,’ Damona Hoffman, the voice of our times, shatters traditional dating myths, challenging notions of instant chemistry and soulmates. Can’t wait to see if a workbook follows!

Overcome cultural flaws that have emerged in the age of social media

It can be easy to be discouraged by dating in the modern age. This book gives you a blueprint for changing your mindset/beliefs and being intentional about the life you want. It’s going to take work to change these things.

Very Sound Advice and Shared Wisdom

F the Fairytale was a very insightful and instructive book. I listened to it through audible and that added an even better experience, due to Damona’s great story telling style and appealing voice. The mix of expert data, letters from readers, and personal anecdotes provided a rich and relatable experience, and you come away feeling like you’ve survived the trenches and will win the war! I just completed course work to become a certified relationship coach and not only did a lot of Damona’s information align with what I learned in my course, I learned a few new things as well! I have been listening to her podcast, Dear Damona, ever since and will continue to use her as a resource (cited of course😊) with my own clientele. Brava Damona and thanks!

Cynthia J.

A great guide to modern dating

I loved this book, it gave me the knowledge and the confidence to get back out there and try dating again. I love Damona’s style and knowledge, and that she uses research to back what she says!